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RE: HELP! What do you do when the disrespect your fines... - 7/27/2006 10:39:15 AM

IndigoDadesi

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Maybe Im just confused, but you sound like someone with serious control issues and I dont mean in a good way. Ive been with my slave for almost 4 years now and it would still have to be a serious occasion to make me talk to him like that.

I guess she could really get off on being chastised like that, but I would think if you are trying to cultivate a relationship you might want to start by building trust.

If I were her (and obviously I dont know the whole relationship up to this point, so I could be mis-judging the situation) that email would send off all sorts of red-flags.

But I really have to ask, what did you hope to accomplish by posting here?

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RE: HELP! What do you do when the disrespect your fines... - 7/27/2006 12:55:34 PM

DoctorDubious

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ORIGINAL: IndigoDadesi

But I really have to ask, what did you hope to accomplish by posting here?

Hey All,

I appreciate the forum posts, flames,
and private emails. Having considered 'em....

Guess it's just time for me to
put a paper bag over my head
and put the Gong Show reruns on.......

DD

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RE: HELP! What do you do when the disrespect your fines... - 7/27/2006 1:33:42 PM

paynestar

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Ahhh.....back to NeverLand. <sigh of relief>

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RE: HELP! What do you do when the disrespect your fines... - 7/27/2006 5:11:07 PM

Vancouver_cinful

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Dr.D.,
It took a reply or two before your true intent was recognized, but I understand your point about not tolerating any self-denigrating comments, no matter how small. I learned from experience that is one of the most effective ways to stop the negative self-talk that leads to continued low self-esteem.

A lot of people with esteem issues masquerade their feelings as self-deprecating humour, and as long as we are allowed to say things like that, we continue to feed the low-self-esteem demon.

I have a very hard line with everyone I know. I don't tolerate comments like that. I'm with you on that.

Good job on standing by your principles.

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RE: HELP! What do you do when the disrespect your fines... - 7/27/2006 9:41:24 PM

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As someone who has had the honor and great pleasure of actually meeting the good Doctor Dubious, I would like to say that I found the post as arousing as the man, himself...which is to say very arousing, indeed. Those with eyes will see that his reaction furthers the well-being of the submissive as well as his own.

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