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DesFIP -> RE: what do you think of my opening message? (2/5/2014 9:27:03 AM)
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So why would anyone want to be a short term fucktoy? What does she get out of it?
Objectification, such as reducing someone to fucktoy status is really only doable inside of a strong relationship. Where after you've been objectified, you then have have the needed assurance that you really are liked, loved, respected and esteemed.
You don't offer anything of value to make someone else want to fulfill your fantasies.
As far as your porn writings go, just because you touch them doesn't mean she'll cum. Especially if she knows how you really think about her, that she's not even someone you view as a friend. So she gets to fulfill all your fantasies while not enjoying sex with you and while being told and shown how much you don't value her. And you wonder why anyone doesn't want random degradation from a total stranger?
I strongly suggest you learn communication and relationship skills and do some hard work figuring out why you only view women in this light. Fixing your own problems will go a long way towards becoming someone worth interacting with. Presently, you would do better with a sex robot.
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