LittleGirlHeart -> RE: I thought of a cute idea for disabled people to let people know easily the d if they wish (2/15/2014 6:57:04 PM)
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My mom is, first elderly and secondly semi disabled, and it doesn't matter how many non disabled parking spots there are close by, even right in front, shell take the dp spot. And it drives me nuts. I have a dp plack, and I only use it when parking is scarce and way the he'll out from the door, or no parking left. I believe in not taking a dp, when other parking is close by. quote:
ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance quote:
ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide I have no problem with people parking in Handicap spots that need them, its the people that do not need them that park in them and deprive handicap people of the parking spot. When some putz by him or herself with no one else in the car parks there and runs in and out of the store like a Boston Marathon runner it irks me. You can't really KNOW who needs them though. I don't have a handycap placard. I live by the rule, use it or lose it so I try to walk as much as I can. My disabiliteis aren't readily visible though and while I may be in remission from time to tiime there are other periods when even extremely mild activities raise my blood pressure to very dangerous levels because of the vasculitis or the connective tissue disease is attacking my lungs and I have difficulty breathing or I'm just in severe pain. The point is, even though I chose NOT to have a handicap placard, I do qualify for one. If you saw me climb out of my Tahoe (or fall out as is often the case) you might think I didn't look dsabled but you can't know the sheer will it takes just to walk the parking lot into the store because I prefer to avoid bringing attention to myself so I'm probably sucking it up and doing my best to smile and be friendly. At the same time, I do think that the handicap parking is most likely abused and people ARE parking there who should probably be leaving the spaces to those who need the wheelchair accessability. I base that off humanity in general. If there's a loophole, and a way to exploit things for convenience, we (humanity in general) will jump on it and exploit the hell out of it. Not our best trait though, and one I try my best to rise above.
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