UllrsIshtar -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/12/2013 1:39:04 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince UlrsIstar, pay or gift? the end is the same. CP No it's not. When the guy thinks of it as a 'gift' bestowed on his woman, the end result is a self-entitled smug guy who feels that he's already done all he needs to do because of this lovely 'gift' he just bestowed on her (while she did all the work). When the guy realized that cumming is noting more than an involuntary physical discharge resulting directly from all the loving time, effort, and attention his woman has just bestowed on him, the end result is a man who feel happy, loving and grateful for having a woman who has so graciously focussed on making him happy making him now want to focus on returning the gesture. 'Gift' versus 'pay' is the difference between 'self-entitled prick' and 'attentive lover'. At least taking any kind of D/s play of the style of 'this is all about me, she's only here to serve and doesn't deserve to get off herself' out of the equation, which still doesn't make a guy's ejaculation a 'gift', it makes it something he's forcing her to take, regardless of whether she wants to or not.
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