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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/15/2014 10:47:57 PM

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Please don't tell the op to go to a bdsm club. Imo, he's dangerous. I'd be afraid to be spanked by the guy that he would get angry over nothing at all.
He should not be playing with anyone. He should be working on his marriage and his PTSD before doing anything else at all.

Words of wisdom! Since the OP can't even control his vocabulary let alone his temper, he wouldn't be able to control himself physically. he also gives the vibe that he would curse the woman whose jaw he just broke for 'setting him off'.
Here's hoping he realises he's the pot calling the kettle black, and that he and his wife are honest with their psychiatrists and can get some real help.

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/15/2014 11:02:32 PM

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~FRing it~

Between this thread and other one, Im shocked that the ladies aren't beating down the door and knocking each other out MMA-style in the hopes of being first in line

What woman doesn't want to be with a guy who mocks people with disabilities he doesn't have by imitating them as a means of harassing others, screams obscenities at strangers (check to make sure little kids or old people aren't around before yelling whore, cunt, or cocksucker?), enjoys making people cry because he is being a major grumpy pants, and humiliates her at every turn with piss poor tantrum like behavior because he elects to intentionally and purposely have zero self control over his actions? What submissive doesn't want to surrender control to some man who can't even control himself?

I get that life dealt a shitty hand and this by no means excuses people with shitty attitudes who mistreat the disabled. But their rude behavior means returned rude behavior? Their mistreatment of the disabled means returned mistreatment of the disabled? Because when I came up, bullies used to think it was great fun to pick on the special education kids by mocking and imitating their disabilities and then laughing like jackasses at how "clever" they were. Seems to me that stooping to swimming in the same cesspool with the rude people makes one no better than the very ones being spoken out against.

In all honesty, I hope peace for what is clearly a troubled soul can be found. I hope that help so desperately needed is found. Clearly this type of acting out isn't working well, otherwise this wouldn't have come up at all and happy fun times would be had instead.

Best lesson in life I ever learned came from a paraplegic former police officer dominant guy. I think of it to this day every time I think life is just about ready to beat me down. He said that he realized that no matter how negative and bitter he was about losing the use of his lower body, he was still going to wake up tomorrow and be right back in his wheelchair. He couldn't change that, but he could change how he dealt with it. That man was a pure genius and wise beyond 10,000 years.

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/15/2014 11:57:33 PM

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/16/2014 9:06:56 AM

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I wake up sweating & shaking from nightmares to this day as do many other Vets. I carry that in my head as well as the physical every single day.

Something bugs me about this. In my country, Military service is not a choice. You either serve the military or go to jail.

But in your country, you CHOSE to serve. You knew this job came with all the risks. Yet, we are suppose to be extra sympathetic to your plight, that you get side effects from what you chose to do?

Apologies in advanced if you were forced into military against your consent.

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/16/2014 9:18:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Please don't tell the op to go to a bdsm club. Imo, he's dangerous. I'd be afraid to be spanked by the guy that he would get angry over nothing at all.
He should not be playing with anyone. He should be working on his marriage and his PTSD before doing anything else at all.

Words of wisdom! Since the OP can't even control his vocabulary let alone his temper, he wouldn't be able to control himself physically. he also gives the vibe that he would curse the woman whose jaw he just broke for 'setting him off'.

That's close to what went through my head.

At the clubs I've been to, not many women are willing to play with a complete stranger and most guys that show up as unknown singles tend to be treated like a mouth breather until they've proven otherwise. Chances are that if he went to the BDSM clubs, the women wouldn't give him the time of day..because that's how random single guys get treated.

So, I sat here thinking that if he reacts that way to being rejected online or to being ignored in a vanilla setting, how would he react after being rejected and ignored at a BDSM club where he's been told that there are women that will play with him?

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/16/2014 9:19:20 AM

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I can only imagine how well a full on man-tantrum would go over at a club...

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/16/2014 9:42:12 AM

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Quit ignoring me or acting like I'm invisible in public, then I won't act out. It's that simple.

Lots of women ignore men they don't know in public. In fact, I believe I was taught this in the Girl Scouts and self defense classes - "don't make eye contact with strange men."

When I'm at the gym, I studiously ignore EVERYONE, and prefer to go at times when there are less people to ignore.

When I belonged to a YMCA in Florida, there were a few disabled men, and I ignored them exactly the same as I ignored everybody else.

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/16/2014 9:44:41 AM

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I'd be worried about the club and its members. Anyone who exhibits such anger, self-entitlement issues and has shown a propensity for petty attacks is going to get banned and worse, probably cause innocent members trouble by "outing" the group to law enforcement and locals. At best, its a senseless hassle. At worst you (or your leadership) end up in court fighting for your rights (been there twice and it isn't fun) and on the 6:00 news.

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RE: Shallow/superficial women? - 2/16/2014 10:39:04 PM

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I think he deleted his profile.

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