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RE: Grace and Manners - 7/6/2006 7:16:08 PM

juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: babysburnin

I'm almost afraid of responding - I think next time you want to complain about subs you do so in a different forum. You posed your questions to subs, and didn't like the answers. Are you seeking a sub? Then listen up and obsorb. If you want to be an angry, lonely Dom - go pose your questions to those who will nod and agree. (You did get a bad time here - but you could have saved yourself many times, but "stuck to your guns." ) As Bita says often, "Good luck with that."

I'm hoping you aren't all that bad, just couldn't find it in yourself to back-down when challenged... Subs can be like that too, polite with manners and all.

There is a HUGE lesson here - do you want to be "right" so much that you are not able to get along with others? No, it's not about giving up your point, but like someone said - listening to the other side.

babysburnin, he also forgot that on his profile there is a little button that a person interested in him can push to read his posts on this forum... if there was someone I was interested in on CM I would read all their posts to measure their worth as a prospective dominant. I doubt he thought about that before posting this thread or his responses to us. Our words can betray us and we certainly should think AT LEAST twice before we utter them (and no I do not always think twice myself...smiles).

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RE: Grace and Manners - 7/6/2006 9:07:55 PM

Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: Dv8Top
That being the case,why is it that the standard response from the submissives I've attempted to contact is *no response* followed by blocking? I'm not rude, crude, or abusive, my notes have always been respectful...

Hello A/all

Perhaps the person has zero interest in spending 5 minutes of his/her life responding to one of the zillion responses he/she gets on a daily basis to their profile?

To me, there is something respectful about the non-answer. It definitely beats the "yer a simple minded cretin tool and if you were a male Dominant capable of reading my profile you would see that I was a lesbian Dominant with zero interest in men" response.

If somebody doesnt respond to my generally polite and respectful (although sometimes a bit goofy) emails to them, I dont take it personally. Perhaps Virgo was ascendant the night I sent it. Maybe she was worried about her loved ones in Iraq. Maybe her house had burned down. Maybe Rush Limbaugh was spewing anti-drug abuser rhetoric while downing illegal Oxytocin and it distracted her from responding.

From my opinion, the most Dominant approach for me seems to be to simply move on and assume that some things in life are simply not meant to be. But that is just me, and I could be wrong.

Sinergy

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RE: Grace and Manners - 7/6/2006 10:40:20 PM

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<happy sigh> I love laid back, honest, down to earth people with a sense of humor. You, Sinergy, rock.

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RE: Grace and Manners - 7/7/2006 4:36:49 AM

Dv8Top

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May i ask if you honestly hand on heart reply to every message you recieve on collar me?

Yes, each and every, just as I acknowledge the presence of other people.

And I don't howl childish repostes when I don't get my own way

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RE: Grace and Manners - 7/7/2006 4:53:15 AM

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To all the comments regarding my posts to the MB and how people interpret them:

This is an internet Message Board, and as best I can tell from this experience there are very few posters I would want to interact with at any level never mind interpersonal.

That being said I don't give a Rat's Ass how you percieve me, primarily because not a one of you actually know me, who I am, what I do, how I think, etc...

I live in a litttle town, full of small minded people, this MB is a global village filled with small minded people. You are legends in your own mind, keyboard flexers living out your personal fantasies on the Internet, nothing more nothing less.

I came here with a question, I ended up being questioned. I asked for information I recieved defamation. If for one small moment in time you think that your "perception" of me is important to me you need to get a clue.

There was no civil discourse here, there was no cognitive resonance, there was nothing of value other than the opportunity for some of you to vent your individual issues and project them as mine.

And again to those of you who believe that the impression I have made here is detrimental to my participation your vision is blurred by your inability to see the big picture... I know now that with a few exceptions I wouldn't want to know most of you under any circumstances.

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RE: Grace and Manners - 7/7/2006 5:57:11 AM

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