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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/27/2006 6:44:07 PM   
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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/27/2006 7:03:01 PM   
thisishis


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Status: offline 		Thank you, Dusty. It's good to see you are still here too.
i hadn't gone anywhere. For a while, i just kept to the other side (and as always, wandered about at other sites). After a bit, i poked in here to read, sometimes more than not.
i wasn't 'gone'. i just made a choice to not post. Now i've made the choice to post a bit, again.
Lurking can be fun though. No one ever disgrees with me when i lurk and keep my opinions to myself. heh ...

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/27/2006 9:44:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Caretakr

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

It isn't the size of the vessel, it is if the vessel can get you where you need to go in a comfortable way. I find people that are healthy and active and confident are the most attractive to me... The body is nothing but a vessel to get us around in life, I prefer someone that has paid attention to that vessel and nourished it and exercised it and taken care of it... it really doesnt matter what size is it does it?


The vessel can be quite attractive,but not if it's filled with vinegar.


Beauty is only skin deep.. oh yes very true! I just plan on living long enough to get really old and wrinkly and ugly... being fit and my mate being fit is a part of that for me... thats all. If you are overly thin you may not be healthy, same goes with being overweight. You can be fit and be thinner or heavier than average. I am an active person, I enjoy the outdoors and so does my dominant. It is no reflection on anyone else that I enjoy active people in my life. I do not think it is shallow to want to have someone who values being fit and active.

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 5:32:00 AM   
Tashacurly


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Status: offline 		You know...I figured I'd give my two cents, and start posting a little more. This damned shyness, lol. Anywho...
On the subject of thinness. I've made it no secret here that I have eating disorders. I am obese, if you want to get clinical about it...meaning that at standing a mere 5'3, I am around 290lbs. You know what, I'm not ashamed to say that either, as some people are. I'm a mixture of EDNOS and Bulimia, and have been sense around the age of five or so.
Now mind you, some people assume if you have an eating disorder...it is because you *want* to be thin...and perhaps in some ways I did, but that isn't want caused my disordered eating nor thinking. I'll tell you the truth....when I was at my sickest with these diseases....I just wanted to dissapear, to not exist. So I went from starving to purging, to abusing laxies and diet pills, damn near causing me a heart attack to state the least. Another major reason behind the disorder...was that I wanted to lose the weight, cause I thought it would make my breasts/female indentifiers go away....cause somewhere in the back of my mind, I blamed those factors for the reason I was being raped and abused. Go figure.
Now, that I'm getting better, trying to live in a more healthy way....I see that being thin is no different than being bigger. People are people. I'm not gonna hate myself just so I can be the size of some other woman/man. I don't understand where is should matter if you are thin or not, that...perhaps I'm old fashioned...even at the age of 23, but I think that the PERSON is what matters, not the looks...hence the reason I've not put a photo up of myself, or of my master and lord...as the three of us agree, if we meet someone, that we click with then they may see us, as we'd perfer not to get the attention from folk just interested in looks.
It would be nice to see a woman for a change who has a healthy ideal of whom she is, and not whom society would demand her to me.

Tasha

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 5:50:02 AM   
gardenbluebird


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Status: offline 		Of the three basic body types, mesomorph (muscular), ectomorph (willowy), and endomorph (curvy), I am mesomorph and I prefer other mesomorphs.  I find that energy level is similar and that body type is just what attracts me most.

All three body types can be over or underweight, but the underlying type never changes.  I prefer someone who is near the top of the healthy BMI range or higher due to muscle mass.  That being said, personality counts for a lot more than weight.

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 6:35:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		What I've said elsewhere about personality over-riding the physical stands, however there ARE limits and frankly I have a greater tolerance on the upper end of what I can find attractive size wise than on the lower/skinnier end.

I do like a bit of meat on My bone


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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 8:03:16 AM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I do not find the very thin attractive, now this is just me as I know many people do like subs/Doms are are extremely thin. But for me the sight of seeing the ribs or bones just under the skin doesn't do a darned thing for me. In my female subs I love curves and a set of lovely breasts and on my men I like some muscle but not so taut it doesn't have some give to it.

What do others think about the very skinny?



While I do have appreciation for a certain level of voluptuousness, I in fact enjoy thinness; it's beautiful on a human body in either sex. Delicate jaw lines, the barreled comb of the ribs, snake-like waists and the repeating undulation of the vertebrae constitute a moving image of organic beauty. When artfully malnourished, the human animal is an exquisite machine to behold, particularly to see kneeling and trembling in submission.

