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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 4:19:56 PM   
DesideriScuri


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We have another person actually reading for comprehension and paying attention!! Thanks, boi!

Fine it's a waste of time as you haven't been able to grasp this point though numerous posters have spent multiple pages pointing it out to you but I'll give it one more try.
Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective, the 82% statistic you cited is generated by counting people who are having sex while not wearing condoms. Let me point that out again, people who aren't wearing condoms still get counted under the condom statistic.
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ORIGINAL: http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/news/20120224/condom-misuse-common
Researchers say closing the gap between perfect use and typical use of condoms is a major public health issue for future condom promotion efforts. In their study, researchers analyzed 50 studies from 14 countries on condom use. The results appear in a special issue of Sexual Health on condoms.
The review showed that although condom breakage and slippage were common issues in the studies, condom use errors were much more prevalent.
In addition, researchers say it’s probable that breakage and slippage often occur as a result of incorrect condom use. For example, one study showed the more condom use errors a person reported, the greater the odds of breakage, slippage, or both.
The most commonly reported condom use errors were:
Not using condoms throughout sexual intercourse
Not leaving space at the tip
Not squeezing air from the tip
Putting the condom on inside out
Not using only water-based lubricants
Incorrect withdrawal


You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."

Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.

You can post the "loophole" video all you want. That's still engaging in sex, aka not abstaining from sex.

WebMD even mentioned that abstinence is more effective at preventing pregnancy than condoms.




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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 4:59:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
We have another person actually reading for comprehension and paying attention!! Thanks, boi!

Fine it's a waste of time as you haven't been able to grasp this point though numerous posters have spent multiple pages pointing it out to you but I'll give it one more try.
Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective, the 82% statistic you cited is generated by counting people who are having sex while not wearing condoms. Let me point that out again, people who aren't wearing condoms still get counted under the condom statistic.
quote:

ORIGINAL: http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/news/20120224/condom-misuse-common
Researchers say closing the gap between perfect use and typical use of condoms is a major public health issue for future condom promotion efforts. In their study, researchers analyzed 50 studies from 14 countries on condom use. The results appear in a special issue of Sexual Health on condoms.
The review showed that although condom breakage and slippage were common issues in the studies, condom use errors were much more prevalent.
In addition, researchers say it’s probable that breakage and slippage often occur as a result of incorrect condom use. For example, one study showed the more condom use errors a person reported, the greater the odds of breakage, slippage, or both.
The most commonly reported condom use errors were:
Not using condoms throughout sexual intercourse
Not leaving space at the tip
Not squeezing air from the tip
Putting the condom on inside out
Not using only water-based lubricants
Incorrect withdrawal


You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."

Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.

You can post the "loophole" video all you want. That's still engaging in sex, aka not abstaining from sex.

WebMD even mentioned that abstinence is more effective at preventing pregnancy than condoms.

So your argument is that all people are perfect and always act in accordance with their stated beliefs?

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 6:00:50 PM   
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We do have proof of the acceleration at the fringes of the universe, radio and light from distances indicating they were from the early years of the big bang show tremendous red shifts, which is proof. It is why continuous creation was blown out as a theory, the red shift from radiation from the early time of the universe disproved it...


Lauren;

We differ on epistemology. What is proof and what is evidence? The acceleration is an excellent interpretation of the excess red shift. If you wish to call that 'proof' I won't argue but I will remain wary, remembering the Ptolemaic interpretations of observations of movements in the night skies.

Vincent-

I get your point, but the phenomenon of light shifting into the red end of the spectrum is not just an observation, it has been tested in labs and has proven out as a fact. When a light source is moving away from the viewer, the spectrum is shifted into the red if it is moving away, and the more it is in the red zone, the faster it is moving away..what also has been observed with distant galaxies is not only do they move faster the further away they are, their rate of speed (the red shift) increases with the same light source when tracked over time (if I recall correctly), which means it is not just moving away from us, but accelerating. What that also indicates is that further away bodies must be accelerating as well, since if they weren't nearer objects would overtake them....though obviously, when talking on a galactic scale, or universe scale, we are talking billions and billions of years, so changes are going to be subtle I would guess.

