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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/21/2006 9:32:16 PM   
MistressDivine30


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Status: offline 		How can a sub or slave understand what a real b*tch is unless he attempts to creat that feeling hisself.The pain of being a woman.  It is tough walking in those high heels and thongs are not the most comfortable clothing.  The highest form of flattery is imitation.  And that is all a sub or slave can do is imitate.  The don't have what it takes to be a real b*tch that is why they are subs and slaves and we are Doms.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/22/2006 4:54:47 AM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		The truth is, my brother became my sister. So my attitudes have seriously changed about crossdressing. I used to think it was funny when guys did the whole halloween thing with cheerleader outfits etc. So sure, it sounds like a hoot to see your man in fishnets. Talk sure is cheap.

After my brothers gender switch, now whenever I see some guy in public dressed up like a woman, I absulutely do not laugh or acknowledge it in any way. Since I'm in a job position where the general public approaches me, I act like the person is dressed normally and absolutely make sure I steer the conversation in a way where I dont ever have to say sir or miss/mam.

So I for one am here to say, while its all good and fun playing dress up, I cant help but see it as a disorder. I NEVER want to see my man in my clothes. My reaction would always be,.."Oh no! Not you too!" It would be a total turnoff. It would be worse than a turn off. It would be the killing blow to our relationship.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/22/2006 9:32:19 AM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		Well its not a full length mirror but it works.

Perhaps I should get a full length one...

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/22/2006 9:51:54 AM   
LadyElaine


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Status: offline 		I like to put them in panties to test how it makes them feel, when I get a slave LT he will wear pouches and a full, frilly apron to cook, BUT to wake up with one serving Me coffee in bed wearing a wig just freaks Me out!


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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/22/2006 9:57:16 AM   
TxBlkMistress


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Status: offline 		I don't have anything against it, I say live and let live.  But as far as a man that is with me is concerned, I just want a man that dresses like a man.  I have used panties on men but only under their "regular" clothes.  I guy in makeup, a wig and a dress...just not for me.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 1:59:24 AM   
MsGothUk


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ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress

I don't have anything against it, I say live and let live.  But as far as a man that is with me is concerned, I just want a man that dresses like a man.  I have used panties on men but only under their "regular" clothes.  I guy in makeup, a wig and a dress...just not for me.


me 2, I like my alfa males

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 2:07:26 AM   
onyurknees


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Status: offline 		Why do dommes do it? For some training, for some fun... but mostly just because they look so damn pretty in girl's undies.... yummmmmmm.
Maybe because I was influenced at an early age by Tim Curry as Frank N Furter (clearly the sexiest male role on the big screen in decades!)

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 5:22:40 AM   
MzMinx


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Status: offline 		count me in for   a  'no it doesnt interest me but feel free to do it if you want to' vote

I enjoy my submissive men masculine ... and prefer them naked and chained most of the time *grins*

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 8:46:58 AM   
mellian


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Status: offline 		Really depends on the Domme, but I know for sure that I tend to avoid Dommes that are seeking a crossdresser/transvestite than a woman, or would like to feminize me to the extreme than they I am in my black clothes. Even scarier, me who more goth and punk like in clothing, when a Domme goes and tries to prep me and want to dress me up all in pink and such. *shudders*

-mellian 

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 10:05:47 AM   
MsGothUk


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ORIGINAL: mellian
Even scarier, me who more goth and punk like in clothing, when a Domme goes and tries to prep me and want to dress me up all in pink and such. *shudders*

-mellian 


how awful

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 10:13:54 AM   
drflox


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Status: offline 		as a male Dom/Master it blows me away how you "Dom-Girls" (said with love and affection and respect) take a perfectly handsome butch man and smoother him in paint and lace and high heels -- first- all those skirts and panties get in the way Second-well it is just so messy-- I can see the humilation of it maybe - well it is my two cents

Drflox aka Master C

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 10:18:37 AM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: onyurknees

Why do dommes do it? For some training, for some fun... but mostly just because they look so damn pretty in girl's undies.... yummmmmmm.
Maybe because I was influenced at an early age by Tim Curry as Frank N Furter (clearly the sexiest male role on the big screen in decades!)






Awesome answer....I just watched a thing about the Rocky Horror show.
And I am very proud to say I am not a Virgin....LOL
They used to show it at midnight in Portland,Maine back in the late 80's.
What an awesome experience...sorry for going off topic,just love that Janet too much

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 10:26:39 AM   
mellian


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quote:

ORIGINAL: drflox

as a male Dom/Master it blows me away how you "Dom-Girls" (said with love and affection and respect) take a perfectly handsome butch man and smoother him in paint and lace and high heels -- first- all those skirts and panties get in the way Second-well it is just so messy-- I can see the humilation of it maybe - well it is my two cents

Drflox aka Master C


There are Doms and Masters that feminize their female subs when they are more naturally tomboyish in clothing, then there is also Gay/Bi Dom and Masters that feminize their male subs too. Basicly, don't have to be a Domme to feminize someone nor does the sub have tobe male to be feminized.

