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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 4:57:49 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?

Hell yes-wear a cup.A big fucking metal one with spikes sticking out to mangle anything that comes near the boys with ill intent.


This. Or a shotgun maybe.



Wearing a shotgun is problematic.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 5:05:52 PM   
sheisreeds


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I try to save the all out kick in the nuts for special occasions, since permanent damage, and some pretty serious health complications can result. Might be worth having a frank discussion with the Misses that she understands the potential problems, and risks to your boy parts and will take that into consideration.

However, from close range a short hard hit to the nuts with my knee or foot, often repeated, with other CBT involved is regular foreplay. This often causes as much pain as a kick, but I have more control over him and the scenario.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 7:39:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have only two suggestions.

If you must get kicked in the balls, I hear the only sure fire way to prepare is 5 years studying Zen in the mountains of Tibet. Pain management through mental training has very effective results.



or wear a cup. But that probably isn't allowed.





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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 7:43:27 PM   
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OP, the fact that you're even squirming about this before it actually happens is probably making the sadist that you are involved with happy to no end. I know I would be.


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RE: First time ball kicking question - 11/29/2013 10:51:53 PM   
directiveerror


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Status: offline 		hmm once i was babysitting my cousins. 6 redheaded girls and their little blond brother second youngest. they had him pinned to the ground and were taking turns kicking him repeatedly, hitting him in the balls with things, making fun of him. and he was screaming and crying at me to pull them off of him(i was about 12) and i just squatted next to him and said "boy, you can man up yourself, take initiative and learn how to prevent it.... or you can sit here and cry and if you really want that i'll help you, but you will be getting kicking in the balls your whole life. he bit his lip and stayed stoic until they got bored and left, a few years later i heard from family that he became a wrestler and just won a state competition... anyways you are a bit older but i think the advice still translates. choose a side and deal with that choice.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/1/2013 11:34:33 AM   
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Wearing a shotgun is problematic.
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Hey, Rose McGowan wore a machine gun on her leg in "Planet Terror". I'm sure there's some similar device that could make the nuts lethal.

http://zombieshop.blogspot.com/2011/07/planet-terror.html

To the OP: Have you considered maybe starting out with some slapping? Going from nothing to the Big Kick is like being double fisted the first time you want to experiment with anal sex.

< Message edited by shivermetimbers -- 12/1/2013 11:45:09 AM >

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/1/2013 2:18:48 PM   
KYsissy


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Status: offline 		I have been on the ground rolling around holding my nads twice in my life. Both times were accidents. I would never volunteer for that again. But then maybe a controlled kick is less excruciating then the full weight of your body at 20 mph into a steel post.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/1/2013 4:24:01 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: crazyml


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ORIGINAL: Kana


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ORIGINAL: totalworship7

I've never been kicked in the balls as part of D/s play. My Mistress enjoys this kind of CBT, and not being a masochist, I am trying to mentally/physically prepare myself. Does anyone have any advice on how best to accept a direct blow to the nuts or any mental prep in general?

Hell yes-wear a cup.A big fucking metal one with spikes sticking out to mangle anything that comes near the boys with ill intent.


This. Or a shotgun maybe.



Wearing a shotgun is problematic.

You clearly need to see the scene in "Once Upon a Time in Mexico" where Johnny Depp dispatches Eva Mendes.
It's educational

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/1/2013 4:29:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have been kicked once when I was in the 7th grade by a girl who was in my class. I really liked her, in fact she was the object of my affection the first time I ever pleasured myself. It was very painful.

The only other time I was hit that hard was when we were playing lacrosse in gym class. Someone threw the ball from about 100 yards away at the end of class and it hit me (I think this was also 7th grade lol!).

Both times were painful and humiliating but not erotic.

Prepare for a bad stomach ache.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/1/2013 5:06:54 PM   
shivermetimbers


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Status: offline 		Because you know if it's on the internet, it has to be true, a self help guide:

http://corruptcamel.com/2011/03/how-when-kick-man-nuts/

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/1/2013 7:20:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't even have balls and this thread is making me cringe.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/2/2013 2:48:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		To the OP: Have you been kicked yet? We want to know if you are holding an icepack on your crotch, limping and talking in a falsetto tone?

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/10/2013 9:31:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		No ball kicking just yet. I'll report back when/if it happens.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/10/2013 9:55:00 AM   
hsspode


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Status: offline 		Best bet like BossyShoeBitch mentioned is to start out slow with light kicks and work from there. She can then decide if you can go to the full out kicks, or many lighter fast ones that build up intensity quite quickly. Either way, you will feel it in your stomach...

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/11/2013 7:06:41 PM   
Tantalust


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Status: offline 		I don't care, they are virtually non existent and don't work anyway as I am an XXY male looking human.

Where it is, I don't mind, in fact why not as there is no damage that can be done that I wasn't born with as yes, it is a fantasy that a female would like to do so.

< Message edited by Tantalust -- 12/11/2013 7:08:58 PM >

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/12/2013 5:18:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Jump up. Really fast. Like you do in an elevator that is falling. It will work about as well.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/14/2013 6:15:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Been kicked, slapped, whipped, kneed, punched you name it. To me it is highly erotic, to each there own. I can take more pain if they are tied up than loose. 2 days ago I got the hardest abuse I ever had, almost needed an ice pack later. Worst part was the electric cord whip, she got my attention with it. Start slow and build it up. hell you might like it.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/14/2013 6:45:12 PM   
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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/17/2013 8:54:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		That is definitely a funny play on BDSM. The guys who are supposedly the wimps offer themselves up for pain and the guys who are supposed to be tough and in control back away from it.

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RE: First time ball kicking question - 12/17/2013 1:20:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		hsspode, yes that is a funny take on it. Yesterday we went to lunch and she promptly shoved her foot into my balls as we were sitting at the table. Nothing like a little sushi and cbt. Afterwards we went shopping for her ugly sweater party. She hugged me as we were getting ready to leave and punched me twice before she got in her car. First one was a surprise, second not as much because I could tell what kind of a mood she was in. Love the smile it puts on her face.

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