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RE: How do you tell your significant other your into BDSM? - 11/13/2013 9:35:50 PM   
Moonlightmaddnes


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1


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For some reason when I watch BDSM porn online and see this so called humiliation I get aroused yet no matter what humiliating act I see I still feel like nothing could be more humiliating then telling my girlfriend I like bondage. I mean when I think about it I think I'd rather be flogged and beaten in public than tell the girl I love I want to treated like a dog and also dominate her from time to time.

I think whether you are top or a bottom it can be the most humiliating thing to tell someone your most intimate desires. That being said I'm curious how do you tell someone your kinky?

At this point in literary history, the barriers really are in your own mind. Do this.

1. Buy a copy of 50 Shades.
2. Read it, or at least enough of it to get to a kinky sex scene.
3. Say, "oh girlfriend, light of my life, this was the hottest thing I've ever read. No wonder all the women like this book. How about this? I'll tie you up tonight, and you tie me up tomorrow?"
4. Tie her up and give her 37 orgasms.
5. Get tied up and tell her how wonderful she was at it, and how intimate and close and trusting of her it made you feel.

Oh god not 50 shades of grey. Hey at least make it something worth reading. Cherise Sinclair has a series way better then that. Yeah it is still fiction but at least it is not I wanna tie you up and whip you because I have serious mommy issues.

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RE: How do you tell your significant other your into BDSM? - 11/17/2013 10:57:36 PM   
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I just tell them.

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