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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 5:06:26 PM

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Well you can say that if it makes you feel better, but it doesn't change the fact that I'm right. You really DO need a reality check. This message board is part of the problem. You really think this is somehow a level-headed, reality-based discussion of kink issues?

Of course you do! You post ALL THE TIME. This is a significant part of your life and your identity.

But I know you won't think about that. You'll be thinking about how to tell me I'm an idiot who just doesn't get it. ANYTHING other than dealing with 30-40 years of issues and repressed guilt.

Would you like a shovel? Digging a hole that big by hand can't be comfortable.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 5:30:04 PM

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Well you can say that if it makes you feel better, but it doesn't change the fact that I'm right. You really DO need a reality check. This message board is part of the problem. You really think this is somehow a level-headed, reality-based discussion of kink issues?

Of course you do! You post ALL THE TIME. This is a significant part of your life and your identity.

But I know you won't think about that. You'll be thinking about how to tell me I'm an idiot who just doesn't get it. ANYTHING other than dealing with 30-40 years of issues and repressed guilt.

Would you like a shovel? Digging a hole that big by hand can't be comfortable.

I must've missed something. Lady P I admit I didn't read all 10 pages of the thread. I'm not sure what you're referring to.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 5:38:54 PM

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What does a person posting frequently have to do with it? Dude, I play WoW. Quite often, I might add. Doesn't make it part of My identity. It means that's what I do to pass the time.

Your post leads others to believe that you presume others have repressed guilt. It's not the case. Heck, I'm a sadist. I don't apologize to people for engaging in the activities that I enjoy. I do it for fun. Other people play tennis or waterski. I don't grok on the same stuff they like but it doesn't mean that they don't.

You don't like the stuff that I do. Does that mean I should have guilt over it?

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 5:55:52 PM

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What does a person posting frequently have to do with it? Dude, I play WoW. Quite often, I might add. Doesn't make it part of My identity. It means that's what I do to pass the time.

Your post leads others to believe that you presume others have repressed guilt. It's not the case. Heck, I'm a sadist. I don't apologize to people for engaging in the activities that I enjoy. I do it for fun. Other people play tennis or waterski. I don't grok on the same stuff they like but it doesn't mean that they don't.

You don't like the stuff that I do. Does that mean I should have guilt over it?

Uh, I don't know what to say, Lady P. I don't completely understand your post but you seem like a nice person and I support you. If I've contributed at all to this meltdown, I apologize. Folks, I'm a complete asswipe sometimes.

Ignore me.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 6:10:35 PM

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It's not a meltdown, hon. (Though I won't say I'm in favor of you trying to perpetuate things about Me that aren't true. That's not a nice thing.)

To Me, there really isn't a difference if other folks base their kinks on money, or needles, or power, or sex, or play. I do what I do for the reasons that I do it. Like it or not, that's exactly why you do what you do. Those reasons don't have to be the same.

What happens quite often about these discussions is, there are some bitter, angry people out there. The same folks who wouldn't be bitter and angry if their wants were being met. Yet, these are the same folks who aren't willing to invest what it takes to *get* those wants met. Money, time, social skills, physical attraction, distance, inconvenience.

We used to have a great poster here who passed away a few years ago. Male sub who would often ask folks to respond on threads, not about what they wanted, but what were they actually willing to *do* (remember "do" is a verb that implies action) about obtaining their kink. Lots of excuses about how it's too much or too hard. Not many how are willing to get off their ass and be PROACTIVE about what they want.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 6:15:20 PM

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It's not a meltdown, hon. (Though I won't say I'm in favor of you trying to perpetuate things about Me that aren't true. That's not a nice thing.)

To Me, there really isn't a difference if other folks base their kinks on money, or needles, or power, or sex, or play. I do what I do for the reasons that I do it. Like it or not, that's exactly why you do what you do. Those reasons don't have to be the same.

What happens quite often about these discussions is, there are some bitter, angry people out there. The same folks who wouldn't be bitter and angry if their wants were being met. Yet, these are the same folks who aren't willing to invest what it takes to *get* those wants met. Money, time, social skills, physical attraction, distance, inconvenience.

We used to have a great poster here who passed away a few years ago. Male sub who would often ask folks to respond on threads, not about what they wanted, but what were they actually willing to *do* (remember "do" is a verb that implies action) about obtaining their kink. Lots of excuses about how it's too much or too hard. Not many how are willing to get off their ass and be PROACTIVE about what they want.

Thanks for that. Glad you're not angry and bitter. Glad there's no meltdown. You rock, LadyP!!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 7:20:31 PM

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I'm starting to think he takes medication. Seriously.

No cut down intended. Because you go from telling ppl they are jobless whores to I'm sorry forgive me.

Are you fucking crazy? Like seriously? If so, then I apologize for any offensive thing I said. I stand by my argument of fin Domme, but was moreso referring to the name calling. I see that you have an excuse now if the answer to my question is yes.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 7:47:06 PM

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Thanks for that. Glad you're not angry and bitter. Glad there's no meltdown. You rock, LadyP!!

I'm just happy doing what I do, as I feel all people should be.

Kind of the point, isn't it?

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/27/2013 8:38:40 PM

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I'm starting to think he takes medication. Seriously.

No cut down intended. Because you go from telling ppl they are jobless whores to I'm sorry forgive me.

Are you fucking crazy? Like seriously? If so, then I apologize for any offensive thing I said. I stand by my argument of fin Domme, but was moreso referring to the name calling. I see that you have an excuse now if the answer to my question is yes.

I was trying to be gentle, nice and not condescending.

Everything in my universe isn't D/s.

Sorry if it is in yours, but we've already established we live in different worlds.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/28/2013 2:59:37 AM

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I read this in the NYT on SAT. This is from the art theft case. The Romanian art thief got started by hooking his girlfriend up as a kinky contact for hire. This has to be common here on CM as well (not art theft, but girls for hire.)

When Mr. Dogaru first left Carcaliu for the Netherlands last year, he left behind a reputation for brawling and small-time banditry but gave no indication of a career ahead as a world-class art thief.

Soon after his arrival in Rotterdam, Mr. Dogaru took an unorthodox turn in his quest for new and brighter horizons: He registered his girlfriend, Natasha Timofei, then 18 and a former star pupil at Carcaliu’s village school, on kinky.nl, a pornographic Web site that bills itself as a “prostitution marketplace.”

While the girlfriend made about $2,655 a week from clients — about four times the average monthly salary in Romania — Mr. Dogaru and two Romanian friends spent their time pimping, pumping iron and robbing houses, according to the indictment.

But then they set their sights on a more ambitious goal: stealing masterworks of 19th- and early-20th-century art from the Kunsthal museum.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/28/2013 3:34:19 AM

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I'm starting to think he takes medication. Seriously.

No cut down intended. Because you go from telling ppl they are jobless whores to I'm sorry forgive me.

Are you fucking crazy? Like seriously? If so, then I apologize for any offensive thing I said. I stand by my argument of fin Domme, but was moreso referring to the name calling. I see that you have an excuse now if the answer to my question is yes.

I was trying to be gentle, nice and not condescending.

Everything in my universe isn't D/s.

Sorry if it is in yours, but we've already established we live in different worlds.

Show me the nice, gentle and not condescending. I'm interested to see that.

I never said everything in my life was D/s. however it's a big part of it. Not sure what that has to do with anything.
Finally, something we agree on....we are DEFINITELY living in two different worlds.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/28/2013 6:21:28 AM

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K, there is only one response worth making to dink (aside from ignoring him).

Bless your heart.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/28/2013 7:32:12 AM

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