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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/19/2013 3:23:13 PM

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*revs up the flouncing*

Everyone here is a fake!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/19/2013 4:50:50 PM

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Didn't mean it MissKitty, you ladies always stick together :-(.

Simper, simper, whine :-).

I wish I had MasterC's gravitas, you lot are always pushing me around!!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/19/2013 5:39:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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I know I am absolutely, positively disgusted with financial Dommes. Cause only men are dumb enough to pay for it. Don't know too many financial Masters out there. Come on you female types. Start shelling out already!

Wow.

Sometimes I can be such a pill. As soon as I read that (and I'm not kidding), I immediately thought I should setup an Amazon wishlist and get you to "gift" me something just so I could say "not true" LOL.

I totally would have!
And where have you been? I've missed your postings.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/19/2013 6:32:14 PM

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Wow what so you mean with the younger bdsm crowd, I understand most profiles are of younger people but that's because there trying to hit new people with the idea you have to give money. Do you really think there the age or event sex there profiles say they are...?

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/19/2013 8:26:10 PM

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I totally would have!

I didn't doubt that for a moment. You have exactly that sort of sense of humor. That's why I it made me laugh when I thought of it.

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And where have you been? I've missed your postings.

Real life has been keeping me busy. Like a freakin idiot I made some dumbass promises about saving the volunteer org we're associated with and now everyone seems to expect that I actually succeed.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/20/2013 2:55:12 AM

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Well, don't stay away long!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/20/2013 3:19:12 PM

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This subject has been frustrating me for a long time and it is only getting worse with the new and younger BDSM crowd.

This subject is money. It seems that in this day and age 4 out of 5 so called Dommes or Mistresses are really just women who found a way to extort money. Most Dommes I approach ask for money first and then they'll talk to me. Most of the younger "Dommes" actually state that right off the bat. Saying things like, "I am a financial Domme, Not into pain, humiliation, servitude. I just want your wallet". Thats a Domme? Thats a girl who found an easy way to make a buck and she doesn't even have to do anything to make it. Pro-Dommes at least Dominate, do something, this new breed just wants to sit and receive checks in the mail.

I am so fed up with this that I have been quitting BDSM dating after dating site. I think these are pretty good websites, except for what they are there for. Meeting real genuin people.

I have been complaining about this on CM forever. But I gave up. I kept being told what an idiot I was, what a "whiner" I was and how my complaint was laughable. I came to the conclusion after several years that it wasn't CM. Femdom itself was 99 percent a fraud.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/20/2013 4:34:02 PM

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So, when will you start dating vanilla chicks?

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/20/2013 4:53:20 PM

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Seriously, K, you're basically a good woman. How do you steer yourself through all this?

Maybe you should write a sticky entitled: "How to recognise a good findom" (or similar) and direct complainants to it. After all, it must tire you out writing this stuff so often.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/20/2013 5:00:03 PM

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I have been complaining about this on CM forever. But I gave up. I kept being told what an idiot I was, what a "whiner" I was and how my complaint was laughable. I came to the conclusion after several years that it wasn't CM. Femdom itself was 99 percent a fraud.

Hmmm, because you haven't gotten lucky over a period of YEARS, then the entire institution of Femdom is a fraud...sure, that seems likely. It doesn't seem personal to you at all now does it?

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/20/2013 7:26:36 PM

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What I'm waiting to see is someone advertising that they'll massage your profile to get you the results you want. Waitaminnit...That's actually not a bad idea. And I wouldn't have to do a ducklips selfie, either.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 10:34:32 AM

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FR,

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Meanwhile, on other threads, do not make personal attacks or disparage the kinks of others. See Collarme.com Forum Guidelines

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 12:10:49 PM

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Unlocked. Please see the above before continuing to post.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 12:13:00 PM

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Unlocked. Please see the above before continuing to post.

Some days I think I should try harder to post inflammatory stuff just because I like looking at your avatar so much.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 1:02:49 PM

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poise gets the credit!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 2:32:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

*revs up the flouncing*

Everyone here is a fake!

I am beginning to think CM likes it that way.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 7:42:35 PM

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Maybe some younger "Fin Dommes" are real Dominant Women who are just young and inexperienced. Maybe they think showing the "middle finger" and demanding money is what being a "Domme" is suppose to be about. I agree with what your saying OP but there are also plenty of guys who do seek these "Fin Dommes". I think some "FinDucks" are just looking for a quick buck and then maybe some just get confused about being a 'Domme" is. Either way, who cares. They aren't effecting my life in anyway.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 8:17:54 PM

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What I'm waiting to see is someone advertising that they'll massage your profile to get you the results you want. Waitaminnit...That's actually not a bad idea. And I wouldn't have to do a ducklips selfie, either.

I've actually been coaching a few on CollarMe to help them attract the right Dominant for them. I've even made some efforts at matchmaking if I knew some whose interests seem to line up...I'm not doing it full time though. It's still a headache.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 9:21:15 PM

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*revs up the flouncing*

Everyone here is a fake!

I am beginning to think CM likes it that way.

There's a common denominator here

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/21/2013 10:04:22 PM

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I am beginning to think CM likes it that way.

If you're asking me to choose between a bunch of "fakes" and a bunch of pompous asshats telling me how to "do it right" then you're correct. I like the fakes.

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