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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 7/31/2013 11:42:22 AM   
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The reason guys like Weiner and Spitzer play chicken with their career is simple: there's a thrill in risking it all for marginal gratification. Some folks in positions of authority like to push the envelope as much as possible, it's like doing a six-gear wheelie on a crotch-rocket down a side street. You know you shouldn't do it, but you can't help yourself from trying anyway.


This behavior becomes harder for me to process when considering his age and the capital it took to hold political office. I am getting less averse to risk and more attuned to losing what I have (in middle age now.) In regards to this thread, it helps lend support to the idea that men have special needs, body issues, and esteem problems when it comes to sex and relationships. An outlier like the OP might not be as far from the norm as we think, but I understand the majority's need to quickly dismiss him. They just don't like his kink or orientation.

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/1/2013 2:19:19 AM   
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the plural of penis is dicks.

I though the plural of board member was dicks?

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/1/2013 2:43:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
An outlier like the OP might not be as far from the norm as we think, but I understand the majority's need to quickly dismiss him. They just don't like his kink or orientation.

Since this is the second time you tried this ploy, I'll ask you the question for the second time.

Can you please show Me a single comment on this thread where anybody said they didn't like small penis humiliation? Considering how many female Dominants are on this thread, it's laughable to try to pull that people don't like his orientation.



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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/1/2013 5:20:29 PM   
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Hello everyone,

This may seem like a strange question, but having recently chatted to a couple of other weak males with small penis's, I wonder if there is a link between cock size, confidence, success, and power.

I have a very small penis, and I need people to laugh at it, and hurt it (including men with normal sized penis's). I wonder if men with real cocks are more succesful because of the confidence and success with women they have.

This is just curiousity, because as a wimp with a 1 inch willie, I know I will never be more than a toilet and slavepig for my superiors.

Slave dogshit.

xxx



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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/1/2013 7:54:50 PM   
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No one says they are a bigot. Same here. The responses were driven by a dislike and an intolerance. Same thing happened on the diaper thread. You jumped all over this OP like he committed some kind of crime.

The hostility was palpable.



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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/1/2013 8:25:32 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Here are the links to My two responses on the AB/DL thread:

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4501517

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4504080

Both are based on answering the OP's questions and were on a thread that even had Mod intervention. If I had been saying nasty things about that person's kink, don't you think they would have been pulled? The second reply is very much based on bad reactions that I have seen AB and DL have folks over the years. For some reason, folks who like certain kinks want to cajole, plead, or have a bad attitude towards those that don't enjoy them, even when there are logical reasons for those who don't want to participate in the kink explain that to them. For what it's worth, no, I don't believe for a second that folks who like DL don't already know that many people don't want to engage in that kink because they changed enough diapers raising their children or it was a task that they had to complete due to a work related position.

It's not being a bigot to express that a person does not want to engage in a certain kink. Do you consider yourself a bigot for your hard limits? Maybe it's only bigotry when people don't like kinks that you like or can identify with because, as you say, they aren't popular? Perhaps it's just a way to sling mud when people don't want to provide wank fodder whether it happens to be one of their kinks or not?



Edited for a repeated phrase. Not going to edit for the part that was removed by another in the prior comment.


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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/1/2013 9:14:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only true barriers you face are the ones placed there by the nature of your particular fetish.

If there were a cheap, nonsurgical option to permanently gain significant endowment, it would be widely known. It would be on the front page of every paper and chrome would automatically autocomplete every letter you type in the search bar to "Did you mean: free way to permanently alter the size of your penis at will with no bodily harm or ill effects ever?"

Similarly, if there were statistically significant correlations between endowment and success, funding would dramatically shift towards making the former a reality. We live in an age riddled with body insecurity. The plastic surgeons and pharmaceuticals would do absolutely ANYTHING to have this in their pocket. I guarantee it.


In truth, being less endowed means you may run up against some geometrical limits (particularly if you're attracted to BBW, or if the woman you are with has recently had a child).
But, as another poster mentioned, you also have an easier time with some requests where being over-endowed would quite possibly cause serious, irreparable harm. And above all, more important than anything else is the fact that (as countless others have mentioned) if the relationship exists beyond the sex, then endowment will most certainly matter less. You can still please each other.