You points is well taken, however, the concept of proof is a tough one, there might be an explanation that is different than what we believe....the ptolemaic system was a bit different, in that it didn't come from observations and was not a scientific theory at all, it was more about Greek philosophy that placed the earth at the center of the solar system (even in Greek and ROman times, people already were postulating the sun was the center)....and the RC took the ptolemaic system because it fit their beliefs, not because there were observations to prove it, so it was a philosophy point that had no backing at all..

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 6:07:30 PM   
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You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."

Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.


*Sigh*

Apart from, as the thread title makes clear, the question is not whether abstinence is effective, but whether the teaching of abstinence as a form of sex education is effective.

If I acknowledge that (in the abstract) you're right and the former is 100% effective will you engage with the latter instead? Because this pedantic fucking about is getting a bit dull.

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 6:11:19 PM   
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You can't discuss it as science because there is absolutely no proof of a creator involved, no proof that things were designed, simply because it cannot be proven false doesn't mean it is true..whereas evolution has a ton of evidence to back it up, it has gone through the scientific process over 160+ years, and more often than not has been right, whereas every so called 'proof' of creationism has been blown to kingdom come there is absolutely nothing that 'creation science' has put out that stands any kind of test...

On top of which it's not possible to prove creationism wrong- it's not falsifiable. Because goddidit is an answer to absolutely everything. Whereas evolution is falsifable, at least theoretically. If, for example, it was shown that mutations don't exist or aren't passed down through generations, the theory of evolution would necessarily fall.

Which is always the case with scientific theories. They can never be categorically proved, just disproved. Which requires the possibility of doing so.



No, creationism cannot be proven false, you are correct, because it is a philosophical statement/a religious one, that relies on faith, not facts. The only way to prove creationism would be to prove something could not happen any other way, and so far ID has fallen flat on its face with that. Scientific theories can be proved, but it also depends what you mean by proved. Math, for example,can show something is possible or not possible, but that doesn't prove it in fact is, so that is the first level of 'proof'. Then,observations and experiments can prove out a theories predictions, and if they match it becomes a case where more and more the theory is accepted as fact. What you say is true, though, because the devil is in the details, and those often leave unknowns. The beauty of science is it doesn't proclaim universal truth, and is amenable to looking at things in different ways or modifying things, which religion, which proclaims universal truth, absolute truth, and then runs into problems when real life observations show it isn't true...

One of the things about science theories is as time goes on, there are very few revolutions.....Einstein's revolution didn't throw out Newton and Maxwell, it added to it. The Big bang theory did wipe out continuous creation, but for the most part as time goes on theories get modified and added to, as with evolution, but nothing has broken the broad idea of evolution or natural selection via mutation, and all that has been happening is that holes and guesses have been patched over, it has been evolutionary, not revolutionary. If they ever get string theory out of the conjecture phase and show some proof, it would add to Einstein's stuff, not overturn it, and so forth. Religion tends to build itself on old beliefs and may tinker with things here and there, but otherwise stays where it is. Creationism fails as science because as you say, it cannot be tested, its whole 'truth' relies on claiming evolution cannot explain things, which doesn't prove creationism, it simply casts doubt in the mind of the feeble minded. It is kind of sad when supposedly 70% of adults in the US claim not to believe in Evolution, the GOP and the knuckle draggers have done a good job confusing boobus americanus.


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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 6:13:40 PM   
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None of those are major transitions. They all represent gradual change between a very chimpanzee like animal and modern humans.

Having had this conversation with him in the past he's getting hung up for two reasons:
1. A digital labelling scheme is used to represent the analog phenomenon.
2. He learned about "evolution" from creationists.

