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SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/1/2013 6:05:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

Ego, narcissism and 'personality disorders' are unproved theories of human behaviour that I do not subscribe to. Not everyone signs up to unscientific psychological theories you know.



I bet you're the kind of person who says you're not sure if there are actually planets around other stars. It's not proven, after all. The way we detect them is entirely theoretical.



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/1/2013 6:08:29 PM)

I think it's practically impossible to be a Dom without a huge ego unless you've also been a slave, and people with huge egos are disproportionately narcissistic.



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/1/2013 9:22:30 PM)

so, aldompdx, I'm guessing your lack of return volleys implies you've realized there won't be any veins to mine here and you've likely lost any sales of any imagined-future-publication or indie-distributed dvd?



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 1:08:57 AM)

I think this is kinda what I meant. "Not seeing the Other as equal", to go back to Jungian stuff. Maybe (to carry some more Jung dead weight) the wannabe tarot boy should look at his own "Shadow" and experiment a bit more with his 'anima' rather than give in to the inverted Prince of Wands card from the Crowley tarot deck and merely - metaphysically - suck his own conceptual wang.

The Mountain Astrologer people are gonna have a FIELD DAY with this, OP. And luckily, under the USA satire laws, if you end up in their cartoon section, you cannot complain.



VideoAdminRho -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 8:42:09 AM)

A bunch of posts have been removed. If your post was removed and you did not receive a Gold Letter, it means your post was pulled because it replied or quoted a post that required removal.



Phoenixpower -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 8:48:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Kirata


You forgot one. A narcissist thinks everybody wants to hear what he has to say.

K.


Does that mean that a boss is a narcissist???



DesFIP -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 9:19:48 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SerWhiteTiger

I think it's practically impossible to be a Dom without a huge ego unless you've also been a slave, and people with huge egos are disproportionately narcissistic.



I don't know why you would believe this. I view it as totally unrelated. Dominant just means you want to be the leader in the relationship. It doesn't mean you are automatically unable to put things in perspective, that you cannot be realistic about your capabilities and so on. In fact, a dominant who does do this will be more likely to have a lasting relationship. Look at people like Dark Steven for an example. Because he is not arrogant, because he's self aware which by itself requires that you don't have an overinflated ego, he gets the lasting respect of his sub.



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 10:54:42 PM)

Interesting. My over-inflated ego came from self awareness. I was okay before. ;)

Being a Dom means subs are going to throw themselves at your feet. Hard to not get a bit of an ego from that.



sexyred1 -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:01:27 PM)

Really? I think more Doms do that than subs. I don't know a single sub, including myself, who ever had to throw themselves at a Dom.

I am more attracted to a quiet sense of confidence and seal assurance than an arrogant egotist.



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:07:06 PM)

'I am more attracted to a quiet sense of confidence and seal assurance than an arrogant egotist. '

and if you are rampantly attractive to doms and tops then that is valuable currency. if not, then not.


'Interesting. My over-inflated ego came from self awareness. I was okay before. ;) '

carrrrrreful, passive aggressive snarkies don't fare too well in the DM either, mon ami. [;)]




sexyred1 -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:18:30 PM)

I meant self assurance, not seal.




NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:24:49 PM)

no dead baby seals then? No "Seal" records/cd's?



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:28:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Really? I think more Doms do that than subs. I don't know a single sub, including myself, who ever had to throw themselves at a Dom.

I am more attracted to a quiet sense of confidence and seal assurance than an arrogant egotist.


Certainly, more people who call themselves Doms do it. No Doms do it though.

And having a quiet sense of confidence and self assurance are not mutually exclusive to having a big ego.



sexyred1 -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:31:27 PM)

I didn't say that it was mutually exclusive in all cases.

There are some arrogant jerks who reek of insecurity.



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:32:54 PM)

since the OP abused his right to mention the DSM, let us remember that ego (which is properly pronounced "ay-go", not "eee-go"), in it's proper definition, means one's perception of self (which may be a severe, disapproving perception of self), whether a positive perception, or a negative perception.

A self-loathing neurotic with anhedonia has ego, just as the dimwit frat-monkey who has achieved nothing but selling used cars and bashing queerfolk while thinking himself a champion has an ego.



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:38:42 PM)

"There are some arrogant jerks who reek of insecurity."

and there are passive aggressive bimbos who want to sling stones indirectly without having the ovaries to cop to it who come out to be the same waste of oxygen as any jerk who speaks openly in a jerkwad manner. Except the jerkwad at least isn't hiding behind any cockless or clitless 'netiquette' which they mistakenly view as a license and shielded by which and from behind which to get uppity when they show no evidence that they deserve such a privilege, in fact show nothing but an outmoded and cliched style of 'snark' that was wrinkled and flabby about ten years ago.

Narcissism bitching about presumed narcissism while hiding behind the gutless wonder snarky no-womb-bullshit of passive aggressive "post at people while not addressing them directly" is still narcissism and just as pathetic as anything remonstrated in this thread.



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/3/2013 11:52:05 PM)

Interestingly, I find that one of the most secure things one can do is be open about your insecurities. It's not like we don't all have them. It's people who try to pretend like they don't that come off as the most insecure to me.



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/4/2013 12:20:57 AM)

But would not your own post seem like a digital "corrupted file" of that? In and of itself?



OsideGirl -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/4/2013 9:56:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SerWhiteTiger
Being a Dom means subs are going to throw themselves at your feet. Hard to not get a bit of an ego from that.


I've never had to throw myself at a Dom. In fact, even now, long married and 47, I still have Doms approach me at events.



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (10/4/2013 8:46:20 PM)

so obviously if YOU wrote a book or did a dvd or produced a series on iTunes, people interested in or worried about NPCD would be better served watching (and paying) YOU, rather than any 'yoga boy'. [;)]



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