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/9/2013 4:43:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
An outlier like the OP might not be as far from the norm as we think, but I understand the majority's need to quickly dismiss him. They just don't like his kink or orientation.

Since this is the second time you tried this ploy, I'll ask you the question for the second time.

Can you please show Me a single comment on this thread where anybody said they didn't like small penis humiliation? Considering how many female Dominants are on this thread, it's laughable to try to pull that people don't like his orientation.




Well, in all fairness:

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And for these subs who think this sort of "i'm pathetic" mentality is ATTRACTIVE to Dominants, think again. Many of us are looking for a sub with the self confidence to have fun and not worry about what others think...but who knows, perhaps you'll find a so-called "dominant" with low self esteem who feels they need a "pathetic" person to boost their own morale.


I can't think of a clearer denunciation of a humiliation fetish.

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Every lifestyle dominant I know can't be bothered with "little dick" syndrome, and would never take on a partner whose belief in this was sacrosanct. We seek the man behind the apparatus, whatever it's dimensions.


In other words, no real dominant would consider someone with a penis humiliation fetish. Having a penis humiliation fetish makes a person shallow.

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Not only is your view of yourself tainted, but your view of women is as well. You may belittle yourself, but when you start implying that women are small minded about cocks, I'm going to call you on that. We like big brains, and a man's cock has nothing to do with it unless he loses brain cells to his cock.


Ironically, this person condemns the OP's views while generalizing every bit as much herself. Where are the hoards of people jumping in to correct her?

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In fact, once you're out of high school, nobody cares how big it isn't. It isn't about the size of it that makes someone a good lover. It's whether or not they pay attention to their partner instead of being a self centered ass.


Not only is small penis fetish for high school students, but having one is equivalent to being a self centered ass.

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Whatever. Emotional health and well being is where it's at for me.


Because having a small penis humiliation fetish is obviously emotionally unhealthy.

And let's not forget:

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Op, duuude.....get some therapy.


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As for the OP... please consult a good therapist. You don't have issues, you've taken out a full subscription.


Sorry, LP, but i think this thread shows ample evidence of prejudice against humiliation as a fetish, and small penis humiliation specifically.

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/9/2013 8:10:09 AM   
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It's not being a bigot to express that a person does not want to engage in a certain kink. Do you consider yourself a bigot for your hard limits? Maybe it's only bigotry when people don't like kinks that you like or can identify with because, as you say, they aren't popular? Perhaps it's just a way to sling mud when people don't want to provide wank fodder whether it happens to be one of their kinks or not?


Its a question of social tact, bigotry, and underlying bigotry. A person with a minority, frowned upon kink feels ostracized and disconnected enough without those hating his interest sending out the B52s to drop a full load on him. Then, to add insult to injury, blame the OP for all the bombs you drop upon him. Plus, b/c he's a minority, it's easy to fly in formation with others who are also turned off. A larger group thinking the same way tends to legitimize the behavior of it constituents.

Here the mods actually transferred the thread out of BDSM, where it actually belongs, into off topic discussion. It was just amazing. Even they missed what was actually happening.

I have certain prejudices for sure -- but I try to keep them to myself -- which doesn't make me less prejudiced or bigotted --- that's just me trying to demonstrate social tact and consideration for others.

Minorities who experience rejection all the time don't need others piling on when they try to stick their heads out.

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/9/2013 8:33:55 AM   
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Here the mods actually transferred the thread out of BDSM, where it actually belongs, into off topic discussion.


If we think the purpose of a thread is to get wank fodder, off to Off Topic it goes.

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/9/2013 8:35:01 AM   
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Here the mods actually transferred the thread out of BDSM, where it actually belongs, into off topic discussion.


If we think the purpose of a thread is to get wank fodder,

Ya think?

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/9/2013 9:57:00 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Good Morning, pam. I appreciate the time you took to go back through the thread. I didn't really see them the same way that you did. Different perspective.