Yay for gender weirdness! :p

-mellian


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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/23/2006 10:30:13 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Personally, I have a thing for a guy who can still look manly in a skirt (think Raven on WCW before it got bought out ...)  Kilts work too, but a simple, solid colored skirt is what I prefer.

Other than that, I want my guys to be masculine (Bella posted the link to the thread where we discussed it before) - if I want feminine, I have Holly.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/24/2006 5:22:32 AM   
TheDiva


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Status: offline 		I'm with DiurnalVampire on the aesthetics of it.

his submission is his gift to Me; and [ideally] what's feminine is beautiful, so a feminized male sub is like a prettily wrapped package...

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/24/2006 1:01:53 PM   
MaleModel


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ORIGINAL: TheDiva

I'm with DiurnalVampire on the aesthetics of it.

his submission is his gift to Me; and [ideally] what's feminine is beautiful, so a feminized male sub is like a prettily wrapped package...


Yes, Ms. Diva, my Mistress also thinks I look pretty and so do her friends.
 
Like others in this thread, I wear panties under my "male clothing" at work.......Ms. L has hidden my "scratchy male undies," so I don't have many options.
 
My main issue now is whether she will want me to "come out" in female clothing.  Since, according to Ms. L and her friends, I have "great legs," and I always wear extemely short skirts, she's salivating at the prospect that men would hit on me.
 
Go figure.
 
MM

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/24/2006 1:48:48 PM   
JessicaLashes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaleModel

Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s clothes?  Do some women not care at all about this?  What drives its appeal?
My Mistress says, “it’s because I just like it, that’s all”


i dress up some guys just to humiliate them.  others because men are ugly little worms.  that need to be prettied up.  it's even more fun if the really hate it, so if they don't list it under their hard limits they better not be disobediant.

but when its time to play i prefer my victems naked. just so i will have easy access to all parts of there body. 


quote:


Is it “because you can?”  i.e., it exemplifies your control?  Or is there more to it?
I know My Mistress enjoyed it immensely when she coaxed me into my first panties.  Then we shopped together, which she loved, especially seeing if things fit or having me try them on in dressing rooms. That's easy for me to understand.
Since then, I’ve “developed” to the point where I got my first “outerwear” (skirts and tops) without her even asking.  This was a source of great pride to her…….I guess because my attitudinal shift was her doing, and done to please her.
Now I’m largely on my own, with just an occasional suggestion (“I would love you in a pink sweater”).  She loves that I have such “slutty” taste, e.g., very short skirts, metal belts, and says that’s the only way she wants me to dress.  I'm trending toward what she calles the "Biker Bitch" look.
Her close friends love me dressed this way too……they’re the only ones who’ve seen me……they get visibly aroused when I “dress up.”  Of course, I enjoy dressing up for Mistress and her friends.  What submissive male wouldn’t enjoy doing things that arouse women?
Do all men who “dress up” for their Dommes try to look ultra-slutty?  What is there in the submissive male psyche that pushes us in that direction?


< Message edited by JessicaLashes -- 7/24/2006 1:53:05 PM >

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/24/2006 2:19:42 PM   
MaleModel


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ORIGINAL: JessicaLashes

quote:

ORIGINAL: MaleModel

Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s clothes?  Do some women not care at all about this?  What drives its appeal?
My Mistress says, “it’s because I just like it, that’s all”


i dress up some guys just to humiliate them.  others because men are ugly little worms.  that need to be prettied up.  it's even more fun if the really hate it, so if they don't list it under their hard limits they better not be disobediant.

but when its time to play i prefer my victems naked. just so i will have easy access to all parts of there body. 


quote:






Ms. L says that seeing me "all decked out" makes her want to play.  And my skirts are so short that there are NO barriers to any of Her "toys" (except nipples)

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/25/2006 3:13:37 PM   
talltxsub


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Status: offline 		There is a basic fantasy for submissive men that makes them want to be slutty and easy.  Very few men can even pass as "pretty", but something about the soft and restrictive things can make them feel weaker, and hence more vulnerable.  Certainly there is a socialized phenomenon as part of this situation (where "feminine" is viewed as weak), but it also feels good.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/25/2006 9:21:54 PM   
msub4Domme


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Status: offline 		An interesting thread.  From my perspective as a sub, i am quite neutral regarding being asked (<smile> when i say "asked") to wear feminine clothing.  If it pleases the Domme, ok.  On the other hand, as a lover of tight bondage, i find that being laced into a very tight corset is quite a feeling and is something that enhances submission.  It is the bondage aspect of it irrespective of the aspect of femininizaton.  (i have had this done to me on occasion, with subsequent dressing in my normal clothing over it and out to dinner with the lovely Domme.  Needless to say, my appetite was a bit "restricted" that evening!)

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