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Do females have the same primal desire to grope men tha... - 9/26/2013 8:29:49 PM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		This recent local news live groping video caught my eye and made me wonder:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b15FO54z70Q

What's clear in the video is that the female newscaster understood the primal male to be groping her on live TV, and she handled the groping of her breast with aplomb.

It's not clear whether the male actually intended to grope, but, the actions appear to directly mimic the primal desire all males that I know have, which is the desire to stick our hands down a woman's blouse in order to fondle her breasts.

The wonderfully refreshing reaction from the new reporter got me wondering though, if women have the same primal groping need of men (I've never experienced it, so, hence the question) - and - what are women's responses when they 'are' groped.
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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/26/2013 8:47:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Preface: I didn't watch the vid.

The only folks I have a desire to grope are those I know and love. I do not allow groping, even from those I know and love.

ETA: just watched the vid; yes, much aplomb. Nice job, reporter! However, had that been a human I would have groped his balls with my knee.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/26/2013 9:34:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus

What's clear in the video is that the female newscaster understood the primal male to be groping her on live TV, and she handled the groping of her breast with aplomb.

Well, that's certainly an interesting conclusion you've reached there. I think what's more likely is that she understood was that she was on live TV and she had to finish the segment intro rather than spaz out on camera.


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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/26/2013 10:39:07 PM   
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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/26/2013 10:47:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Uhm, wtf are you talking about? This is not a primal desire, it's a fetish.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/26/2013 10:53:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wait, men have a primal desire to grope males? Just kidding.

To answer the questions: no, and pissed.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 12:07:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just letting you know, one woman did have the audacity to grab my crotch in public when nobody was looking. First and last date. There ARE women who have no class.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 12:16:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		I had a female rhesus monkey and she liked to grope, but there was no gender preference. She would group either sex and also loved pulling down peoples shorts to inspect their crotch. I don't think that particular monkey behavior has anything to do with human traits. I presume you are talking about human traits because I am pretty sure you aren't expecting monkey to reply to your OP. But if every a monkey could surf the net, it would be this one.



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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 12:47:00 AM   
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Do I appreciate looking at a guy's bod? Heck yeah!! That doesn't make me want to grope, though (unless he's MY guy).

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 4:32:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just had a first date with a guy that decided he had the right to grope...needless to say he is lucky he is still standing and it was his last date. I have to say he was the first most guys have been pure gentlemen!!!

To answer your question........NO I have no desire to grope a male unless he ask me too.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 6:01:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus
It's not clear whether the male actually intended to grope, but, the actions appear to directly mimic the primal desire all males that I know have, which is the desire to stick our hands down a woman's blouse in order to fondle her breasts.

Tell me your not serious. Do you have ANY idea how many leaps of faith you've got in that logic path... if you can even call it logic? So to be clear, you're making the claim that human mammaries are sexually attractive to baboons? Really? Do you realize that baboons do not have large fatty deposits which increase the size of their mammaries. In other words, such a sexual trigger would be utterly pointless.

But hey, let's ignore baboons for a moment. I have no primal desire to grope strange women. Man, I feel sorry for any guy who does. Walking through the mall must be pure hell.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 6:32:26 AM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		How very fortunate for us women that men can fight that "primal" urge to shove their hand down our blouses.

I should say how very fortunate for those men. They're likely to get a swift kick to their man junk if they attempt it.

With that said, I do enjoy groping my husband but have no urge or desire to grope anyone else.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 6:42:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I just watched the vid. The baboon stood up and placed his hands on her, and one of those hands was on her breast. But didn't look like the baboon was "copping a feel". It looked more like it was trying to pose for a photo. The reporter is the one that said it was trying to cop a feel. That's what she interpreted it as. It looked like it was posing or using her to support his weight a little as he stood erect.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 7:32:57 AM   
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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 8:59:48 AM   
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Do we get urges to grope a guy? Only if he's mine to grope, in private or public. Do we act upon these urges? is the real question here--impulse control.

quote:

ORIGINAL: hlen5

Only men I'm intimate with, and only in private.

Do I appreciate looking at a guy's bod? Heck yeah!! That doesn't make me want to grope, though (unless he's MY guy).


Now, wishing I could grab & squeeze some guy's muscular arm or cute ass is another matter, but not some random stranger, not even in an exotic male dancer setting (most of whom I don't find all that attractive) where such physical contact might be encouraged. Best policy for everyone to have is Look But Don't Touch, unless otherwise explicitly indicated and mutually desired.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 11:19:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		The baboon was clearly looking for a hand hold to grasp and lean on. To him her breast was little more than a handrail. To me on the other hand, she looked pretty good!

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 2:27:51 PM   
Exidor


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Status: offline 		No other apes, or even primates, have prominent breasts, so I doubt there would have been any sexual impulse there. Prominent breasts are pretty much a sapiens characteristic, like feet.

On the other hand, he could have been showing he was kinky...

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 4:00:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		i like to touch Him all the time. however, that is because I can as I have permission to touch. He's a part of my life sexually so therefore i'm attracted to him. I don't look at other guys and want to grope them in any setting. by the same token if He wants to touch me then he can do so as and when he wishes. if any other guy were to try doing the same it's going to hurt him.

I tried to look at the video but it says that it's been removed. I understand from the comments above that what we are actually talking about is an ape, and not a man. animals we may still be, but we are supposed to be rather more advanced than our primate cousins. I suggest to any man that has the urges of our primate cousins that he can't control that he stay behind his keyboard flinging shit in his mother's basement, and keeps the hell away from me.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 10:35:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Haven't watched the video but the answer is no. I have had many men that were complete strangers try to grab at me or grope me throughout my life and they get slapped, kicked in the balls, or get a drink thrown on them. I have personally never witnessed a woman grope at a man and I've never heard a woman say, "God I just want to grab that guys dick." So like I said, gonna go with no. I'm not saying it's never ever happened but it's MUCH more frequent amongst men than women.

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RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men... - 9/27/2013 10:41:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		It Does happen in some asian countries (especially Japan) on crowded public transport. Trouble is, it's so damn crowded you are never to sure just WHO or what is groping you. It is literally tight-packed as sardines in a can at times.

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