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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:34:23 AM   
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You mean my cell!
It's weird to me that I have to teach what English words mean. it is a big difference between cage and cell, I thought you knew.


Not according to the dictionary you love best.

Definition of cage
noun
a structure of bars or wires in which birds or other animals are confined:
she kept a canary in a cage
figurative
his cage of loneliness
a prison cell or camp.
an open framework forming the compartment in an elevator.
a structure of crossing bars or wires designed to hold or support something.
Baseball a portable backstop situated behind the batter during batting practice.
(in hockey and other games) a goal made from a network frame.
an indoor athletic facility with areas fenced off for security.


http://oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/cage

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:46:01 AM   
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It's not me who define English words, it makes the common perception of a word.
So I can not just call things what I like, I've got to stick to the common perception of a word.
It. is. basic English
If I were to begin to define my own words how the world would not look like?

Definition of money


Worthless paper that you give to the Dane who collects paper:

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:49:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

You mean my cell!
It's weird to me that I have to teach what English words mean. it is a big difference between cage and cell, I thought you knew.


Not according to the dictionary you love best.

Definition of cage
noun
a structure of bars or wires in which birds or other animals are confined:
she kept a canary in a cage
figurative
his cage of loneliness
a prison cell or camp.
an open framework forming the compartment in an elevator.
a structure of crossing bars or wires designed to hold or support something.
Baseball a portable backstop situated behind the batter during batting practice.
(in hockey and other games) a goal made from a network frame.
an indoor athletic facility with areas fenced off for security.


http://oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/cage


Safe to say it`s cell, but you forgot to look that up.

Definition of cell

a small room in which a prisoner is locked up or in which a monk or nun sleeps:

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:51:08 AM   
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a prison cell or camp.


can you see it, or should i really comment on that

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:53:07 AM   
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fr

Just a tip for those who are worried about giving the encaged a means of escape. Freeze the key into a big block of ice and leave the ice within reach of the cage. Eventually, it will melt, the key will be available (probably not in time for the escapee to get out and call 911 to save you.. but, them's the risks.)

Blindfolds and ear plugs (or headphones playing the Barney Loves You if the caged is also being punished) can keep the victim.. er.. bottom .. guessing as to whether or not you are actually in the room.



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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:56:26 AM   
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fr

Just a tip for those who are worried about giving the encaged a means of escape. Freeze the key into a big block of ice and leave the ice within reach of the cage. Eventually, it will melt, the key will be available (probably not in time for the escapee to get out and call 911 to save you.. but, them's the risks.)

Blindfolds and ear plugs (or headphones playing the Barney Loves You if the caged is also being punished) can keep the victim.. er.. bottom .. guessing as to whether or not you are actually in the room.




What about a ice dildo?

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 11:08:56 AM   
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What about a ice dildo?


Ice dildo's (and ice anal plugs) melt really fast - I would worry then the key is trapped inside of the body cavity so it wouldn't be my first choice.

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 11:53:29 AM   
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it is a big difference between cage and cell


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

quote:

a prison cell or camp.


can you see it, or should i really comment on that


you slammed for people not knowing definitions.... you didnt know them yourself. As shown, its not different at all.

You chose the words, the examples... a cage isnt all that different from a cell... in fact... it is considered the same.

Not all cells are cages.

Its like... all little girl's are children, not all children are little girls.





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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 11:54:50 AM   
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Blindfolds and ear plugs (or headphones playing the Barney Loves You if the caged is also being punished) can keep the victim.. er.. bottom .. guessing as to whether or not you are actually in the room.


Vicious woman

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 6:04:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

it is a big difference between cage and cell


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

quote:

a prison cell or camp.


can you see it, or should i really comment on that


you slammed for people not knowing definitions.... you didnt know them yourself. As shown, its not different at all.

You chose the words, the examples... a cage isnt all that different from a cell... in fact... it is considered the same.

Not all cells are cages.

Its like... all little girl's are children, not all children are little girls.








