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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/22/2013 11:40:07 AM   
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They are usually very rational and logical, but can also surprise everybody by suddenly becoming more spontaneous and enthusiastic.


Kind of doubt i'm enthusiastic at all XD

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However, their inner spontaneity does not go anywhere – it simply stays in the background, accumulating the energy and awaiting the right moment to release it at once.


They're not lying...

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ISTPs are relatively private individuals (after all, Introversion is one of their personality traits), which makes it even more difficult for other people to tell what is really going on in their minds. ISTPs can also become unexpectedly stubborn and vocal, especially when their principles and habits are being criticized – this kind of behaviour is uncommon among SP types and may confuse other people even further.


Now you're talking...

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[this] often leads to difficulties in the academic environment, even though ISTPs can do quite well in areas that require hands-on approach.


haha, that really explains my love for web design and photography and lack of grades in high shool.

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ISTPs always soak in lots of facts from the outside word (especially when they can experience something first-hand) and this makes practical activities much easier for them.


They're not wrong.

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While many ISTPs are drawn towards engineering or related professions, some embrace activities that other types would normally consider stressful and dangerous. ISTPs shine in crisis situations as they give them a chance to combine spontaneity, practicality and excellent control of all five senses, as well as do something noble and good. Such personality traits make ISTPs great EMTs, rescuers, athletes, racers etc. ISTPs also relish the idea of bypassing the rules and guidelines that they would otherwise be forced to obey – that influx of adrenaline can keep them excited for quite a while. Some people with this type choose to combine those risky activities with more relaxed jobs, thus meeting the needs of all their personality traits.


How'd they know i want to be EMT. o_O

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Fairness and equality are two other ideas that are very important to ISTP personalities. ISTPs would rather bend or break the rules of the existing system rather than fail to meet their own personal standards when it comes to these things. Consequently, you will never see an ISTP in an environment where their personal rules are likely to be violated. ISTP personalities are also extremely loyal to their friends, but they may need a lot of “alone time” to recharge.


I'd be lying if i don't mention that i tend to be excluded from the internet.. that is, unless i feel like going out and doing some kinky stuff ;)

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In general, ISTPs tend to be very optimistic, generous and confident in their abilitiesas long as they are not pushed into a corner, burdened with rules and guidelines, or asked to commit to something they are not yet ready for. Unique and mysterious traits of this personality type may never cease to amaze people close to them, but it is also possible that ISTPs themselves will be surprised by them every once in a while.


I agree.

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The often enigmatic traits of ISTP personality type mean that dating an ISTP may be a very complex and interesting experience. Their T trait is likely to give an air of coldness and detachment, but it is offset by the S and P traits in a way that can be very attractive to the opposite sex. ISTPs live in the present, looking for new activities and experiences, and avoiding routine and strict schedules. People with this personality type will also do their best to resist any attempts to control them, either directly or indirectly. All these traits should be kept in mind by anyone who is dating an ISTP.


Scary accurate.

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ISTP personalities see their obligations as something that needs to be renewed on a daily basis – even if they say “I do” in front of a priest, that actually means “I do (until something changes)” This does not mean that ISTPs are unwilling or unable to develop and maintain lifelong relationships – they simply dislike committing to something without an exit clause. ISTP dating or long-term partners should be aware of this tendency and try to avoid pushing the ISTP to commit too early in the relationship.

ISTPs are not very emotional and are likely to try hard to conceal and protect their emotions, mostly because they are not really sure how to handle them. Despite this, anyone dating or being in a long-term relationship with an ISTP should know that they tend to have very strong and deep feelings, even if they find it difficult to express them. Furthermore, as already mentioned above, ISTPs live in the present and so do their feelings – they may be very passionate one day and indifferent the following day. Their romantic partners should not take this too personally – this is simply how the ISTP mind works.


[The] many relationships [that] were destroyed because of this... :/

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Sexually, ISTPs see intimacy as something that is both an art and a source of pleasure. They are unlikely to be too strict or traditional when it comes to sex – either when dating, or later in the relationship. ISTP personalities are sensual and practical, able to use all five senses without any effort at all – and they will probably encourage their partner to simply relax and have fun.


Usually involves my mood, sometimes it can be the other way around.



Overall, i'd like to see that most of the parts in this personality test were a lot more accurate than others i've taken. -- A lot more insightful too.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/22/2013 1:53:49 PM   
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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/22/2013 5:16:46 PM   
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INTJ, dominant. Very low affinity by the numbers for the selection, but the description fits well.

