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altialt -> Watching guys (2/21/2014 1:37:49 PM)

Okay I have suspected for some time that dom woman never really enjoy waching guys do analplay - exposing themselves in that manner on cam. But some woman agree to do so anyway... Is this to please the sub, or do dom woman get anything out of watching a guy fuck himself in the ass? Just pure basic lust?



Rawni -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 1:41:08 PM)

LOL... It is so much better in person. So much better in fact, that I won't have it any other way. If I fuck an ass anyway. Watch him do it? Come on... What pleasure is in that?

No... pleasing a man doesn't mean I compromise myself in any manner. Dominant pleasing by way of cam? ROFLMAO!



MsLadySue -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 1:49:04 PM)

^^^^^ What she said.



altialt -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 1:49:26 PM)

Yes everybody can probably agree on real life being better, but not all of us have that luxury:)



SeekingTrinity -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 2:09:58 PM)

~FRing it~

I honestly get nothing out of it. To be honest, I'm actually not even interested enough to watch something like that either online or in person.

I think Id probably find paint drying on a wall more interesting. But that's just me



Rawni -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 2:14:50 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: altialt

Yes everybody can probably agree on real life being better, but not all of us have that luxury:)


Why not?



altialt -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 2:17:57 PM)

I thought so:) It is up hill for many guys, so to speak:)



LadyConstanze -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 2:46:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: altialt

Okay I have suspected for some time that dom woman never really enjoy waching guys do analplay - exposing themselves in that manner on cam. But some woman agree to do so anyway... Is this to please the sub, or do dom woman get anything out of watching a guy fuck himself in the ass? Just pure basic lust?



Let me ask you, how sure are you that the females who watched on cam were actually females?



Tantriqu -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 2:53:01 PM)

you're right, I've little interest in watching that on camera.
I'm interested in watching, feeling, hearing what happens when my strapon enters my man, and our responses.
Seeing various toys [and what is it with guys and apples in the ass lately?!] disappear up a stranger holds little a-peel [hah!], especially since most people who are doing it on-line are gay males to turn themselves on and frigid porn stars to make $$, and therefore are never gonna be my partners: yawn.
But ohhh, the sounds a good man makes when I enter him, his whispers and moans as he begs me to come inside him, and the sounds I make when I do: happy sigh!
All hail real life!



LadyPact -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 6:17:44 PM)

OK. Everybody sit down. You are about to be shocked.

I'm going against the grain on this one. Random dude on the internet, no. Somebody that I have no emotional attachment? Oh HELL no!

For such a thing to work for Me, there have to be a lot of things in play.........

* Sincere emotional attachment.

* Sincere sexual attraction (which doesn't work without the above being in place).

* Some reason why "in person" is prevented, other than not brave enough to do these things for real.

* Something over and above appreciating somebody's body from a "marks" point of view. I enjoy showing off My work as a top. It's not the same as doing private stash pics, where I'm just lusting over the bod.

* Already established that I *want* to do what he's doing when I'm not in the same room. If we would mutually masturbate in the same physical space because it turns us on to the ninth degree....... Yeah, it will probably work.

I've had s-types that didn't inspire Me sexually. I never (almost never) did cam with them because they weren't really hot to Me. I was never really turned on by them. These days, I am much more fortunate.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Watching guys (2/21/2014 8:19:44 PM)

OP, you've come to some pretty accurate conclusions. While some of us think watching our emotionally-connected partner punk himself might be fun (and lacking the ability in-person because of distance or other valid reason), we can't be arsed to accommodate a stranger.

It's just empty, boring, and, well...no good.

As you may have guessed, women generally don't process visual images the way men do; we tend NOT to put themselves 'into the picture'. That's why we just roll our eyes at men's profiles containing photos of other women, lame displays of insertables laid out on a cheesy leopard-print bedspread, or porny cartoons and line drawings.

We don't think: ooooo, lucky chick, I wish I was her! Pick me, pick me! Or: TOYS! Yeppers, yeehaw, I love me someone else's plastic pricks and butt-stoppers even though I have TONS of my own!! or: PORN! Yum yum, my panties are sticky!

We do think: despicable player who will post pictures of me all over creation; all he has to offer are a few artificial peens (ewww, where have those things been? [:'(]); he wants a fetish delivery system and views me as nothing more than that.

