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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

As much as I think these boards need more sex topics... hopefully freaky weird ones... this is more like a journal entry than the opening to a discussion.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If one were to take clandestinely rim jobs off another, would that be skimming from the bottom?

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If one were to take clandestinely rim jobs off another, would that be skimming from the bottom?

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ORIGINAL: Protector32

On Rimming -  
 
Let's talk about rimming. I have been a Dom male since birth and have enjoyed rimming a clean, female rosebud nearly that long. I am not sure where that desire stems from. Is it because I was raised as the oldest of 4 boys with no sisters? Is it because I'm an ass man?  
 
I'm not sure where it comes from and I'm not sure I care where it comes from. I just know that with the right lady I doubt there is much more, outside of water sports, which could represent a more intimate form of pleasuring and sharing. It might be the taboo of it all that appeals. In the same manner that I truly enjoy playing with a married sub. The forbidden fruit as it were.  
 
Without a doubt cleanliness is essential. But for those who balk at rimming a clean rosebud you should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus. And you do kiss with your mouth open don't you ?  
 
While I love to do the rimming I have only been rimmed a few times. And that was essentially by choice. That might stem from the fact that in my twenties I was cut there by an overly zealous young lady with long sharp fingernails. It was not fun.  
 
So I tended to keep ladies away from that area. That was until I met this female sub in Texas in 2000 that delighted in rimming and being rimmed. I mean she insisted on it. And I have to admit being serviced like that was delightful. Soft, sensual, intimate, and the knowledge that it really rang her bell made it all the better.  
 
 
I remember on more than occasion straddling her face, while she would gently lick, nibble, probe and play with my asshole. It was exquisite. I would then flog her pussy to provide 'motivation' and jerk off on her chest.  
Sometimes she would have me lie down and prop a small pillow under my groin. She would then lie between my legs and go to town.  
 
She really wanted to slide a finger into my ass and massage my prostate. She wanted that a lot. We did try it a few times but given my past experience I freely admit that I probably fully earned the nickname 'tight ass'. :)  
 
One pleasant variation to a traditional 69 would be that when I was about to explode in the lady's mouth I would pull her very tight to my face and slide my tongue as deep into her ass as possible. Embedding my tongue deep in her ass at the moment of explosion. Hard to beat.  
 
In discussing the gentle art of rimming and how much I enjoy it in various Ds forums I once had a young female sub, I would argue an uneducated and misinformed female sub. "Gee", she said. "that doesn't sound very Domlike". I replied. "Young lady, I can assure you that I am 100% Dom. And the fact that I WANT to do it makes it 'Domlike'.  
 
I will also freely admit that my love of rimming has been going unabated as of late. And when deprived, it becomes clear that its far more than a linking. Its a NEED!! I find myself staring at nicely heart shaped derriers everywhere, thinking, briefly visualizing, fantasizing.  
 
And if I am not able to tease, nibble, probe, taste, explore, luxuriate in, drill and tongue fuck a nice female rosebud very soon I will surely lose my mind :)

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ORIGINAL: Domnotlooking

She hates to do it to me.

I have a standing rule that if I'm being dried off after a shower, she's to complete her sweet pampering drill with a little kissing and nibbling back there until I say when. Sometimes I just chill and really make her really work, usually I grade her high on the sincerity curve and give a her a break after a decent and attentive effort.

Once in a blue moon, (assuming surgery-level cleanliness), I'll force her head down, post-ball sucking, and hold her by her hair back there, but that's a mindset that I don't won't to be in that often. We prefer a more collaborative approach to building our dynamic. Ass-licking is negotiated along our usual 'how can I help you do me?' boundaries.

As for licking HER ass, well, sign me up. She's got no hangups about me going there or whether or not I'm compromising my alpha status. It's mine, it makes me hard, I want it, so she offers it up as per directed.

Often, I like her kneeling over my thigh, facing my foot. I can raise her hips up and position her ass and vagina in my face while she licks my foot. It's a sweet post-spanking move, since her ass is all tingly and she's now super-motivated to do some very focused and delicate foot-licking.

Man, I don't know why, but all of a sudden, I feel like taking a shower......

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Domnotlooking

She hates to do it to me.

I have a standing rule that if I'm being dried off after a shower, she's to complete her sweet pampering drill with a little kissing and nibbling back there until I say when. Sometimes I just chill and really make her really work, usually I grade her high on the sincerity curve and give a her a break after a decent and attentive effort.

Once in a blue moon, (assuming surgery-level cleanliness), I'll force her head down, post-ball sucking, and hold her by her hair back there, but that's a mindset that I don't won't to be in that often. We prefer a more collaborative approach to building our dynamic. Ass-licking is negotiated along our usual 'how can I help you do me?' boundaries.

As for licking HER ass, well, sign me up. She's got no hangups about me going there or whether or not I'm compromising my alpha status. It's mine, it makes me hard, I want it, so she offers it up as per directed.

Often, I like her kneeling over my thigh, facing my foot. I can raise her hips up and position her ass and vagina in my face while she licks my foot. It's a sweet post-spanking move, since her ass is all tingly and she's now super-motivated to do some very focused and delicate foot-licking.

Man, I don't know why, but all of a sudden, I feel like taking a shower......

Bud....that was waaaaaaaaaay the fuck to much information.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Just wrap your lips 'round my velvet rim,
and strap your hands 'cross my engines. . .

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
, not every man who is anal-erotic is also sexually submissive. Personally, I *love* prostate massage -- not many other things I enjoy more -- but I want it done the way I want it done. Being "taken" or "forced" with a strapon doesn't do it for me. So what I enjoy looks a lot like a service, even though I'm the one being penetrated.

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
As much as I think these boards need more sex topics... hopefully freaky weird ones... this is more like a journal entry than the opening to a discussion.

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There's also the rimming thing. I like to do it. I don't see it as a submissive act at all because it's typically a prelude to someone having a cock deep in her ass while a big fist is gripping a handful of her hair or her throat. That's not typically considered submissive behavior.

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ORIGINAL: Protector32
. . . straddling her face, while she would gently lick, nibble, probe and play with my asshole. It was exquisite. I would then flog her pussy to provide 'motivation' and jerk off on her chest. . .

. . . an uneducated and misinformed female sub. "Gee", she said. "that doesn't sound very Domlike". I replied. "Young lady, I can assure you that I am 100% Dom. And the fact that I WANT to do it makes it 'Domlike'. . .

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Much as there's a difference between foot fetishists and foot worshipers, not every man who is anal-erotic is also sexually submissive. Personally, I *love* prostate massage -- not many other things I enjoy more -- but I want it done the way I want it done. Being "taken" or "forced" with a strapon doesn't do it for me. So what I enjoy looks a lot like a service, even though I'm the one being penetrated.