Not quite as evil as Putin, maybe...

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/22/2013 6:06:31 PM   
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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/22/2013 6:18:10 PM   
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Yes, that's me. It takes great effort to suppress those instincts.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/22/2013 6:22:25 PM   
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Heh. I rarely suppress it. I have a habit of correcting everyone at my work and I do it all the time with my daughter. The only time I suppress is with Master but he already knows by just looking at me and I end up spitting it out.

But yeah....someone telling me they are going to kill themselves and I'm "yeah you spelled it wrong".

Hey, I mean come on...I have no heart.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/23/2013 5:51:51 AM   
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Yes, that's me. It takes great effort to suppress those instincts.



Same here. I'm an INTJ, and I have had to work hard to control my natural inclination to correct people. But after all these years, I think I finally have it under control.

It may bother me (internally) when I see a spelling error or a grammatical mistake, but I have learned to keep my mouth shut.


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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/23/2013 8:49:59 AM   
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Not surprised to come out as an INFJ (less than 1%), but since I'm a borderline Introvert/Extrovert, I've also come out as ENFP/INFP before. My best matches are all in the 1-4.3% range, so on the scarce side. I personally believe I'm more P than J. You don't have to be a TJ to be a Dominant. I used to have a tremendous crush on INFP JFK, Jr. (Johnny Depp's pretty hot, too.) Now I know why.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/24/2013 8:24:53 PM   
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Appreciate the info--which got me thinking about the eH Personality Profile which utilizes OCEAN. Results were . . . copacetic, at least their version of it. I felt I had so much more dimensionality than what was contained therein. (There I go with my feelings again.) I found myself on another MBTI-oriented site earlier today taking their Jungian Brain Grade Test based on just 28 questions. The assessments for famous persons were spot on, although I'm not changing my mind about being an INFJ instead of an ENFP. Two constants with me are NF no matter what. http://www.celebritytypes.com/index.php

Result

You have now completed the Jung Type test.

Your personality code is: ENFP

Your preference for E is weakly expressed.

Your preference for P is weakly expressed.

[From 16 Personalities] ENFP's "Preferred partners: INFJ and INTJ types."

[From 16 Personalities] INFJ's "Preferred partners: ENFP and ENTP types. . . . INTJs are also a very strong match as the intuitive connection between INFJ and INTJ is likely to be instantaneous." Very true! I have 2 dear male sub friends who are INTJs.

However, a test I'd taken in the past for my Best Match pointed me toward an INFP. I've read up on all 5 recommendations (INFP/INFJ/INTJ/ENFP/ENTP), and INFP males appeal to me the most, especially my favorite actor Jude Law, Heath Ledger, Nicolas Cage & even Robert Pattinson (who is way too young for me to be finding sexy!) It may not be that INFP males are naturally submissive per se, but they have a romantic/poetic nature, sensitivity, depth of character, and a certain irresistible charm. Plus I have a feeling they make good lovers.

[From Celebrity Types] INFPs are "Strongly linked to the Avoidant personality"--I better NOT ever get stood up by any of you INFP subs!

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/24/2013 9:16:09 PM   
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ENFJ and Domme.

Your personality type: ENFJ.
Strength of individual traits: E - 18%, N - 16%, F - 36%, J - 42%.

Extroverted
Expressive, outgoing, prefer group activities, eager to speak their minds, more comfortable when around other people than when alone, get energized by social interaction.
iNtuitive
Introspective, rely on their imagination, absorbed in ideas, focus on what might happen.
Feeling
Sensitive, follow their hearts, keep feelings close to the surface, focus on harmony and cooperation.
Judging
Decisive, prefer clear rules and guidelines, eager to commit, see deadlines as sacred, seek closure.

ENFJs are usually very charismatic and eloquent, finding it natural and easy to communicate their ideas and opinions......they instinctively know how to combine passion and rational arguments, drawing the audience’s attention and reaching every mind....ENFJ personalities are very intuitive. They find it easy to sense other people’s motives and find connections between seemingly unrelated events. ENFJs also tend to be quite good at analyzing their own feelings and questioning them if necessary.

