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drewtoserve -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/18/2014 4:08:37 PM)
Being an educated, intelligent sub, I for one LOVE an intelligent, sophisticated DOM. My problem is FINDING one!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/18/2014 4:37:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: asanaambitions I have a query, mostly for those who are interested in submitting to female dominants but of course all viewpoints are welcome. I'm finding a rather strange phenomenon as I'm speaking with (primarily) male submissives on this site, and that is that many of them get very uptight, offended and even rude when I show that I have intelligence and strength of character. This to me seems pretty counterintuitive, since you'd think that you'd want to submit to someone who you respect, admire or perhaps even feel is "better" than you in some way (not claiming to be better than anyone, just throwing ideas out there). I do understand that I have a somewhat abrasive personality and that my brusquness doesn't always translate well over text, but I admit that I still find it very shocking when these men behave like a petulant 5 year old because I dared to show that I actually have a brain. I am never rude or insulting or demeaning, I don't act like a screaming harpy intent on crushing these men beneath my boots (....maybe I should?). Is it because I'm ruining some sort of fantasy? Do submissive men really want a bubble headed bimbo in latex who never challenges them but just screams random insults while brandishing a flogger? Help me out peeps, what am I missing here? I personally seek a woman with an IQ of a used tire with less than 2,800 miles left on it. Still viable tread but, illegal to travel on most state roads. (That's just me).

Valkyrien -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/18/2014 11:35:56 PM)
It is all down to a guys individual preference really. Me personally, I am turned off and annoyed by dumb women. I like one who can think for herself and be independent, as well as have her life figured out and being career orientated. I am not saying she has to be a CEO, but just have the drive to make something of herself. I have no problem listening or taking advice from a women either. But that is just me personally, everyone is different.

Arturas -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/20/2014 4:22:41 PM)
quote: I find most men feel challenged by very bright women. I'm afraid only the dull ones.

Arturas -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/20/2014 4:29:39 PM)
quote: I'm finding a rather strange phenomenon as I'm speaking with (primarily) male submissives on this site, and that is that many of them get very uptight, offended and even rude when I show that I have intelligence and strength of character. Hmmm...imagine that. Well, perhaps male submissives feel threatened by great female submissives? I can safely assume submissive males feel they are competing with submissive females and the females have a great perceived advantage on them especially if they are both beautiful and intelligent.

Valkyrien -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/20/2014 9:15:12 PM)
Again, it is all down to the individual preference and well mentality. Some men feel like a women is just someone who keeps the house and bedroom, where as others are more open and accepting of women and does not mind them sharing their thoughts and being part of decision makings. I don't really consider my self liberal, but when it comes it things like this, I think everyone should be treated equally. That includes all genders, races, nationalities and sexual orientation. I think it is wrong to look down on or not socially accept someone for any reason involving those. The only reason I can think of why anyone would do, is because of ignorance and/or insecurities. But again that is just me personally. Others will have different opinions and view points, simply because we are all individually different. Would be boring if everyone was the same too.

Valkyrien -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/20/2014 9:21:40 PM)
For me a woman can have a cute face, hot body and a set of boobs that I would love to bury my face in! ..but if there's no brain activity going on and pretty much the only reason she has a head is so it won't rain down her throat. Then she is just a pretty face to me, and I don't even find her attractive or want to have anything to do with her. Again, that is just me personally.

submissionholly -> RE: Are strong, smart women not desirable? (6/30/2014 10:09:00 PM)
I have a (much) higher than average intelligence. I'm an academic, so my intelligence is focused on that rather than common sense (whatever that is). This means I read things and know how to spell things also Men don't have to fit into the "strong AND smart" box, so why should women? People are multifaceted, last I heard. I'm smart, physically average, with a few emotional weak spots. And that's fine I'm submissive so am finding it even harder than you to meet anyone not intimidated by me. I'm conventionally gorgeous too which doesnt help maybe. The male staff at my university constantly laugh at/gaslight/dismiss me If you have an opinion on EVERYTHING, therefore, you're not a real sub apparently I've realised that since most people can't keep up with me intellectually, and most of those people are vanilla, and most of the remaining people are unattractive, my pool of potential partners is TINY, and I'm totally ok with letting people know that right away

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