Right, because my college biology and anthropology had nothing to do with human evolution...

Your college course is way out of date, among other things, when you went to college the human genome hadn't been mapped, and DNA sequencing was a pipe dream, as it was when I went to school.


Huh? I was being sarcastic (hence the ). It was in opposition to my having learned about evolution from creationists. I'm pretty sure just about every course I took is out of date from back then, but, what course hasn't changed?

Okay, maybe the GenEd stuff hasn't changed much, but most of the core classes have.




Yeah, ancient greek and latin haven't changed much *lol*.....a lot has changed, though basic chemistry and physics hasn't changed much, neither has math really....

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/1/2014 10:00:12 PM   
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You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."

Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.


*Sigh*

Apart from, as the thread title makes clear, the question is not whether abstinence is effective, but whether the teaching of abstinence as a form of sex education is effective.

If I acknowledge that (in the abstract) you're right and the former is 100% effective will you engage with the latter instead? Because this pedantic fucking about is getting a bit dull.


I think the question is actually different than you propose.

Is there a significant societal benefit to delaying sex?

I would say there is.

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 2:25:01 AM   
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You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."

Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.


*Sigh*

Apart from, as the thread title makes clear, the question is not whether abstinence is effective, but whether the teaching of abstinence as a form of sex education is effective.

If I acknowledge that (in the abstract) you're right and the former is 100% effective will you engage with the latter instead? Because this pedantic fucking about is getting a bit dull.


I think the question is actually different than you propose.

Is there a significant societal benefit to delaying sex?

I would say there is.


There is never societal benefit in ignorance, and a lesson on abstinence is not education at all, it is a sensibilization campaign, School purpose is to give young people the tools to be an adult, sex and birth control are part of adult life so school has a duty to theach how properly use them, otherwise they will have to try by attempts... and that's a risky way.

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 2:35:50 AM   
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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 4:14:42 AM   
DesideriScuri


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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
We have another person actually reading for comprehension and paying attention!! Thanks, boi!

Fine it's a waste of time as you haven't been able to grasp this point though numerous posters have spent multiple pages pointing it out to you but I'll give it one more try.
Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective, the 82% statistic you cited is generated by counting people who are having sex while not wearing condoms. Let me point that out again, people who aren't wearing condoms still get counted under the condom statistic.
quote:

ORIGINAL: http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/news/20120224/condom-misuse-common
Researchers say closing the gap between perfect use and typical use of condoms is a major public health issue for future condom promotion efforts. In their study, researchers analyzed 50 studies from 14 countries on condom use. The results appear in a special issue of Sexual Health on condoms.
The review showed that although condom breakage and slippage were common issues in the studies, condom use errors were much more prevalent.
In addition, researchers say it’s probable that breakage and slippage often occur as a result of incorrect condom use. For example, one study showed the more condom use errors a person reported, the greater the odds of breakage, slippage, or both.
The most commonly reported condom use errors were:
Not using condoms throughout sexual intercourse
Not leaving space at the tip
Not squeezing air from the tip
Putting the condom on inside out
Not using only water-based lubricants
Incorrect withdrawal

You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."
Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.
You can post the "loophole" video all you want. That's still engaging in sex, aka not abstaining from sex.
WebMD even mentioned that abstinence is more effective at preventing pregnancy than condoms.

So your argument is that all people are perfect and always act in accordance with their stated beliefs?


Not at all, but I'm sure that won't stop you.

And, just to reiterate - again - I do not support "abstinence only" sex education.


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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 4:28:40 AM   
DesideriScuri


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You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."
Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.

*Sigh*
Apart from, as the thread title makes clear, the question is not whether abstinence is effective, but whether the teaching of abstinence as a form of sex education is effective.
If I acknowledge that (in the abstract) you're right and the former is 100% effective will you engage with the latter instead? Because this pedantic fucking about is getting a bit dull.


