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ORIGINAL: MissAlison

Perhaps Im wrong....I rarely am, but anything is possible....
I dont see where she says she wants to be a prodomme, just a Mistress....there's no difference?

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ORIGINAL: YourMistress2006

I am new to the Mistress thing. Just wondering if anyone knew of any free sites to find subs? And is Paypal ok to ask for.. I need instructions here.. LOL

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Be that as it may, I believe, given time, CM may see the wisdom of charging those you use their site to charge others.  And why shouldn't they?

Because they choose not to and that's pretty much all there is to it.  It's free for all users and that's the way it's going to stay.

XI

Well, let's see how long that lasts.  Personally, I'm a huge fan of free but I think ultimately, it will be difficult to sustain. 

Btw, what an honor to be responded to directly by you Mod11!  I still fear you though. 

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ORIGINAL: toyforplay

Well seems like you got lot of responses most not intended to be helpful. Not sure if you'll read down this far but here goes.

First if its free and easy use it. In additiona to collarme there are many donima lists like maxfisch, dickie virgin, bellas list, etc that will post a listing and a link for the asking. I don't know how much business they drum up but they don't cost anything so why not.

Next have a website. It doesn't have to be a profesional type website free web pages are fine. If you don't have one or know how ask subs you chat or correspond with if they know how. Most would be pleased to do it as a labor of love. Also you can get a page pre-made on the lists above.

Put link exchanges on your webpage. Thats when you put a link on your page to another bdsm website in return they put a link to you on their site.

When you do meet some subs ask them to post a review. The Erotic Review is a great site. Since its paid for by subscriptions by the shoppers its free for you.

As for your question about paypal, I think the other posters may have misunderstood you. I would agree with them if you are talking about the whole financial slavery thing (where subs pay a mistress for doing absolutely nothing) But you may have just been wondering how a pro gets paid. Keep it simple, cash at the door.

If you don't have any real experience, going into business on your own will be difficult and perhaps even dangerous. Every big city has houses of domination that are always hiring. New mistress' have the opportunity to team up with more experinced to learn the ropes (literally). The house takes 40 to 50% of your gross and most mistress' move on to private practice but its a good place to learn the business.

As for the rest of you, stop ging the young lady a hard time and help her out. There aren't enough dommes in the world for my tastes and newcomers are always welcome. I love new dommes. Theres nothing better than the surprised laugh when she finds out her sub is wearing frilly panties under his business suit. Especially when it really is a suprise. lol

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ORIGINAL: toyforplay

Theres nothing better than the surprised laugh when she finds out her sub is wearing frilly panties under his business suit. Especially when it really is a suprise. lol

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ORIGINAL: YourMistress2006

is Paypal ok

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

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ORIGINAL: toyforplay

Theres nothing better than the surprised laugh when she finds out her sub is wearing frilly panties under his business suit. Especially when it really is a suprise. lol

And just imagine the surprised laughs from the EMT team.  Talk about a surprise!  Then again, I'm sure most of them have seen it all. 

There's a small chance this disclosure falls under TMI (too much information). 

(Sorry, couldn't help myself)