RE: The cock and your throat

RE: The cock and your throat (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive

Message

wittynamehere -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:35:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Sometimes you just have to ask yourself...what's more important...oral sex or your relationship. Nonsense. Relationships INCLUDE sex, and sex includes oral sex. If the oral sex is important and it isn't there, the sexual aspect of the relationship is broken, and the relationship isn't ideal. You can't say that it's about oral sex OR the relationship, when both are interrelated and connected.

littlewonder -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:39:57 PM)
No they're not. They CAN be but it doesn't have to be. I like oral sex on me. Master doesn't like to. So what? I've learned to live without it. Our relationship doesn't seem to suffer nor do I. It's just one type of sex.

Sheela22 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:41:01 PM)
I did ask him couple of times when we first started having sex. He reluctantly gave me 2-3 minutes ( max) each time . I realized that's something he really doesn't enjoy so I stopped asking.

theshytype -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:48:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sheela22 There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out I'm not a huge fan of receiving. I can live with or without it. The only part I enjoy is the intimacy, the fact that I'm so open I'm just short of embarrassed. Those feelings can be brought on by something else, so it's not necessary. Mine, however, loves doing it which makes it more enjoyable. As far as when performing oral sex on him, the thoughts going through my mind are usually centered around pleasuring him.

Missokyst -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:51:36 PM)
I don't care for oral sex performed on me. IDK.. feels like what I imagine a snail sliding over my tenderbits. It is not appealing at all. But me giving oral sex? I enjoy the reaction. I like feeling that small amount of power over someone for a while. But, as I am also masochistic I do enjoy it when I am not in control even more. Taken, forced, gagging in desperation while my mouth is plundered ..... definitely a preference.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 6:09:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince Thanks but is there a preference in there somewhere? Depends on my mood. Do you eat the same thing every time, with the same motivation?

UllrsIshtar -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 6:11:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sheela22 quote: ORIGINAL: getoutnow quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar "What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.) What a wonderful reply and so true. As a Dom male, I really dislike blowjobs. I find them utterly boring. Unless of course, its the sadistic kind where I am in control, full on face slapping, hair pulling, cock down the throat sort of blowjob. That I get off on as I am using her rather then getting the act as a source of pleasure. Yes, guys who don't like bjs exist as to women who dislike men/women going down on them as well. There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out I hate oral. I've tried it several times, with various partners, in various ways, at various ages thinking that there must be something enjoyable about it I've not yet discovered, but nope... don't like it. I much rather get myself off, or have him use a hitachi on me.

Winterapple -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 6:32:51 PM)
I'm not thinking anything when his cock is in my mouth. I'm as one with the cock. I suppose worshipful would be the best word from the choices you gave. It's a dandy cock. Til my previous partner I was indifferent to having oral performed on me. It was something I tolerated for the most part. That I had guys who licked me like they were trying get to the tootsie pop center probably didn't help. But my guy loves it and is very, very skilled at it. So, I'm finding it very pleasurable and enjoy recieving it now.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 6:42:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst I don't care for oral sex performed on me. IDK.. feels like what I imagine a snail sliding over my tenderbits.... I fear I am going to remember this visual at the very worst moment [sm=gaah.gif]

poise -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 6:42:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock... I'm not sure what the heck is going on in my mind, but it certainly makes me extremely wet, and I'm almost guaranteed to orgasm without any vaginal stimulation.

getoutnow -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 6:44:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar or have him use a hitachi on me. I've been reading a few of your postings. Just know for saying that you have a fan [:)] I love using an hitachi on women... so fun and cool at the same time. [:D]