I have stated it several times in this thread, that I do not support "abstinence only" sex education. That's my stance, and has been my stance.

Look at my very first post (Post#3).

Post#78 was the first time I listed not being in favor of "abstinence only" sex education, while reiterating that abstinence is the most effective form of birth control and STD prevention.

So, the thread started on the 12/23. My first post was on 12/23, pointing out something I found to be humorous; not even disagreeing that "abstinence only" education was not effective. On 12/25, I pointed out that I'm not in favor of "abstinence only" education (and, it's not the only time I've posted that in this thread). So, here we are, a week later, you still don't see where I'm coming from, and that's supposed to move me, how?

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 4:33:56 AM   
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There is never societal benefit in ignorance, and a lesson on abstinence is not education at all, it is a sensibilization campaign, School purpose is to give young people the tools to be an adult, sex and birth control are part of adult life so school has a duty to theach how properly use them, otherwise they will have to try by attempts... and that's a risky way.


Who here, is supporting "abstinence only" education? Even the question of whether or not delaying sex has a societal benefit doesn't necessarily mean that "abstinence only" education is the best.

Abstaining from sex is still the most effective form of birth control. Sex education discussions should include, but not be limited to, that.




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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 4:50:04 AM   
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...while reiterating that abstinence is the most effective form of birth control and STD prevention.


If I agree that's the case in conservative fantasy land will you concede that in reality it is one of the least effective forms of birth control known to man and common side effects include life long psychological damage and the inability to ever orgasm?

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 5:57:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri

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There is never societal benefit in ignorance, and a lesson on abstinence is not education at all, it is a sensibilization campaign, School purpose is to give young people the tools to be an adult, sex and birth control are part of adult life so school has a duty to theach how properly use them, otherwise they will have to try by attempts... and that's a risky way.


Who here, is supporting "abstinence only" education? Even the question of whether or not delaying sex has a societal benefit doesn't necessarily mean that "abstinence only" education is the best.

Abstaining from sex is still the most effective form of birth control. Sex education discussions should include, but not be limited to, that.





Not directly but in the end it is... there are also social and health benefits in walking, riding a bike and using public trasportation for short distances than always using a private car but you are not told about this during driving school classes... abstinence is a different concept than a taking responsible decision.

edit: also abortion is 100% effective in birth control, but it doesn't make it a good method.

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 7:07:15 AM   
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...while reiterating that abstinence is the most effective form of birth control and STD prevention.

If I agree that's the case in conservative fantasy land will you concede that in reality it is one of the least effective forms of birth control known to man and common side effects include life long psychological damage and the inability to ever orgasm?


Absolutely not.

If you aren't having sex, how is it not an effective form of birth control?

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 7:12:03 AM   
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There is never societal benefit in ignorance, and a lesson on abstinence is not education at all, it is a sensibilization campaign, School purpose is to give young people the tools to be an adult, sex and birth control are part of adult life so school has a duty to theach how properly use them, otherwise they will have to try by attempts... and that's a risky way.

Who here, is supporting "abstinence only" education? Even the question of whether or not delaying sex has a societal benefit doesn't necessarily mean that "abstinence only" education is the best.
Abstaining from sex is still the most effective form of birth control. Sex education discussions should include, but not be limited to, that.

Not directly but in the end it is... there are also social and health benefits in walking, riding a bike and using public trasportation for short distances than always using a private car but you are not told about this during driving school classes... abstinence is a different concept than a taking responsible decision.
edit: also abortion is 100% effective in birth control, but it doesn't make it a good method.


Abortion costs a lot more than not having sex, too, but not having sex tends to not result in pregnancy. If you have proof otherwise that not having sex does result in pregnancy, then, by all means, put it out there.

