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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 5:07:36 AM   
bignipples2share


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To the origional poster
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I prefer more natural photos. Yes, it's nice when you know the camera is there and to be able to look at it, smile and have your pic taken, but as far as posing your hand in a certain manner, that's for the studio pics. If you're not trying to get into acting, modeling, or wedding pictures, then those pics should stay in your photo album. I'd much rather see a persons smile and they way they carry themselves naturally than anything else. Most people don't look like those professional photos in real life anyway.
I personally don't care to share my pic with the vast majority of people. I see no reason why some guy in BFE, who I'll never meet, really needs to see what I look like and say he think I look one way, then as soon as I say 'no thanks, I don't care to cyber' he now says I look like something else LOL
Am I hypocritical? You bet!  I wanna see what everyone else looks like LMAO

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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 5:34:36 AM   
marieToo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: feastie

quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot

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ORIGINAL: feastie

Well, first I must say that while yes, many photos here are not the best quality, the CM TOS specifically states that the photos must be taken yourself.  That pretty much precludes professional photos.

Second, not everyone is handy with photo software.  They may well have done the best they could with the tools and knowledge they possess.

Third, it's just a photo, it's not a big enough deal to squawk over.

And lastly, for Brightspot, whom I first noticed with her thread on the poor way the gators were being treated in Florida.
I'm not exactly sure what in Pete's post unhinged you, as it was fairly benign.  I will say that I believe you reacted in an extremely harsh way to someone who did nothing to deserve it.  If you don't agree with him, that's fine, but I think the flat out rage and hatred with which you reamed him was completely uncalled for.  I will mention, as long as I'm here, that your use of the large, bold font makes you seem obnoxious already.  The angry and often meaningless diatribes you so often post just intensify that feeling.

I don't agree with a lot of Pete's posts.  A lot just rubs me the wrong way, but I don't see the need in speaking to him in the manner you've done here.  You do have the block feature as well as the rest of us.  I suggest you utilize it for those you find distasteful. 


It does not surprise me feastie that you had to jump in and seize the opportunity to critisize me, I sense you have just been waiting for the opportunity, hope you enjoyed it
 
You seem very happy to comment on my secound post in this thread, yet omit anything about my subsequent posts where I own my mistake of speaking spontaneously and taking what the op said in a wrong way and over reacting. 
 
To address your comments about how I chose to use the font buttons, I really don't care much if you find it obnoxious and you also have the block option right at your finger tips. I have no desire to seek your exceptance as I don't find you all that likeable. 
 
*Brightspot


You're correct, BrightSpot, I didn't comment on your subsequent posts.  They didn't deserve it, as they were not sincerely apologetic.  They were still full of hatred and drama.  I also do not wait for someone, anyone, to make a post that I can jump on and point out the error of their ways.  I posted what I did, as I did, because I felt you were unfairly malicious to Pete.  That maliciousness has spilled over to others in this thread and it's wrong there too.  I honestly do not see the point in being so incredibly ugly to anyone.  My words to you, and those of several others, were constructive criticism, not disparagment.  You might not have asked for it, but you sorely needed it.

Yes, I do have control over my block button and I do use it when I feel it necessary.  However, I don't find it necessary for you at this moment.
You certainly may, however, choose to add me to your own block list.  I will always call them as I see them, with regard to any post on this board, albeit, I will make every attempt to make my point without resorting to meaness.  As for my comments on your use of font, it's simply my observation.  It reads from the screen very much like someone yelling, all the time.  Which in turn, makes a negative, ugly post seem that much more so.  I'm sorry if you don't understand this or agree with it, but it's very true.  It works much the same as someone using all capital letters.

My best to you, BrightSpot.  I do hope that you can spend some time thinking about some of these posts made here, and come to understand why it seemed everyone jumped you.  There are ways to disagree with people that don't include being downright ugly to them.  Sometimes, it's as simple as reading through a post again before clicking ok.  Sometimes, it's leaving it for a different time, when you post with a fresh mind.  Sometimes, it's hitting the cancel button.



Apparently "malicous" comes in many forms wearing many fonts, delivered in many various ways. Regardless of one's inability to admit to it.

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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 5:39:32 AM   
redpetals


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all this todo over nothing..jiminy crickets already..the guy is a pro..of course hes gonna come across a wee bit stuffed shirt if you dont understand that hes not being condescending ,he is just trying to be helpful.
i bet he regrets trying to help anyone..i know i would regret it
all of my pics were taken by family members.with digital cameras..i photo shop only to resize because we have such a slow connect out here in eastbumfuck...
i figure if someone really wants to know what i look like there will be a coffee shop somewhere with
us sitting in it..
just sayin'

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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 5:56:26 AM   
sensiia


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Avoiding the drama here, and being an amatuer photographer (at one time) I did not find the OP's posts in anyway negative. I took a photography course and learned how to develop B&W film.

My photos are taken with a cam, a digital and from a manual 35 mm. I have seen many pics that are out of focus but some of mine are too. I like to increase my knowledge so I am open to any pointers out there about anything in life that I do not already understand or know.

Life is too short to be angry

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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 7:13:22 AM   
TxBadMan


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ORIGINAL: MrrPete

Having been a manager of a portrait studio I'm a bit dismayed
at the low quality photos posted to profiles.

By low quality I mean, fuzzy out of focus, poor color, washed out, pixelated
crap. You'd make a better impression not posting any photo.

You only get once chance to make a good first impression. And on the internet
that's the pic you put in your profile.

I suggest your primary photo be a close up at least from the waist up. That way
we can see what your face is like. Put your full length shots as secondary photos.

Primary photos should be clear, sharp face shots. All 2ndary photos need to be
clear and sharp.



Personally, I found his post to be a bit condescending also. If you are not happy with another's photo, if that is how you make your impression of another, then may I suggest that you simply move on to another that is more appealing to you. Personally, I find the 'real' shots of others to more appealing than some high quality professional photo.

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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 2:24:10 PM   
MrrPete


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Wow! What a diffreence a few hours make.

I apologize fro instigating such a flame war with my sincere desire to
help people improve on their profiles with better photos.

Brightspot you're entitled to your opinion and have the right to post it.
We'll just have to agree to disagree on this issue.


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RE: Profile Photos - 7/6/2006 3:05:17 PM   
fadedlace


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I don't have a picture here, though I have a couple of me posted on another site.  Not showing my face, however.  I did that in the past, until I found out anyone could do a search on a web search engine and find my profile and picture just by knowing my screenname.  Realtime freaks in my past *and I do NOT mean freaks in a good way* and my child at home, preclude my showing my face to just any Tom, Dick, or Henrietta.  This area of the country is NOT very populated.
When and if I do choose to post a picture here, I will post one reflecting myself as I see myself.  Whether it's out of focus, contrast or color edited, or whatever.
The opinion of a professional photographer is great; however, I'd think that for me, getting input on my personal picture in a forum as I've seen posted here, would seem akin to me *disclaimer, in my opinion*, to being told in front of a large crowd, "you need to exercise your butt, you have hips that are too large right here and here, and the breasts have to be worked on."  Something about that bothers me.  If someone enjoys a picture, by all means, compliment the poster.  If not, please offer suggestions privately, or offer to shoot pics of the poster yourself in a studio for free.  :)
The photos I choose to post of myself anywhere, are ones I am happy with, which reflect my interests, mood, outlook, and focus on the parts of me I want others to look at first.  One reason I rarely do post pics publicly, is that I want people to know my mind, personality, and viewpoints, before viewing the outer shell.
MrrPete, this was not a personal attack upon you or your posts.  I'm sure your expertise would be, and is, appreciated by many.

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