On the other hand, such intuitiveness and sensitivity can also cause significant difficulties for people with this personality type – they may be too altruistic and empathic, getting too involved in other people’s problems, and then finding it difficult to detach and stop worrying. In extreme cases, this can even affect the ENFJs’ perception of themselves. ENFJs are optimistic idealists, often trusting other people more than they should – although this usually turns out to be a self-fulfilling prophecy. As already mentioned above, ENFJs can be very convincing and inspiring. People are drawn towards strong personalities and the ENFJ’s charisma can often be a uniting and motivating factor.

This explains to me why I hate chaos and love to have definite rules and guidelines to go by....and I absolutely hate to be late or miss a deadline. I love group activities and love to get involved with getting new things going. I do a good chunk of volunteering. My friends say I have this weird ability to know just why someone is thinking what they are, what their motives are, and how they're feeling.

NBMG

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 8/25/2013 1:27:20 PM   
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I'm Chaotic Neutral.

Oops, sorry. Wrong test.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/12/2013 11:24:53 PM   
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INFJ
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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/12/2013 11:40:29 PM   
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I'm not taking the test.

The only people who need to know what I am will be in bed with me. No one else needs to know anything about me.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 12:03:43 AM   
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Against my better judgment I took the test anyway.

It is exactly as accurate and informative as the "Star Signs" test I took about twenty years ago. Every star sign described me because they are incredibly vague. This test is the same thing.

A religious person may tell you to not put your faith in false prophets; I'll tell you, "Don't put your faith in fucking morons and charlatans."

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 1:48:58 AM   
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Imho it matters which test you take, different wording of the questions will be important. Myself I test ENFJ and I feel it's pretty accurate. It's only harmless fun...

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 2:19:10 AM   
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too lazy to take the test right now, but i took it ages ago, i think i came out as an INFP. it certainly was one of the "idealist" ones.
i thought it was quite helpful, actually. reading the description did put some things into words that i only intued before.
also, reading the descriptions of other types opened up ways of thinking differently about other people.
of course one shouldnt take this kind of thing too seriously. while i recognized much of myself in the type in question, i also recognize a lot of myself in all four "idealist" types and i think three of the "rational" types.
i currently identify as a "switch leaning dom"

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 5:22:33 AM   
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INTJ again.

As usual, the design of the test is more interesting than the results. It seems they created a grid of pigeonholes, then tested for characteristics to match those pigeonholes.

There was one test I took many years ago that was *very* interesting. It had a huge number of questions and a time limit; you were supposed to rush through as far as you could without stopping to think about the questions. The questions broke down into two main categories - thievery and homosexuality. Over and over again, in various scenarios and phrasings. I've long since forgotten the name of the test, but I've often wondered if it had a specific purpose, or if it simply reflected the concerns of its creator(s).

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 11:40:02 AM   
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People with the ENFP personality type tend to be curious, idealistic and often mystical. They seek meaning and are very interested in other people’s motives, seeing life as a big, complex puzzle where everything is connected. Not surprisingly, ENFPs tend to be very insightful and empathic individuals – this, plus their charm and social skills, often makes them very popular and influential.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 7:17:50 PM   
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What is your MBTI personality type and how does it influence who you are?

If you are not familiar with MBTI types then you can find out your type here: http://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Once you have taken the test then you can read about your type here: http://www.16personalities.com/type-descriptions

Does it describe you?

Some say that the MBTI is nonsense (or inaccurate), but as an INTJ, the description for my type is eerily accurate. My venture into the BDSM world has made everything easier because I can explicitly state what it is that I am looking for right off the bat without coming off as...well...you know! Obviously, this is much more difficult when going the traditional dating route as certain topics are sometimes not well-received; and, since I am an introverted geek, I am quite out-of-touch with the social rituals that are endemic to the vanilla world, which make no sense to me and are almost necessary for meeting someone the traditional way. BDSM--combined with the internet--allows me to sidestep this. That's my two cents. Anyways, it would be nice to see if certain MBTI types gravitate towards certain BDSM roles (regrettably there are not enough options for the poll feature to be effective).

Me = INTJ Dom. What say you?


Don't have a fucking clue what this means but....:

Your personality type: ENTP.

Strength of individual traits: E - 2%, N - 44%, T - 4%, P - 6%.

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RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role - 9/13/2013 8:50:29 PM   
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It's fun stuff.
ENFP.

I am interested in the motives why people (including me) want to delve into this kinds of tests.
Humans are complex beings.
Moreso than four dimensions of personality.

I think the most valid point though is to what degree you are introvert or extrovert in general.

And yes. There is a pun in what I wrote.;)

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