LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: metamorfosis There seems a curious disconnect between the consensus on this thread, which can be summed up as, "Don't involve other people in your kinks without their consent." and this argument: quote:
I really didn't think I was pushing anything 'in peoples faces' by posting on a specialist website like this one, where people only join the thread by choice. versus the consensus on this thread...(Why BDSM isn't Abuse) www.collarchat.com/m_4331233/mpage_1/tm.htm ...which can be summed up as, "By entering, you have implicitly given your consent to being exposed to other people's kinks, and if you have any problem with that you bear the responsibility to ignore, report, block, or just leave." and the OP's argument that people in videochat should not impose their kink (specifically humiliation) on everyone without regard for consent. Any thoughts as to why there is such a difference? Might be linked to exactly what Chi said was the reason this went to Off Topic. This post makes Me think that it's a "the submissive is always right" issue. When it was a submissive who said they didn't want to be drawn into other people's kink, which I didn't think was really displayed in the evidence on a thread, that should be correct. (Considering the OP's behavior on that thread, I have serious doubts about that being the way it went down.) Yet, when a submissive starts a thread that darn near every Domme on the thread thought was fishing for wank fodder, that should be ok, too, because it's a submissive doing it.
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