A slave should outwardly reflect its humbled status in flesh; its form should not suggest greediness, gluttony or any lethargic vice. Brutally disciplined and possessionless, slaves should be generally thin and light-footed, delightfully easy to push around, stuff in cages or fit under tables. Their bodies should be as beautiful as they are gracefully efficient; they should not take up any more space than they need. That's my preference, at least.





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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 9:16:37 AM   
TxBadMan


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Status: offline 		Everyone has their own personal preferences. For myself, I perfer the active, trim, healthy kind of girls; though I would not say that 'skinny' is what I am attracted to.

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 9:42:37 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		Personally, I'm not attracted to skinny people. I'm also not attracted to obese people either.

My preference is for a woman that is either proportionate to slightly over weight (or willing to get that way under my guidance)

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 9:43:33 AM   
Raye


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Status: offline 		well, my Lady is very slim,and its very hot on her.I am more plush,and its very hot on me. Whats hottest, though,is She on Me!
Because I do not care if my sub boys are big or not,as long as they can crawl to me....its all good.
If we dont care,as has been said, why are the avatars that are most used thin?hmmm,well I am my own avatar,usually,lol.

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 10:33:38 AM   
Caretakr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I do not find the very thin attractive, now this is just me as I know many people do like subs/Doms are are extremely thin. But for me the sight of seeing the ribs or bones just under the skin doesn't do a darned thing for me. In my female subs I love curves and a set of lovely breasts and on my men I like some muscle but not so taut it doesn't have some give to it.

What do others think about the very skinny?



While I do have appreciation for a certain level of voluptuousness, I in fact enjoy thinness; it's beautiful on a human body in either sex. Delicate jaw lines, the barreled comb of the ribs, snake-like waists and the repeating undulation of the vertebrae constitute a moving image of organic beauty. When artfully malnourished, the human animal is an exquisite machine to behold, particularly to see kneeling and trembling in submission.

A slave should outwardly reflect its humbled status in flesh; its form should not suggest greediness, gluttony or any lethargic vice. Brutally disciplined and possessionless, slaves should be generally thin and light-footed, delightfully easy to push around, stuff in cages or fit under tables. Their bodies should be as beautiful as they are gracefully efficient; they should not take up any more space than they need. That's my preference, at least.






I agree,there is a certain charm to having a slave one can pick up and toss about-without getting a hernia doing it.

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 11:17:21 AM   
agirl


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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I do not find the very thin attractive, now this is just me as I know many people do like subs/Doms are are extremely thin. But for me the sight of seeing the ribs or bones just under the skin doesn't do a darned thing for me. In my female subs I love curves and a set of lovely breasts and on my men I like some muscle but not so taut it doesn't have some give to it.

What do others think about the very skinny?


I just have to think how very differently this thread would be being responded to if you had worded it like this:

I do not find the very fat attractive, now this is just me as I know many people do like subs/Doms that are extremely fat. But for me the sight of seeing the rolls or cellulite just under the skin doesn't do a darned thing for me. In my female subs I want thin waistlines and small, firm breasts and on my men I like lean muscle that is so taut it doesn't have any give to it.

What do others think about the very fat?

The other thread regarding being "overweight" turned into a complete fiasco in record time and the OP didn't even state his preferences....just simply asked a question. So why is it that it seems acceptable to talk about "skinny" but not about "fat"?

Why aren't all the underweight people coming to bash the OP?


I really can't work out why entirely.

I've been fat, I AM slim.....I have one female sprogling who's fat and one of my male sprogling's ribs are visible even when he breathes out...... none are sensitive about it.

It SEEMS, by the general posting, that being over-weight is a far more sensitive issue than being skinny/slim.

We are pretty un_PC as a family overall.... we tease each other about fatness, being skinny, having stretch-marks, being old, colour,..... why should we care? ......We are loved........................ as a mixture of fat, thin, white skin, black skin, youth, big tits, small tits, pretty, plain, amusing, dour, aged, geeks, fuck-wits, financially fucked, financially sound, idle ,active, academically gifted and artistically bound.

I am wondering if the furore is because .....*there is a fair share of overweight women in the scene*.........lol......( That was lighthearted, by the way)
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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 11:29:30 AM   
MsIncognito


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ORIGINAL: zumala

 So I figure it's bad form to pick on someone regardless of their size.


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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 11:41:02 AM   
agirl


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ORIGINAL: MsIncognito

My thoughts exactly.

quote:

ORIGINAL: zumala

 So I figure it's bad form to pick on someone regardless of their size.



Was anyone *picked on*?

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RE: Underweight subs/Doms - 6/28/2006 1:01:58 PM   
Kedikat


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ORIGINAL: zumala

I offered to smack people who wanted to pick on small boobs.  Does that count?

zuma


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