Sheela22 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 7:13:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Sheela22 quote: ORIGINAL: getoutnow quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar "What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.) What a wonderful reply and so true. As a Dom male, I really dislike blowjobs. I find them utterly boring. Unless of course, its the sadistic kind where I am in control, full on face slapping, hair pulling, cock down the throat sort of blowjob. That I get off on as I am using her rather then getting the act as a source of pleasure. Yes, guys who don't like bjs exist as to women who dislike men/women going down on them as well. There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out I hate oral. I've tried it several times, with various partners, in various ways, at various ages thinking that there must be something enjoyable about it I've not yet discovered, but nope... don't like it. I much rather get myself off, or have him use a hitachi on me. It really depends on the partner. My ex loved eating me out and he was amazing at it. With my current partner he doesn't like eating out and those a few minutes he gave me were not really good . But He uses Lelo ( http://www.lelo.com/news/lelo-to-launch-insignia-range-of-luxury-waterproof-vibrators) on me thou and I love it

MrRodgers -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 7:37:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock... I'm not sure what the heck is going on in my mind, but it certainly makes me extremely wet, and I'm almost guaranteed to orgasm without any vaginal stimulation. Now you're talking.

MrRodgers -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 7:38:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Winterapple I'm not thinking anything when his cock is in my mouth. I'm as one with the cock. I suppose worshipful would be the best word from the choices you gave. It's a dandy cock. Til my previous partner I was indifferent to having oral performed on me. It was something I tolerated for the most part. That I had guys who licked me like they were trying get to the tootsie pop center probably didn't help. But my guy loves it and is very, very skilled at it. So, I'm finding it very pleasurable and enjoy recieving it now. See, another suck...cess story.

DesFIP -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 9:24:54 PM)
I'm focused on giving him pleasure. Not on humming the National Anthem. I like to hear him groan which shows I'm giving him a great deal of pleasure. Or have him grab my hair to help me give him what he needs. As far as receiving. He rarely does it. The few times he has have mainly been when I've been tied on a desk and he could sit in the chair. I think otherwise his back hurts. And I like it a lot if only he doesn't decide he wants to bite. One bite and I tense up.

hlen5 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 9:34:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst I don't care for oral sex performed on me. IDK.. feels like what I imagine a snail sliding over my tenderbits. It is not appealing at all. But me giving oral sex? I enjoy the reaction. I like feeling that small amount of power over someone for a while. But, as I am also masochistic I do enjoy it when I am not in control even more. Taken, forced, gagging in desperation while my mouth is plundered ..... definitely a preference. QFT!! Get out of my head!![:)][;)][:)]

sexyred1 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 10:15:52 PM)
Ok, a big fan of oral sex performed on me. As for a relationship not needing oral sex, maybe for some, not for me. Sex is a two way street so any guy not liking to go down, is not for me at all. And sometimes a want is as important as a need. As for what is going through my mind when a cock is in my mouth? Well, pretty much what lw said, I know I am going to get fucked in a few so I enjoy the fact that he is getting rock hard, the harder to fuck me with. And it is not always the same; it is only super special when I am totally into a guy who loves to be rough about it. No "nice" blow jobs here.

CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/12/2013 12:59:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Winterapple I'm not thinking anything when his cock is in my mouth. I'm as one with the cock. I suppose worshipful would be the best word from the choices you gave. It's a dandy cock. Til my previous partner I was indifferent to having oral performed on me. It was something I tolerated for the most part. That I had guys who licked me like they were trying get to the tootsie pop center probably didn't help. But my guy loves it and is very, very skilled at it. So, I'm finding it very pleasurable and enjoy recieving it now. Winter, Well that sums it up, methinks. CP

CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/12/2013 1:02:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock... I'm not sure what the heck is going on in my mind, but it certainly makes me extremely wet, and I'm almost guaranteed to orgasm without any vaginal stimulation. poise Then I would say that cock has down it job well! CP

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/12/2013 3:20:40 AM)
quote: :Sheela22 quote: : getoutnow Yes, guys who don't like bjs exist as to women who dislike men/women going down on them as well. There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out Yeah I hate it. If it never happens again for the rest of my life, it'll be too soon.

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 4 5 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.03125