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Slaveboytoy2 -> I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 9:55:58 AM)

I am new to this lifestyle and everything but it seems to me that there is a line between controling me and being a usless bloodsucker.



Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:04:03 AM)

Bothering to answer you when you continue to post threads like this and don't seem to take any suggestions, is fruitless for us. Are you just looking to get beat up on the forum or what?



Slaveboytoy2 -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:06:14 AM)

What are you talking about i made changes people suggested all i did is ask a question.



myotherself -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:06:51 AM)

I disagree with your title.

First of all, there are no girls on CM. There are women. If there ARE girls on CM then you need to report them to admin because they shouldn't be on here until they're adults.

Secondly, have you approached EVERY woman on CM to ask whether they're after your woman? If not, then your "90%" figure is really just a random number pulled from...wherever.

Thirdly, as you're new to the lifestyle I'll give you a bit of advice. If you're looking for a dominant female on here, you want to represent yourself as being worth knowing. One of the first thing any serious dominant woman might do is to look at your forum posts. Whining is really not going to make you appear like a positive person.


Make yourself look like the kind of person a dominant woman might want to spend time with, and then learn patience. You've only been on here for a few months - of course it's going to take time to find the right person! Whining about it is only going to make the wait even longer.



SeekingTrinity -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:08:41 AM)

OP, I really think you need to get off the one trick pony you are currently riding and branch out into other subjects. You do realize that any potential can click a link on the other side and see what you post over here, right? I myself am not into financial stuff and I wouldn't want to spend all my time listening to someone else bitch about it all the time either.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:10:55 AM)

The important thing about this thread, is that it's a unique topic. No one has ever before mentioned it before.

That's why there is not a big red sign saying DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! at the top of every email.

OR a link to common online scams.

I'm so glad the OP brought it to our attention.



mnottertail -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:17:49 AM)

OPie, you are wrong.

Extensive analysis demonstrates quite clearly that the actual number is:

93.1415926535 8979323846 2643383279 5028841971 6939937510 5820974944 5923078164 0628620899 8628034825 3421170679 8214808651 3282306647 0938446095 5058223172 5359408128 4811174502 8410270193 8521105559 6446229489 5493038196 4428810975 6659334461 2847564823 3786783165 2712019091 4564856692 3460348610 4543266482 1339360726 0249141273 7245870066 0631558817 4881520920 9628292540 9171536436 7892590360 0113305305 4882046652 1384146951 9415116094 3305727036 5759591953 0921861173 8193261179 3105118548 0744623799 6274956735 1885752724 8912279381 8301194912 9833673362 4406566430 8602139494 6395224737 1907021798 6094370277 0539217176 2931767523 8467481846 7669405132 0005681271 4526356082 7785771342 7577896091 7363717872 1468440901 2249534301 4654958537 1050792279 6892589235 4201995611 2129021960 8640344181 5981362977 4771309960 5187072113 49999999 . . .%

Your estimate will not be close enough for the girls you wanna go out with . . .



LadyPact -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:30:03 AM)

The OP did at least take one suggestion that was given to him. Just saying that in fairness.

However, OP, darn near all of your threads are about the lack of finding what you are looking for. There's nothing wrong with the idea of starting threads to get advice on how to improve, but you're probably not going to get far with a random complaint about those into financial domination. I know you are young, so unfortunately for you, there is going to be quite a number of females in the age group you are probably looking for that are going to have this particular kink. (Sorry to generalize, but the 18-25 bracket does have fin kink in rather high numbers.)

There are two ways you can improve your frustration with this. One is to hide/block any profiles that come across through your search feature that mention finances. The site gives you the ability to do this and it isn't terribly difficult. The other is to get involved in your local community where the scale of those looking to be fin dommes is considerably less. Both of these will take effort on your part.



Slaveboytoy2 -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:31:53 AM)

I understand my numbers are not exact and im not looking for a real answer i simply put it out there to see how folks react. I'm not bitching



lizi -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 10:57:24 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Slaveboytoy2

I understand my numbers are not exact and im not looking for a real answer i simply put it out there to see how folks react. I'm not bitching


How we would react is by figuratively throwing up our hands and letting you know that we've heard this viewpoint 5 gazillion times already because there are so very many men out there who want a pretty young woman to please them sexually, can't find one to do it for free, and come here with what they think is a new topic and set up their complaint.

LadyP tried to give you some info, let me see if I can expand on that somewhat.
There are a shit ton of men on here, subs, slave, switches, Doms....they're all over the place. Men flock to sites like this, women not so much. Men see kinky sex advertised, and think it promises them easy, sexy women. Women are more like, meh, I can get sex whenever I like, big freaking deal. Also, men tend to be more fixated on particular sexual acts.

Also, there simply aren't as many women into kink, there are fewer kinky women out there, and therefore fewer that come to this site.

Also, there are fewer women into the Domination side of kink. Do you see how the available pool of women is shrinking...?

Yes, there are opportunists here just like in life too. There is a ripe market for exploitation with the uneven balance of kinky women who Dominate, to men who wish to have that. There simply are not enough women to go around. So what happens? Human beings are creative creatures who see opportunity, and they fill in the need by supplying the demand. Plus, some men WANT to be exploited for money, it is a genuine kink albeit one that is not generally understood by the people who don't engage in it.

