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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

http://www.fearlesspress.com/2013/01/30/prostitution-professional-domination/

This case got some news coverage:

http://www.chicagoreader.com/chicago/false-arrest-the-dominatrix-and-the-undercover-cop/Content?oid=883308


I'm playing around this morning searching for a state by state list, so far no joy.

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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ORIGINAL: Snitch

A Findomme, by definition in most US states, is a prostitute (specifically if there is money exchanged explicitly for sexually purposed touching of buttocks, breasts, or genitalia).

Given that clear legal definition, you may as well ask the same question of the local prostitutes in almost every mile of every town in the US.

It's pretty clear what they get out of it. But I'll let you figure that out.

In most cases, there is no sexual touching by the findomme. Often, they are never in the same room as their subs/slaves. Therefore it does NOT fall under prostitution.


I'm neither a finsub nor a findomme, so don't have a horse in the race, but prefer truths to fiction.

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ORIGINAL: Theservileone

I personally have always felt that Findomme's were con artists or men pretending to be women to get gullible subs to send them money yet despite the fact that this site has a warning "Don't send anyone money for any reason." people still do it.

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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ORIGINAL: Theservileone

I personally have always felt that Findomme's were con artists or men pretending to be women to get gullible subs to send them money yet despite the fact that this site has a warning "Don't send anyone money for any reason." people still do it.

There are many online cons, pretending to be a pro or fin domme is just one. There wouldn't be people pretending to be them if there weren't some legitimate pros and fins to begin with.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

K, my recollection is that as a Fin Domme, you do not have physical contact with your clients and that the other Fin Dommes who have participated in threads here are the same - is my memory correct?

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

K, my recollection is that as a Fin Domme, you do not have physical contact with your clients and that the other Fin Dommes who have participated in threads here are the same - is my memory correct?

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ORIGINAL: FinSubCA

For me, FinDomme is just a kink where She dominates and controls your money.

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ORIGINAL: FinSubCA

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

OK, you seem like a nice enough fellow, but excuse me if your profile did made me giggle. You have never verified her identity via webcam, nor heard her voice but you heard the voice of her HUSBAND? (Most likely the fella scamming you out of your cash). May not be the case but sounds like classic catfish and you're easy prey, no offense. :)

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ORIGINAL: FinSubCA

For me, FinDomme is just a kink where She dominates and controls your money.

I don't mean to talk about me on this thread, but since you did ask me, I'm a church goer and I have faith in people.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

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ORIGINAL: FinSubCA

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: FinSubCA

Apparently financial domination is what you want, given that your user name is a virtual bull's eye. Just saying, not judging your choice. I didn't peek at your profile, and I don't need to to tell you what I'm going to say.

Being a churchgoer does not mean parking your brain at the door. I was once one for many years. GoddessManko and I are nonfin-Dommes, and she was trying to give you a head's up. Your faith should also tell you that people enter your life to deliver timely messages. Please consider mine a witness to hers.

You can do what you like with your discretionary household income. You are, nevertheless, obliged to be a responsible steward for your family and not to put yourself in a position that will jeopardize this function.

You can also decide to have faith in whatever and whoever you want. There is such a thing as blind faith, and there is only One who deserves it. You know exactly what I'm talking about. Remember the directive that as a believer you are entrusted to exercise the Power of Discernment.

Like I said, I'm not here to judge you or anybody else. That isn't my place. I may not condone what a couple of friends of a friend of mine do, and I say so to their faces (not so much about the money, but as to compromising themselves as being Dominant women by catering to their fin-slaves, instead of the other way around).

Get your money's worth. Don't be foolish. A fool and his money are soon parted. If you don't know who you're dealing with, whether this is even a female and/or whether she is a real Domme, or some unknown entity out to scam you and perhaps ruin you financially, possibly resorting to blackmailing you. You would be participating in a crime as a victim who recklessly assisted in setting himself up, and as such outside the purview of kinkiness. What good are you if you so gullibly let another gain access to your private household information? Get a handle on permitting your carnal desire nature to rule your life to your detriment and to the detriment of others.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: FinSubCA

For me, FinDomme is just a kink where She dominates and controls your money.

You have never verified her identity via webcam, nor heard her voice but you heard the voice of her HUSBAND? May not be the case but sounds like classic catfish and you're easy prey, no offense. :)

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I don't mean to talk about me on this thread, but since you did ask me, I'm a church goer and I have faith in people.