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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/26/2006 4:54:42 AM

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Good Morning, actually I DON'T like My males to wear any form of female attire. The more masculine the better.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/26/2006 8:37:11 AM

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I've got absolutely NO interest in men being dressed in anything other than masculine clothing, or nothing at all. I've got a thing for men in uniform or suits. Fem isn't my thing, but if it turns someone else on, far be it for me to tell them they're wrong!

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/26/2006 8:50:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: sophia37

The truth is, my brother became my sister. So my attitudes have seriously changed about crossdressing. I used to think it was funny when guys did the whole halloween thing with cheerleader outfits etc. So sure, it sounds like a hoot to see your man in fishnets. Talk sure is cheap.

After my brothers gender switch, now whenever I see some guy in public dressed up like a woman, I absulutely do not laugh or acknowledge it in any way. Since I'm in a job position where the general public approaches me, I act like the person is dressed normally and absolutely make sure I steer the conversation in a way where I dont ever have to say sir or miss/mam.

So I for one am here to say, while its all good and fun playing dress up, I cant help but see it as a disorder. I NEVER want to see my man in my clothes. My reaction would always be,.."Oh no! Not you too!" It would be a total turnoff. It would be worse than a turn off. It would be the killing blow to our relationship.

Hmmm. I have no less than 4 friends who have made full transitions, either MtF or FtM. I enjoy bois (genetic females that identify with a masculine personna) and they do gender bend full time. I think the whole "dress up" thing is what snaps me. It's done for amusement or for a kink, and it almost feels....well, disrespectful (?) to those who feel that they were born in the wrong body and who live through that struggle each day.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/26/2006 9:05:13 AM

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I adore a boy in silky panties. It's got nothing to do with making him feminine. I love how a cock and balls feel in them, and the wet spot...omg! Sooo much better than baggy guy's underwear.

Any women's clothing on a guy other than panties is a turn off for Me.

my former Owner dressed me to make me more servile and easier to control and would have me serve while dressed in front of Her friends. i hated it at first but began to love the feeling of being controlled and humiliated and i loved the fact that it excited and pleased Her

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/28/2006 11:00:08 AM

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I dont think that dressing their sub in womens clothes pleases ALL Dominas, or appeals to ALL subs. I have absolutely no inkling towards this and wouldnt even use it for punishment purposes, or reward purposes even if it were his biggest fantasy. Just doesnt appeal.

Different strokes for different folks I suppose.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/28/2006 11:10:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

I dont think that dressing their sub in womens clothes pleases ALL Dominas, or appeals to ALL subs. I have absolutely no inkling towards this and wouldnt even use it for punishment purposes, or reward purposes even if it were his biggest fantasy. Just doesnt appeal.

Different strokes for different folks I suppose.

You're right, Sam. Women have stated quite a range of preferences, from those who like their male completely "done up" to those who don't want anything like that. In the middle are some Dominas who just want them to wear panties.

All kinds of motivations, too, from humiliation, to "taking him down a peg or two," to esthetics, lol, "I just love how he looks."

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/28/2006 1:36:09 PM

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I love wearing panties...in front of my web cam for ppl to see... And sometimes I even wear them under my jeans...

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/28/2006 1:46:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: sophia37

So I for one am here to say, while its all good and fun playing dress up, I cant help but see it as a disorder. I NEVER want to see my man in my clothes. My reaction would always be,.."Oh no! Not you too!" It would be a total turnoff. It would be worse than a turn off. It would be the killing blow to our relationship.

Hmmm. I have no less than 4 friends who have made full transitions, either MtF or FtM. I enjoy bois (genetic females that identify with a masculine personna) and they do gender bend full time. I think the whole "dress up" thing is what snaps me. It's done for amusement or for a kink, and it almost feels....well, disrespectful (?) to those who feel that they were born in the wrong body and who live through that struggle each day.

I found these comments to be... Interesting. I'm aware that this thread is designed for dommes, but this sort of strikes a chord, for me. I'm curious to know why the struggle of a transgendered person is more significant or viable than the struggles of someone with a kink for feminization. In a sense, yes, the kink is based on a physical gratification, but that doesn't make it any easier... There are the same damaged relationships, loss of self-worth, and the realization that the rest of the world sees you as something less than human.

I guess there's nothing immoral about having a 'disorder'... A person can't help the way they are. It's just painful to hear it called that; to have it reaffirmed that there is in fact something wrong with you.

Guess that's it for my nickel-minus-three-pennies. Sorry for the minor thread-hijackage.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/29/2006 12:11:25 AM

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I like feminization because it is a mild taboo. Knowing that it has to be a secret makes it an intimate yet gentle form of control. Something discreet like feminine panties or toe nail polish can expand a submissive mindset. I think it's quite playful and fun.

I haven't experimented with whole outfits so I can't comment on the slutty outfit preference. Perhaps in the future...

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