Definition of cage
noun
a structure of bars or wires in which birds or other animals are confined:
she kept a canary in a cage

Definition of cell
noun
a small room in which a prisoner is locked up or in which a monk or nun sleeps:

I can understand that not all who speak English, can understand what they say, but I did not know it was that bad.
I hope you can see the difference between cage and cell, it can be very difficult for others
people to communicate with you if you can not understand the words you use.

No. I do not define words, there are other things that define words, as time and history the use of words the common usage of the word.

If you learn to understand the meaning word, then know others what you are talking about.
If you do not learn the meaning of words so that people will misunderstand you throughout your life.



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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 7:03:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

Definition of cage
noun
a structure of bars or wires in which birds or other animals are confined:
she kept a canary in a cage

Definition of cell
noun
a small room in which a prisoner is locked up or in which a monk or nun sleeps:

I can understand that not all who speak English, can understand what they say, but I did not know it was that bad.
I hope you can see the difference between cage and cell, it can be very difficult for others
people to communicate with you if you can not understand the words you use.

No. I do not define words, there are other things that define words, as time and history the use of words the common usage of the word.

If you learn to understand the meaning word, then know others what you are talking about.
If you do not learn the meaning of words so that people will misunderstand you throughout your life.




First of all, you're only giving a partial definition of the word "cage". The full definition is:

cage |kāj|
noun
a structure of bars or wires in which birds or other animals are confined: she kept a canary in a cage | figurative : his cage of loneliness.
• a prison cell or camp.

Secondly your wooden cage is NOT "a small room in which a prisoner is locked up" because it's NOT a room.

This is because the definition of a room is:

room |ro͞om, ro͝om|
noun
2 a part or division of a building enclosed by walls, floor, and ceiling: he wandered from room to room.
• (rooms) a set of rooms, typically rented, in which a person, couple, or family live: my rooms at Mrs. Jenks's house.

Your wooden cage is NOT "a part or division of a building enclosed by walls", instead, it's a part of a room that's partitioned off from the room it's in by a structure of wooden bars, devised to confine (human) animals in.

As in:

Definition of cage
noun
a structure of bars or wires in which birds or other animals are confined

Honestly, your inability to read your own definitions is getting a bit ludicrous, especially that through all your poor, ill-grammared, spelling mistake written posts and profile, you're now claiming to lecture English when you obviously don't even have basic fluency in that language down...

If you still can't get it through your thick skull that you're acting like an idiot, I can pull you up two dozen references of instances where in common usage English "cage" is used synonymous for '"cell". Police district drunk tanks come immediately to mind.

On top of all that, you STILL haven't answered by question:

If you where mistakenly thinking that I was referring to your metal cage instead of your wooden cage, then why did you say that your METAL cage has metal UNDERNEATH the wood? In which of your two cages do you have metal underneath wood?

< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 7/4/2013 7:11:32 PM >


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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 7:07:52 PM   
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quote:

I can understand that not all who speak English, can understand what they say, but I did not know it was that bad.
I hope you can see the difference between cage and cell, it can be very difficult for others
people to communicate with you if you can not understand the words you use.


It would be great if you could communicate in English, but we have to work with your limited abilities.

I have no problem seeing the difference....

A cage can be a cell....

Im not sure what problem you are having with that.

Perhaps Ishtar cleared that up for you.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 9:09:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

quote:

I can understand that not all who speak English, can understand what they say, but I did not know it was that bad.
I hope you can see the difference between cage and cell, it can be very difficult for others
people to communicate with you if you can not understand the words you use.


It would be great if you could communicate in English, but we have to work with your limited abilities.

I have no problem seeing the difference....

A cage can be a cell....

Im not sure what problem you are having with that.

Perhaps Ishtar cleared that up for you.



Used in a sentence
The guard said to the prisoner "Go back into your cell"
The guard said to the prisoner "Go back into your cage"

The girl put her bird! in its cage.
The girl put her bird! in its cell.

Other good examples are
Birdcage
Birds cell
Tiger cage
Tiger cell
'Ask yourself. Do you have any prison, in the United States where prisoners sit in a cage?
Or do you as the rest of the civilized world, put the prisoners in cells?
When you go to a Pet-shop
Do you buy a Birdcage or a bird Cell?

