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CelticPrince -> The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 2:11:04 PM)

Of course this bit of back and forth will apply principally to male "D"s with the equipment but can be considered by both fem and male sub missives.
What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation tolerance or what.

Perhaps the person behind the cock may enter into it but try to be objective.

CP




UllrsIshtar -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 2:24:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation toleranceĀ or what.



"What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.)




DesFIP -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 2:39:27 PM)

It's all about the fact that it's HIS cock. Just a random dangly bit? No thanks, I'd rather adopt a new dog.

There is no objectivity here. It's all about the relationship with the person.




metamorfosis -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 3:00:34 PM)

A combination of boredom, trying to control the gag reflex, and "am I doing this right".




getoutnow -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 3:06:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
"What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.)


What a wonderful reply and so true. As a Dom male, I really dislike blowjobs. I find them utterly boring. Unless of course, its the sadistic kind where I am in control, full on face slapping, hair pulling, cock down the throat sort of blowjob. That I get off on as I am using her rather then getting the act as a source of pleasure.

Yes, guys who don't like bjs exist as to women who dislike men/women going down on them as well.




littlewonder -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 3:55:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Of course this bit of back and forth will apply principally to male "D"s with the equipment but can be considered by both fem and male sub missives.
What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation toleranceĀ or what.

Perhaps the person behind the cock may enter into it but try to be objective.

CP


I'm thinking I'm going to get fucked shortly.




deliriuminabox -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:08:15 PM)

The last time I did this it had been about 5 years since the time before that so mostly I was trying not to gag or throw up on him because that would have been utterly mortifying for me and likely a huge turn off for him.




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:23:20 PM)

UllrsTshtar

Thanks but is there a preference in there somewhere?

CP




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:25:09 PM)

Des,

ok, it is his cock......so what goes on in that mind of yours?

CP




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:27:18 PM)

metamorphosis,

boring?? oh say it isn't so! Let us pray he never finds out......he may never recover his ego.

CP




angelikaJ -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:27:23 PM)

How can I please Him today?

That is my sole consideration.

What will pleasure Him the most this moment, and then the next moment and the next... ?




Sheela22 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:28:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: getoutnow


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
"What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.)


What a wonderful reply and so true. As a Dom male, I really dislike blowjobs. I find them utterly boring. Unless of course, its the sadistic kind where I am in control, full on face slapping, hair pulling, cock down the throat sort of blowjob. That I get off on as I am using her rather then getting the act as a source of pleasure.

Yes, guys who don't like bjs exist as to women who dislike men/women going down on them as well.


There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:29:03 PM)

getoutnow,

but what about those that need to validate their sexuality?

CP




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:30:47 PM)

little wonder

Laughs, so true. so true............with many "D"s it is a prelude!

CP




getoutnow -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:31:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Sheela22
There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out


Yeah and well it sucks to be you. maybe suggest getting another partner who rocks your boat as much as you rock theirs. Sounds like a selfish prick to me.


quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

getoutnow,

but what about those that need to validate their sexuality?

CP


I dont give a funk about anyone else.




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:32:48 PM)

delirium,

While it is true, vomit is a mood killer..................but 5 years???

CP




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:35:06 PM)

angelikaJ,

A fine approach to the event.

CP




Sheela22 -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 4:39:18 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: getoutnow


quote:

ORIGINAL: Sheela22
There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out


Yeah and well it sucks to be you. maybe suggest getting another partner who rocks your boat as much as you rock theirs. Sounds like a selfish prick to me.



Ouch :(




lizi -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:26:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sheela22

There are women who don't like oral sex??? I would kill for a few minutes of oral but my partner doesn't like eating out


I don't really care for oral (performed on me). My last partner loved it and it got him going so it was easier for me to accept when I was with him. I didn't ever like ask him for it, but when he wanted to do it then I was ok with having that happen. Before that it was never something I wanted, in fact I'd try anything to stay away from it- just not my thing.

You know, does your partner know you really enjoy oral performed on you? If so, and he won't go there now and then to please you, that's pretty selfish on his part, unless he has some trauma or something that keeps him away. If he loved something that wasn't all that for you, I'm betting you'd still do it for him. This is what people do when they care for each other.




littlewonder -> RE: The cock and your throat (8/11/2013 5:31:06 PM)

Sometimes you just have to ask yourself...what's more important...oral sex or your relationship. But there is more to sheela's relationship than just this for those who have read her posts so there's much more going on with her guy not wanting to go down on her.




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