I agree that sex education should include abstinence as a form of pregnancy and STD transmission prevention, but that sex education is not limited to that. Reality is that many people succumb to the lures of sex. That can be a nearly insurmountable desire, and our kids should be educated to deal with that reality. IMO, I want my kids to choose to abstain from sex until they are ready to deal with the consequences that having sex might bring, but I want them to be ready to be protected if they find that they can't abstain.


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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 7:16:17 AM   
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We have another person actually reading for comprehension and paying attention!! Thanks, boi!

Fine it's a waste of time as you haven't been able to grasp this point though numerous posters have spent multiple pages pointing it out to you but I'll give it one more try.
Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective, the 82% statistic you cited is generated by counting people who are having sex while not wearing condoms. Let me point that out again, people who aren't wearing condoms still get counted under the condom statistic.
quote:

ORIGINAL: http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/news/20120224/condom-misuse-common
Researchers say closing the gap between perfect use and typical use of condoms is a major public health issue for future condom promotion efforts. In their study, researchers analyzed 50 studies from 14 countries on condom use. The results appear in a special issue of Sexual Health on condoms.
The review showed that although condom breakage and slippage were common issues in the studies, condom use errors were much more prevalent.
In addition, researchers say it’s probable that breakage and slippage often occur as a result of incorrect condom use. For example, one study showed the more condom use errors a person reported, the greater the odds of breakage, slippage, or both.
The most commonly reported condom use errors were:
Not using condoms throughout sexual intercourse
Not leaving space at the tip
Not squeezing air from the tip
Putting the condom on inside out
Not using only water-based lubricants
Incorrect withdrawal

You: "Condoms when used correctly are 98% effective..."
Me: Abstinence, when used, is 100% effective.
You can post the "loophole" video all you want. That's still engaging in sex, aka not abstaining from sex.
WebMD even mentioned that abstinence is more effective at preventing pregnancy than condoms.

So your argument is that all people are perfect and always act in accordance with their stated beliefs?


Not at all, but I'm sure that won't stop you.

And, just to reiterate - again - I do not support "abstinence only" sex education.


But you continue to argue that abstinence is effective at stopping pregnancy and the spread of STD's despite overwhelming evidence that it is not. The only way it is is if the people who claim to be abstinent are 100% perfect and honest. However when the same statement is made about condoms you are more than happy to bring up improper usage and people failing to actually use a condom when they claim they use it.

So why the double standard?

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 8:01:22 AM   
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Abortion costs a lot more than not having sex


but it is 100% effective in birth control? if you have proves that a well perfrmed abortion resoulted in a birth please put it out there.

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 8:15:50 AM   
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Reality is that many people succumb to the lures of sex.

Amend this to read almost all people who aren't:
*too socially inept to convince anyone to have sex with them
*too fugly to be found attractive by anyone
*or too psychologically scarred

and we'll be in agreement.

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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
That can be a nearly insurmountable desire, and our kids should be educated to deal with that reality.

Agreed, preaching that they should deny this biological imperative is unrealistic, unhelpful, unhealthy and unsafe. I'm advocating instead that they be taught safe outlets to appease the compulsion as well as safe and healthy practices of when and how to have sex.

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RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it'... - 1/2/2014 8:23:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri

Reality is that many people succumb to the lures of sex. That can be a nearly insurmountable desire, and our kids should be educated to deal with that reality. IMO, I want my kids to choose to abstain from sex until they are ready to deal with the consequences that having sex might bring, but I want them to be ready to be protected if they find that they can't abstain.



That's where I don't agree with you, they should be educated to affection, to have an emotional healty relationship and to self determination, sexual maturity arrives before economical stability. I don't want for any person to be thaught to repress his feelings. I got shocked when I read that statistic where half of a group of 12-14 year olders had already engaged in sex, this has nothing to do with sexual education classes or abstinence teaching, they just don't have developped any other way to relate between themself and they try to act as adults without understanding what it means, this is just an example of social deprivation, probably for lack of positive models, and talking about abstinence has no effect on that.

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