Here you can see the difference between cell and cage, this is how it look like. to the rest of the world when you do not live in a parallel universe where you can make your own definition of the word
Cell
Cage
It's weird enough that I have to teach English when English is my second language.
If you want more lessons, I suggest you give me your Paypal account, and start to pay for tuition.

And people are wonder why the jobs moving to China and India! Jesus Christ


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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 9:48:10 PM   
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I do like Bondage and being immobile. Probaly one of my more personal favorite kinks. With a kink like that, it is important to at least have a idea who it is that would be tying me up.

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 9:49:07 PM   
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yeah he probably has things in place just in case. What they are, you would have to ask him. I never concern myself about it since I'm the type of person who feels if something happens it happens. If I die, I die. Life/death happens.

I've been left alone in bondage (not by Master) and I'm still alive. Master doesn't sit beside me while I"m bound though. He'll go out and smoke a cig, go watch tv, play on his computer in the other room, clean up, etc....again, I'm still alive.

I think people overthink all this and worry way, way more than they should have to.

If I had to worry this much about something I like to do and is something that helps me to relax it would make the whole activity worthless for me.

And if I thought he was sitting around being worried about it too it would ruin it for me because then I couldn't relax because he's concerned. This should be fun and relaxed for us, not something we have to sit around and say "ok, now i better never leave her side or she might die".



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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:23:40 PM   
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Safe to say it`s cell, but you forgot to look that up.

Definition of cell

a small room in which a prisoner is locked up or in which a monk or nun sleeps:


I didn't forget to look that up, I posted that definition several posts ago.

I've also never said it's not a cell. In fact, I've said from the beginning that in English, both in common usage, as well as according to dictionary definitions, I can correctly be called either a cage OR a cell.

You're the one arguing a dual definition doesn't apply, when I and others have clearly demonstrated that's incorrect.

Don't shove your poor reading comprehension off on me, I'm not saying it isn't a cell, I'm saying it's both a cell and a cage.

Now, again, why did you say that there is metal under the wood on your metal cage?

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:35:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


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Safe to say it`s cell, but you forgot to look that up.

Definition of cell

a small room in which a prisoner is locked up or in which a monk or nun sleeps:


I didn't forget to look that up, I posted that definition several posts ago.

I've also never said it's not a cell. In fact, I've said from the beginning that in English, both in common usage, as well as according to dictionary definitions, I can correctly be called either a cage OR a cell.

You're the one arguing a dual definition doesn't apply, when I and others have clearly demonstrated that's incorrect.

Don't shove your poor reading comprehension off on me, I'm not saying it isn't a cell, I'm saying it's both a cell and a cage.

Now, again, why did you say that there is metal under the wood on your metal cage?

Photos tend to work when you teach children language.




Did you look at the google results? That should give you a clear picture of what is common perception of Cell and Cage

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:40:14 PM   
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Photos tend to work when you teach children language.


You could have just answered the question several posts ago.

And those aren't studs. They're slats.

So again, when I said that I would break the wooden studs on your cage, it should have been painfully clear what I meant.

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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:41:19 PM   
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Tazzy,
Arturas was right, I would die without him, I would be crushed and void. Yes I would go on for O/our children, but there would a major empty hole inside me forever. Something no one could ever fill.
Yes, I would continue to raise O/ our children like He was still here, for their sake and for His and for mine.


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RE: Bondage/Confinement Ethics and Preparedness. - 7/4/2013 10:44:34 PM   
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You say that now but believe me, you would eventually learn to go on and even be happy again with someone else.

I used to say the same thing after my husband died. We have a daughter together and we were childhood sweethearts, growing up around the corner from each other.

When he died I grieved for many, many years and my life was hell but ya know, I met Master about 10 years later and now I'm happy again and enjoying my life with him just as much as I enjoyed my life with my husband.

If something happened to Master I would probably feel the same way again until I met someone else.

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