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MistressDarkArt -> RE: what do you think of my opening message? (2/4/2014 7:03:33 PM)
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ORIGINAL: nero101
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ORIGINAL: shiftyw
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4) While I like being called a fuck toy- personally, I prefer that to come later when I've decided to engage with someone, not right from jump street.
i would prefer you got a clue and not come across absolutely and completely condecending. this is a bdsm forum, in my experience not many GIRLS mind being called sl*t or wh**e never mind girl.
i dont really need a mistresses point of view on this but thanks anyway
Nero, again with the 'girls'...and you never did answer my question about whether your respondents were actual women and not scammers, finducks, or professionals who wouldn't care if you told them the sky is green in Esperanto and Swahili...backwards. You are so blowing it; shiftyw is a female submissive. Way to go, insulting and offending your target audience. [8|]
I believe the point she is trying to get across is: unless and until you establish a consensual relationship with a woman and thereby understand her preferences, sending out notes or making posts calling them anything other than 'women', 'ladies' or their screen name is unwanted. They don't like it. Shiftyw just told you so. I told you so, too. If you want to get laid, read and heed.
As for not wanting a female dominant's opinion: oi, oi, oi dude, your cluelessness astounds. We are women just like any other women and it's women you want to diddle, no? In case you missed reading the TOS you agreed to abide by, anyone can post anywhere. If a transgender bisexual switch into tap dancing and beanie baby collecting wants to add to the discussion, that person does not need your permission to do so.
You are getting valuable advice and information here. Acting like a tool just pisses people off, and they won't want to help any more. Just...trust me on this. I really do have your best interests at heart.
Also, upon reading of your 'experience', I'll tell you right now that with very few exceptions, women will read your description of what you did with someone else, then shut down right then and there. They will NOT put themselves in that imaginary woman's place. They'll likely think, 'what kind of jack-knob would post his private smack all over the web? That means he'll do it to me, too.'
Perhaps getting off the computer and out into your community would be more beneficial in finding what you seek; you're making too much of a mess here and your posts will remain in perpetuity. That means forever, if you weren't sure. All any potential partner would have to do is click the 'forum posts' button on your profile to see who she's dealing with, then it'll be game over. If I wanted to succeed after a debacle like this, I'd delete my profile and start completely over while incorporating all the new-found knowledge so generously given by people who want the best for you.
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