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how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:33:15 PM   
theitaliansub


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Status: offline 		hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!
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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:38:47 PM   
anniezz338


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Status: offline 		I got nothing here. Maybe she is the one holding the whip?

Oh and nice buns. That's what I really wanted to say

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:45:58 PM   
Rawni


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hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!


Knowing a dominant at a glance? That works more toward wanking and egos on either side.

I'm so dominant, people can see it at a glance!

Oh, I love to watch women around me and I just know they are dominant! Wank, wank.

If it is so obvious... would you take her home to meet mom?

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:48:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!



You can't. She might be either, both, or neither. We generally don't wear name tags that say, 'Hi. I'm MDA/dominant'.

Your best bet is to connect with your local community, where asking that question might be more acceptable once you get to know someone who is clearly interested in you.

And welcome to the boards, btw.

< Message edited by MistressDarkArt -- 2/25/2014 2:49:12 PM >

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:52:12 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Hi italian sub,
The short answer is that you can't. If you want a relationship with a woman who is dominant, you need to meet women and get to know them. The easiest / quickest way is to go to a munch in your area. There is a conference RIGHT NOW in Rome.

http://www.fetishpride.it/rome-bdsm-conference-2014/

I expect you could meet a lot of people there. There will probably be a lot of contacts.

Frankly, your culture is VERY DIFFERENT than the cultures of most people on these forums, so any answers we might give would be skewed based on our own cultural biases. Sorry! I have learned that people in different countries / areas do things in a VASTLY different way than my home country's culture.


Good luck,
sunshine

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:57:09 PM   
theitaliansub


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Status: offline 		I may not explained it clearly sorry, I know of course nobody have tag on the forhead . what I mean is if there is something that bring me to think she could be a "mistress". example: a woman with strong personality and severe sight, or leather clothes or other stuffs...I know it s a stupid question sorry it s just curiosity

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 2:59:35 PM   
theitaliansub


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I got nothing here. Maybe she is the one holding the whip?

Oh and nice buns. That's what I really wanted to say

thank you Miss!:)

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 3:08:28 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		You mean like walking down the street, or in the market, coffee shop, etc?

Because if that's what you mean, then uh...nope.

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 3:35:20 PM   
theitaliansub


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Status: offline 		yes in a common situation...I travel a lot on public transport and I play to guess what is the sexual orientation of the people around me:)

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 3:44:27 PM   
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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 3:47:15 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

I may not explained it clearly sorry, I know of course nobody have tag on the forhead . what I mean is if there is something that bring me to think she could be a "mistress". example: a woman with strong personality and severe sight, or leather clothes or other stuffs...I know it s a stupid question sorry it s just curiosity


You can't, some of it might just be fashion and an assertive personality. You'd be surprised how many Dommes look deceptively female and don't flaunt it, it's because they are secure in themselves.

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 4:10:49 PM   
theitaliansub


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Ok, that's a bit creepy.

it s just a game I don't t eat them;)

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 4:15:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!


you could try talking to them rather than objectifying them

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 4:27:39 PM   
theitaliansub


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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!


you could try talking to them rather than objectifying them

of course, but it s just a game I play in my mind I don't t do this for knowing people...

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 4:31:11 PM   
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I got nothing here. Maybe she is the one holding the whip?

Oh and nice buns. That's what I really wanted to say


Yea, seriously, that's the roundest ass ever. And yes, don't objectify, what they said. This is me leading by example (not). :)

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 4:36:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!


you could try talking to them rather than objectifying them

of course, but it s just a game I play in my mind I don't t do this for knowing people...



oh it's a fantasy, sorry.

Ok all the hot ones are Dommes, the rest are whores, but you'll end up with the guy with the beard when you stop repressing your true feelings

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 4:38:33 PM   
theitaliansub


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ORIGINAL: anniezz338

I got nothing here. Maybe she is the one holding the whip?

Oh and nice buns. That's what I really wanted to say


Yea, seriously, that's the roundest ass ever. And yes, don't objectify, what they said. This is me leading by example (not). :)

thank you Miss you are so kind. objectifying is not my aim, I have a deep respect and veneration for woman I d never do that...

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 5:37:09 PM   
shadowborn61


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Status: offline 		From all i have read and knowing some of my female friends that are into BDSM you cannot tell just from looking at someone or even being around them for any time if they are Dominant or submissive and unless they let you know in some way you never will.
You can make guesses but that is all they are a guess a fantasy based on your perceptions and those may have little in common with reality.

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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 6:59:36 PM   
evesgrden


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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!


Do people look at you a and know that you're submissive? Do you wear certain submissive clothes, or walk with a submissive posture, or have a weak personality and a meek or timid expression?




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RE: how can I recognize a mistress? - 2/25/2014 7:23:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theitaliansub

hello Misses..it s my curiosity...how can I recognize a mistress? I mean how can I know only by looking at her if a woman is dominant or submissive? is it possible in your opinion? thank you in advance!


Do people look at you a and know that you're submissive? Do you wear certain submissive clothes, or walk with a submissive posture, or have a weak personality and a meek or timid expression?






Interesting. A few women have claimed to recognise that I'm a sub, straight away. In vanilla settings, I mean.

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