In the end, yup, there are a lot of young women (or men posing as women) asking for money from eager men who wish to get their rocks off. You are fighting a difficult battle trying to find a youngish attractive woman to Dominate you. It doesn't mean you have to give up, but it's a topic that's been done literally to death and it's not going to change in the foreseeable future since the people driving it, THE MEN, don't seem to be giving up their quest for kinky pussy anytime soon. If one guy gets frustrated and quits looking, 50 jump on in his place. It's not ever going to be any different unless guys quit pushing the market.



UllrsIshtar -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:03:58 AM)

If you're only finding women who want you're money, you're either looking for the wrong type of woman, or looking in the wrong way.

I told you when you mailed me that with a profile as empty and non-descript as you're you weren't going to have a lot of women interested in you.

On top of that, you mailed me a one-liner, without reading my profile, and the one-liner you mailed was as boring as they get.

If you repeat this pattern with other women, you're never going to get a real woman to reply to you, because you're just not worth their time. They get mailed 20 times an hour (at least) and only reply to mails coming from men with an interesting intro, and interesting profile. If they take the time to reply every time a guy like you mails them, with no profile, and a mail devoid of content, they'd be doing nothing but answering mails all day long.

So you're excluding the possibility of an actual lifestyle Domme mailing you.

Meanwhile, the ones after money DO have a purpose in mailing you, because who knows, they may be able to get some money out of you...

So what YOU are doing is self selecting by the type of profile you have, by the fact that you don't read women's profiles before contacting them, and by sending out meaningless one-liners, to ensure that ONLY women interested in money will mail you back, and lifestyle Dommes will NOT mail you back.

Considering that you rigged the reply rate you're getting in such a way that you're predominantly going to be mailed back by women who want money, it's no wonder that it seems to you as if 90% of the women on this site want money... after all, you're purposefully selecting for them...



hrxxx -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:08:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
I disagree with your title.

First of all, there are no girls on CM. There are women. If there ARE girls on CM then you need to report them to admin because they shouldn't be on here until they're adults.

Secondly, have you approached EVERY woman on CM to ask whether they're after your woman? If not, then your "90%" figure is really just a random number pulled from...wherever.

Thirdly, as you're new to the lifestyle I'll give you a bit of advice. If you're looking for a dominant female on here, you want to represent yourself as being worth knowing. One of the first thing any serious dominant woman might do is to look at your forum posts. Whining is really not going to make you appear like a positive person.



I disagree with you. When a girl is younger than me, she is a girl. A girl becomes only a woman when she's older than me.



Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:09:59 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx


quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

OP, I really think you need to get off the one trick pony you are currently riding and branch out into other subjects. You do realize that any potential can click a link on the other side and see what you post over here, right? I myself am not into financial stuff and I wouldn't want to spend all my time listening to someone else bitch about it all the time either.



I disagree with you. When a girl is younger than me, she is a girl. A girl becomes only a woman when she's older than me.


ROFLMAO! Everyone is entitled to their opinion. I must laugh at this one. god.



SwitchNSpanky -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:15:04 AM)

Yeah bro. Your right. Most chicks your age are not self aware enough to know the kinks they posess but have always denied. Most kink gals you meet in your age group think they hit the mother load in FinDom. And those same ladies have the forum by the balls. Cuz there are some very legit FinDoms out there and as a result we don't want to toss the baby out with the bathwater. But yes. Loads of young hookers using the net to avoid a real job.

Yet. More than one poast has mentioned you complain in most threads you start. Why is that? I can't claim it would help you find miss right. There are lots of crituques of profiles on here that the ladies have done. Go check them out and take that advice an run with it. I'm told this site has a ton of dudes and few female Doms so the compition sound fierce.

Good luck finding your Lady.


And PS. Maybe try the older Ladies. They are more in tune with what they want and often more streight up. Least in my experiance.



mnottertail -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:17:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I disagree with you. When a girl is younger than me, she is a girl. A girl becomes only a woman when she's older than me.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGvMjgLXBi0



lizi -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:23:49 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I disagree with you. When a girl is younger than me, she is a girl. A girl becomes only a woman when she's older than me.


Ridiculous. So a woman of 37 is a girl purely because she is younger than you are? What about if we're talking about the OP, who happens to be 23, is this same woman a girl in that context?

Come on. If you truly did understand English the way you claim, you'd see that the posters here were talking about the age of adulthood in this country- which is 18. If it's your view that TO YOU, a female is a girl if she is younger than you are, then you need to learn how to present your opinions as that and not as encompassing statements for everyone else in the world.




Lucylastic -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:28:18 AM)

Snorts @ Rawni

To the OP
You want want you want....thats fair enough, we all like to get our own way
But coming to the boards and getting upset because all you seem to find is women looking for your money is not the way to get things changed, you have to be proactive, not expect the readers of the forum to change it for YOU.
Hang out on the boards, read, ask questions... if you make it less about a kink delivery system into an interest in what people think and understand about your "likes and needs" you will have more luck making sense of how to bypass the ones you DONT want cluttering up your mailbox.
Good luck and take in some of the excellent advice given by some good people *posts above this one*



hrxxx -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:29:44 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Slaveboytoy2

I am new to this lifestyle and everything but it seems to me that there is a line between controling me and being a usless bloodsucker.



I've actually only met two in here who was looking for money, a bit strange they both were porn stars. Perhaps there is not as much money in porn, as here on collarme



mnottertail -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:32:35 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Snorts @ Rawni

To the OP
You want want you want....thats fair enough, we all like to get our own way



It's what I been sayin all along girl...................

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zb4JY2mr-_Y



Lucylastic -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 11:36:18 AM)

Back then I knew compromise was a definite advantage:) But yeah you have darlin!!!



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