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And for these subs who think this sort of "i'm pathetic" mentality is ATTRACTIVE to Dominants, think again. Many of us are looking for a sub with the self confidence to have fun and not worry about what others think...but who knows, perhaps you'll find a so-called "dominant" with low self esteem who feels they need a "pathetic" person to boost their own morale.


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I can't think of a clearer denunciation of a humiliation fetish.

For example, there is this. There's a difference between a fetish that is a fun, play oriented thing and an overall mental attitude. Since the OP's original question was about being inferior in every way, I would have to think that it extends beyond a fetish and the poster that you quoted was reflecting that.

For what it's worth, female Dominants see this a lot. The stereotypical "worthless worm" type of porn sells really, really well and a lot of men with only exposure to that type of porn, rather than knowing people involved in female led relationships, think that is the mental attitude that Dommes want. Humiliation is fun for play or within a dynamic but when it effects other areas of life, it's not as much fun anymore. Then you are just dealing with somebody with low self esteem. Not a great characteristic in a partner, whether they are kinky or not.


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In fact, once you're out of high school, nobody cares how big it isn't. It isn't about the size of it that makes someone a good lover. It's whether or not they pay attention to their partner instead of being a self centered ass.


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Not only is small penis fetish for high school students, but having one is equivalent to being a self centered ass.

I think you drew a completely incorrect equivalent there. What the poster is saying is that, regardless of the size of the member, attentive partners can be good lovers. How satisfied a woman is going to be with sexual performance relates to a number of other factors than just how many inches a male has. Just like the opposite isn't true when guys think that just because they are well endowed automatically equates them to being good lovers.

As for the remark about high school, I saw that as the poster referencing the time frame when the majority of folks are actually having the opportunity for others to know the size of somebody's penis in non intimate settings. Other than high school gym showers or similar situations, how often are men really naked around other groups of males? You might be able to extend that to folks who are in the military or have done some other type of long term community living, but otherwise, just how many males are in settings where other people actually know the size of their penis?

Now, this part could just be Me, however it is My opinion. If a fetish becomes a negative influence in a person's life, that's not necessarily a good thing. If it's effecting a person's job performance or social interactions, that might be something that a person wants to look at. If a person believes that the size of his penis makes him inferior in every way, that might be something they could use some work on.




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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/9/2013 10:34:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ancient greeks thought men with large penises to be half animal critters, and small penises were most desirable. I'm not terribly well endowed, but I am very strong.

My take on it is that, if a woman is too stretched out and ruined to be pleased by my penis, I've always got a fist. I'm all for being humiliated for my penis size by a domme (and it might even be average looking at studies, despite me having been led to believe it's on the small side.) But that's just because I like humiliation play. In reality a woman that can't get off on a close to average sized penis is the one with the physical problem. (You can't have sex with a horse then expect to go back to humans. :P)

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/29/2013 6:07:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a large cock and at one time would have agreed. A few years ago i found it a turn on to show pictures of my cock though and it all turned around. This one girl showed my cock to everyone and didn't care if I liked it or not. She said it was big and therefore needed to be shown a round. I became totally submissivw to her and all girls, have been totally exposed and am not shown around in panties, bras, girls jeans, dresses...whatever they decide. Often stripped in front of them after but totally denied any pleasure or release. Completely submissive with a fully exposed large cock.

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/29/2013 7:54:40 AM   
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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/29/2013 9:18:09 AM   
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Let me say definitively for all time in answer to the OP: Yes!

Edited cause the apostrophe goes before the t!!

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RE: Are men with small cocks inferior to women and othe... - 8/29/2013 9:52:45 AM   
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I have a large cock and at one time would have agreed. A few years ago i found it a turn on to show pictures of my cock though and it all turned around. This one girl showed my cock to everyone and didn't care if I liked it or not. She said it was big and therefore needed to be shown a round. I became totally submissivw to her and all girls, have been totally exposed and am not shown around in panties, bras, girls jeans, dresses...whatever they decide. Often stripped in front of them after but totally denied any pleasure or release. Completely submissive with a fully exposed large cock.




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