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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP

That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.

sunshine,

I have been called a few thing in my life by my sub relationships, but selfish is not one of them; and the observation comes from discussion groups that I have participated in.

CP

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I don't need enlightenment, thank you very much, nor do I need someone else to show gratitude in my stead. Another example of the arrogance and presumption that i saw from the get go.

In the OP, you asked what seems to me to be a fairly private question.. or one that smacks of, 'tell me how much you love X.' For me, I'm not going to share my private thoughts with you since I don't know you from a can of paint, nor am I going to invest in your wank fodder. The question itself, when whispered in a partner's ear is all sexy and connecting and such, but the way it is posed here is, to me, kind of HNGy. Not my thing. Evidently it is the thing for others... which I believe is my point. Everything is based on different perspectives.

best,
sunshine

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP

That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.

sunshine,

I have been called a few thing in my life by my sub relationships, but selfish is not one of them; and the observation comes from discussion groups that I have participated in.

CP

I wouldn't call you 'selfish' if you only play out this fantasy of your 'semen as a gift' with women who happen to want to partake in that little piece of self-illusion, what I WOULD call you is 'self-absorbed', 'arrogant' 'rude' and 'entitled'.

Not because there are subs out there who like the idea of a mans semen as a "gift he surprises her with" but because you when sexyred very clearly stated that she does NOT view oral as a 'gift' a man bestows on her, but instead sees it as an favor that needs to be returned, and a thing that both parties perform on each other as an equal exchange, you rudely replied by stating: "Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!"

You thereby not only assumed that she's never sucked a guy to completion, but arrogantly presumed that you are entitled to force your view of "semen as a gift" on her for no other reason than that she happens to be a submissive female, despite the fact that she specifically states she doesn't adhere to your view.

You may not be selfish, but you sure as fuck are self-absorbed enough to presume that the views you hold are the ones everybody needs to adhere to EVEN when they've already VERY clearly stated that they don't.

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After all, it's just a blow job, not diamonds.

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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After all, it's just a blow job, not diamonds.

^^^^ Can I get an AMEN?!?!?!?


LOL

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
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Thanks. I was too tired to respond to the OP's silly reply to me.

I don't feel like engaging with someone who would even post "gift of his seed" which to me is simply laughable.

I never have and never will use the term gift as it smacks of pretentiousness.

After all, it's just a blow job, not diamonds.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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There are subs that enjoy receiving the ejaculate as a multifaceted fulfilled action. I would submit that those that do a happy to view it as a gift for many reasons.

CP

That is just the thing that selfish guys tell themselves. Go on, keep telling yourself that.

sunshine,

I have been called a few thing in my life by my sub relationships, but selfish is not one of them; and the observation comes from discussion groups that I have participated in.

CP

I wouldn't call you 'selfish' if you only play out this fantasy of your 'semen as a gift' with women who happen to want to partake in that little piece of self-illusion, what I WOULD call you is 'self-absorbed', 'arrogant' 'rude' and 'entitled'.

Not because there are subs out there who like the idea of a mans semen as a "gift he surprises her with" but because you when sexyred very clearly stated that she does NOT view oral as a 'gift' a man bestows on her, but instead sees it as an favor that needs to be returned, and a thing that both parties perform on each other as an equal exchange, you rudely replied by stating: "Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!"

You thereby not only assumed that she's never sucked a guy to completion, but arrogantly presumed that you are entitled to force your view of "semen as a gift" on her for no other reason than that she happens to be a submissive female, despite the fact that she specifically states she doesn't adhere to your view.

You may not be selfish, but you sure as fuck are self-absorbed enough to presume that the views you hold are the ones everybody needs to adhere to EVEN when they've already VERY clearly stated that they don't.

Thanks. I was too tired to respond to the OP's silly reply to me.

I don't feel like engaging with someone who would even post "gift of his seed" which to me is simply laughable.

I never have and never will use the term gift as it smacks of pretentiousness.

After all, it's just a blow job, not diamonds.

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

See, aren't I a helpful fellow?

zzzzzzzzzzz /nope

CP

That's only because you haven't tasted my yummy cock yet.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Roch,

The one constant in the boards throughout the years are the infantile posters that seek some kind of recognition for their childlike contributions to the subject of the thread.

May you grow up soon!

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I don't care for oral sex performed on me. IDK.. feels like what I imagine a snail sliding over my tenderbits