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First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 2:21:37 PM   
totalworship7


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Status: offline 		I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 2:22:33 PM   
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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 2:23:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Have something to vomit in handy...after that, there is no preparation, unless you could see yourself being dead drunk for the first time, but even then. . .  

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 2:32:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Part of the fun of kicking someone in the balls is knowing there isn't any way to prepare.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 2:32:16 PM   
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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 3:09:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		While I like rough sex and being forceful with women (aka PlayRape) I also enjoy having my balls pulled on, stepped on, and slapped repeatedly - sometimes that alone gets me off. I think you need to have a serious talk with the Miss and see if that is good enough.
Also I may just be different than most other guys too, so I don't know if any advice I give will help you.

Who am I kidding I am different lol

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 4:13:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like pain but I remember getting hit in high school sports and I cant see that being fun at all.
I don't think there would be any way to prepare for it.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 6:20:04 PM   
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It helps. But only if you consider putting a bandaid on a cut off limb, helping.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 11:04:31 PM   
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Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?


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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/26/2013 11:08:22 PM   
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Kneepads. Every time I've kicked a guy in the balls he's gone down like a sack of spuds.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/27/2013 7:28:12 AM   
totalworship7


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone for your replies. I think Miss will be careful. The ball kicking already seems to be an effective trust and power establishing activity. The idea that I would spread my legs with my hands bound behind my back making me completely vulnerable to Miss is very effective in establishing dominance.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/27/2013 7:32:04 AM   
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Thank you everyone for your replies. I think Miss will be careful. The ball kicking already seems to be an effective trust and power establishing activity. The idea that I would spread my legs with my hands bound behind my back making me completely vulnerable to Miss is very effective in establishing dominance.

That sounds like a bit much if this is the first time for both of you. If you fall, with no way to hold your hands out, you could easily get a concussion. Nothing like a trip to the ER on Thanksgiving Day.

If you want to incorporate the bondage, probably best if you are kneeling, maybe even facing away from her, face down, ass up. That way, the only part of the body that will be hurt is the one she wants to hurt.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/27/2013 7:47:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: totalworship7

I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?


During my time in service to Saharah Eve, this was done to me every so often. You will find, actually, that while being kicked once is painful and mildly nausea-inducing, it's the second, third, and fourth kick in close subsequence that starts making the world spin (and quite difficult to get off the floor, I might add).

For what it's worth, try not to think about your fear or pain too much, but focus upon her sadistic pleasure in the moment. If you have the bug, so to speak, you'll find some psychological refuge there—and even incentive to continue.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/27/2013 10:21:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: totalworship7

I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?

Hell yes-wear a cup.A big fucking metal one with spikes sticking out to mangle anything that comes near the boys with ill intent.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/27/2013 12:05:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: totalworship7

I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?


I've done it. I love it. But, I'm an absolute slut of almost any kind of CBT. I get ready for it by opening my legs and closing my eyes. Different people like and dislike different things. And, they get ready for both those they like and those they don't like in different ways. Which way would work for you? I haven't got the foggiest idea.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 9:33:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Tell her to start off with pulling your ball taunt, swirling them like stress balls, stepping on them and smushing them into the ground. Many women are surprised that they enjoy that in and of itself. I've never been with a Domme so I don't know if this is doable though. If she enjoys that, (for me it makes me even harder), then work your way up to slapping hard and kneading them. That is enough to help get me off so I can't help you any further.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 12:38:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: totalworship7

I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?


I always figured a "First time ball kicking question" would be more along the lines of "Would you PLEEEAAASE STOP!!!!?????"

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 12:40:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: totalworship7

Thank you everyone for your replies. I think Miss will be careful. The ball kicking already seems to be an effective trust and power establishing activity. The idea that I would spread my legs with my hands bound behind my back making me completely vulnerable to Miss is very effective in establishing dominance.


....and permanent damage to your nards.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 1:06:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		RedMagic is right. For the first time you might want to be on your knees, but with full use of your hands to cushion a fall. My advice to the Domme is to start out a little more gently so she can properly gauge your pain threshold.
One of my best friends can basically take a wrecking ball in the nuts and walk away unscathed, whereas a former sub of mine could barely handle it when I rolled his balls in my hand.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 2:02:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: totalworship7

I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?

Hell yes-wear a cup.A big fucking metal one with spikes sticking out to mangle anything that comes near the boys with ill intent.


This. Or a shotgun maybe.


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