We tend to take images very literally, so if a man presents us with a gaping asshole, we think he's a big ass. Likewise, he shows us a dick; we think he's a dick.

Even 'private stash' pics do not do much for me. It may have been hot in the moment, but the moment has passed by and often the partner has too. The stashes (if I even view them) become more like a diary of then-interesting moments in my past; but when an ex-sub once asked if I wank to them: nope. Mostly I don't even think of them.

If it isn't an in-person, in-present, heart-connecting, breath-gasping, whimpering, snot-, drool-, and pre-cum-dripping moment with someone I love...honestly, I'd rather just cuddle up with the cats and latest season of Downton Abbey.





FieryOpal -> RE: Watching guys (2/22/2014 4:40:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: altialt

Okay I have suspected for some time that dom woman never really enjoy waching guys do analplay - exposing themselves in that manner on cam. But some woman agree to do so anyway... Is this to please the sub, or do dom woman get anything out of watching a guy fuck himself in the ass? Just pure basic lust?

It's a guy thing. Who are you kidding?

[Edited for clarity] ... It's "do-me" male sub wank fodder fantasizing that women are going to get all hot and bothered by watching you perform for us. *Yawn*

P.S. Just between you and me, some of us Dommes want your anal cherry kept intact beforehand, and the sight of a strange guy's gaping arse is repulsive.



altialt -> RE: Watching guys (2/24/2014 1:55:41 PM)

Believe me.... I am not sure at all.... Not falling for that a fifth time thats for sure:)



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Watching guys (2/24/2014 3:49:31 PM)

I can't speak for anyone else but me, of course, but I can't even imagine ever wanting to watch some random guy I don't already know in real life on cam while he fucks his own ass with toys. In the first place, I don't do cyberplay with random strangers. Eeewww. I sure don't want to see some random guy's dick or asshole either. Also, I don't do online-only relationships either because I don't consider them "real," although I know there's a lot of people who do.

Now if it was a man that I already have on ongoing real-time dynamic with and we're just taking up the slack in an LDR in-between in-person meetings, that's different. I've been known to do that. But it has to be someone that I have a real, living and breathing, in-person relationship with already, except that we can't be together at that point in time for some reason.

Where I won't do shit to humor and amuse some random dude on the internet, I will do some things with a partner in an already established real-time relationship.

NBMG



AAkasha -> RE: Watching guys (2/24/2014 5:46:57 PM)



I enjoy watching a man I am involved with (emotionally, lustfully) do things on cam for me if I know these acts are humiliating, involve surrender, suffering, sacrifice - and it's authentic. I like a trembling bottom lip, unsteady breathing, sweat. Most men who want anal play on cam want just that - anal play on cam. Find a gay male audience, they would love it.

I will admit I can get off on very random, fly by fully-clothed bondage and S&M on cam with a guy if he is HOT. I mean, model good looking hot. Puppy dog eyes, nice hair, good set of handcuffs, looks great in a gag. That's my "fetish" though. And just as men pay for porn to see hot women in fetish outfits behaving in fetish behaviors, I know I have to PAY to see "model good looking" guys tied up and struggling (bondagejeopardy is a great site for that).

If a man's fetish is having a woman watch him fuck himself in the ass with a dildo, he has to invest in a relationship with a woman who wants to see him suffer or surrender, or he has to pay her to get her to properly direct the action.

If you don't mind a male audience, gay guys love seeing men play with dildos in your butt.

Akasha



altialt -> RE: Watching guys (2/27/2014 5:35:17 AM)

I believe making the transition into real life femdom relationship can be cultivated through cam play. Do you agreed?



LadyPact -> RE: Watching guys (2/27/2014 5:36:54 AM)

For Me, no. If there's no real time bond, the cam thing isn't going to create one.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Watching guys (2/27/2014 5:41:24 AM)

I'll answer that last question. in case everyone's else responses weren't clear: NO !!

Your post makes it obvious you are not looking for a fem domme, you are looking for a fetish delivery device. This is *not* the way to find a real live woman who happens to be dominant.

Don't lead with your kink, your dick, or your ass. Just don't.

All women even dominant ones, like to be courted.

Sorry you fucking your ass on cam is not courting. Is that clear now?



SweetAnise -> RE: Watching guys (2/27/2014 5:44:55 AM)

Amen ChatteParfaitt!



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Watching guys (2/27/2014 5:46:44 AM)

<takes a bow>



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