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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 7:56:04 PM   
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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 8:01:33 PM   
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Master is in control of everything...including when and how he comes. I couldn't torment or tease him if my life relied on it! He'd just make up his mind to not cum until he's ready and that's just how it is. Sometimes it can be frustrating lol.


He is a Man of Steel, huh?

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 8:08:01 PM   
getoutnow


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Status: offline 		It's easy to be in control. Its all about how you do it with your sub.

I once had a sub who I was always so forceful with, she literally entered subspace after the first slap across her face with me right in her throat. By the end of it she'd come round and not know how she'd done. Of course, under my direction she was always most excellent.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 8:16:56 PM   
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Master is in control of everything...including when and how he comes. I couldn't torment or tease him if my life relied on it! He'd just make up his mind to not cum until he's ready and that's just how it is. Sometimes it can be frustrating lol.


He is a Man of Steel, huh?


I always liken him to the Buddhist monks who are so deep in meditation that nothing at all moves them. Yup, that's Master.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 8:39:50 PM   
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Master is in control of everything...including when and how he comes. I couldn't torment or tease him if my life relied on it! He'd just make up his mind to not cum until he's ready and that's just how it is. Sometimes it can be frustrating lol.



You just suck.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 8:50:27 PM   
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It's easy to be in control. Its all about how you do it with your sub.

I once had a sub who I was always so forceful with, she literally entered subspace after the first slap across her face with me right in her throat. By the end of it she'd come round and not know how she'd done. Of course, under my direction she was always most excellent.


Slap across the face when giving bj? sounds super hot. I have never even heard of it before and no guy ever done that to me. Sounds hot thou

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 8:54:49 AM   
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Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!



It's hardly a surprise when a guy's ejaculating considering that there are half a dozen telltale signs that it's about to happen. Only the most inexperienced of women could ever be surprised by it.



Yeah, totally not a suprise...nor do I consider it a gift. I freaking worked to make it happen.


As to the original post - I'm usually think, 'God, I hope he doesn't make me gag or try to suffocate me with his cock.' While I enjoy breath play on occasion, it has more to do with hands on my throat or mouth and nose, not by blowjob.

Gagging is something I have to work at not doing with a "normal" blowjob and the kind where they like to make you gag? Ick. I had one person who enjoyed blowjobs to the point of making the person giving it vomit a bit.

Being the one with the cock rammed down her throat to that degree and having many moments of not being able to breathe kinda takes the pleasure out of it for me personally. I hate being dirty and vomitting is disgusting. Now I did enjoy it in the sense that he enjoyed himself but that was it. I don't want a repeat performance of that experience.


Vanilla,

There is not a thing wrong with asking that he uses shallow thrusts.......... there is no extra pleasure on the cock with a deep thrust.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 9:00:03 AM   
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I'm rather surprised that so many were willing to give you fap fodder, OP


searching,

And why is that, the forums are for general discussion on D/s interactions.
Some make meaning full contributions and other are just buffoons and we accept the mix.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 9:07:34 AM   
CelticPrince


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UlrsIstar,

pay or gift? the end is the same.

CP


No it's not.

When the guy thinks of it as a 'gift' bestowed on his woman, the end result is a self-entitled smug guy who feels that he's already done all he needs to do because of this lovely 'gift' he just bestowed on her (while she did all the work).
When the guy realized that cumming is noting more than an involuntary physical discharge resulting directly from all the loving time, effort, and attention his woman has just bestowed on him, the end result is a man who feel happy, loving and grateful for having a woman who has so graciously focussed on making him happy making him now want to focus on returning the gesture.

'Gift' versus 'pay' is the difference between 'self-entitled prick' and 'attentive lover'.

At least taking any kind of D/s play of the style of 'this is all about me, she's only here to serve and doesn't deserve to get off herself' out of the equation, which still doesn't make a guy's ejaculation a 'gift', it makes it something he's forcing her to take, regardless of whether she wants to or not.



UllrsIstar,

Well you do have your opinion and I respect it, but I thing there is a bit too much Fem "D" logic mixed in there.
There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 9:15:30 AM   
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Well you do have your opinion and I respect it, but I thing there is a bit too much Fem "D" logic mixed in there.


That would be absolutely shocking, considering that I'm not a Fem "D"....

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 9:46:00 AM   
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I'm rather surprised that so many were willing to give you fap fodder, OP


searching,

And why is that, the forums are for general discussion on D/s interactions.
Some make meaning full contributions and other are just buffoons and we accept the mix.

CP


Because it sounded, to me, as if you were asking for more than general discussion.


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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 10:41:50 AM   
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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP


That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 10:51:57 AM   
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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP


That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.


umm, no?
You'll find that there's a group of people who like just about everything in any possible way if you look hard enough. The description about subs existing with that attitude is plain and simple truth. i know because i'm one of those subs :P


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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 11:09:00 AM   
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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP


That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.

Tell that to an ex of mine who would frequently orgasm without touching herself if I came in her mouth.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 11:16:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well of course there are people who like every dang thing! It's the smug, "I'm giving you a gift" nonsense that has irritated me. Please. There are at least as many subs who would consider it a punishment. Most folks, I would expect are somewhere in between... and as Ish noted early on, different reactions at different times.

Lets face it, it can be a chore or it can be heaven on earth... usually, I'd bet it's somewhere in between.

There are some subs who are tall,too.



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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 2:48:44 PM   
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Well you do have your opinion and I respect it, but I thing there is a bit too much Fem "D" logic mixed in there.


That would be absolutely shocking, considering that I'm not a Fem "D"....


UllrsIshtar,

Well so much for assumptions "Goddess of Logic"

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 2:53:04 PM   
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FR

I'm rather surprised that so many were willing to give you fap fodder, OP


searching,

And why is that, the forums are for general discussion on D/s interactions.
Some make meaning full contributions and other are just buffoons and we accept the mix.

CP


Because it sounded, to me, as if you were asking for more than general discussion.



searching, I reread the original and cannot see your point, but "different thoughts are what make us unique onto ourselves. All of my original posts are simply to get the convo ball going to give folks an opportunity to share and enlighten.

CP

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 2:57:03 PM   
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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP


That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.


sunshine,

I have been called a few thing in my life by my sub relationships, but selfish is not one of them; and the observation comes from discussion groups that I have participated in.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 2:59:36 PM   
CelticPrince


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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP


That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.


umm, no?
You'll find that there's a group of people who like just about everything in any possible way if you look hard enough. The description about subs existing with that attitude is plain and simple truth. i know because i'm one of those subs :P




Oneechan,

Thanks for the further enlightenment for sunshine.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/13/2013 4:40:51 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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Well you do have your opinion and I respect it, but I thing there is a bit too much Fem "D" logic mixed in there.


That would be absolutely shocking, considering that I'm not a Fem "D"....


Well so much for assumptions "Goddess of Logic"



I was given that moniker by other posters on this forum, because of my tendency to drag formal logic into arguments, and because "Ishtar" which happens to be my name, is the Sumerian Goddess of a whole hoist of things.

I don't call myself "Goddess", nor would I ever want people to seriously address me as such, but considering this is a kink board and there are a bunch of woman who use the honorific "Goddess" to denote Domme status, I understand your confusion (though it's the first time I've realize the subtext could cause that type of confusion).

For future reference, I'm a female who has in the passed served as a TPE 24/7 slave for about 2 years, I currently the closest kink denomination that would fit me is "sadist bottom, who only dates Dominant men as primary partners, but enjoys topping casually".

Not at a "Fem D".

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