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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 3:51:27 PM   
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That was re: "I have a marvelous bridge to sell."

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 3:57:02 PM   
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Lady C, you crack me up..all true what you're saying though.


Well, I also have barrels of snake oil, finest quality, and this swamp land, I tell you, perfect for a holiday resort...

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 3:59:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SubMale9999
I was hoping to create a thread where people can share what their Pro-Domme session was like.


EDIT: I should note that the one-line summary reviews I've listed in these two posts are all that is available for the non-paying members. I don't have a subscription to myredbook, so I'm not privy to the very detailed blow-by-blow reviews that are available to the VIP (i.e., paying) members of redbook. the one-line review summaries of the Pro-Domme sessions are all that I have access to.
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ORIGINAL: SubMale9999
I'm hoping others would like to share what their session was like, good or bad.

Pressing the "Redo Search" button, and changing the area to "South Bay", I find again a score of supposed BDSM providers, two of which were recently reviewed this month by their clients.

Clicking on the most recent, I find the guys rated her as being a 30-37 year old mixed-race "slim/slender" woman at 4'10 to 5'1 tall, which the guys rated as "36D perky" breasts, and a "trimmed" kitty with no tattoos. Her rate is listed as $280/hour.

Her two review summaries (remember, the details are available to paying members, but not to me) were:
 
2014-02-18 Looks=9 Service=9	Extreamly accomadationg. And very very good at role playing!
2012-02-10 Looks=8 Service=9	I had a great time. Can't wait to she her again.


For descriptive purposes, here is how she lists her services (again, identifying information removed):
quote:

My name is Mistress REMOVED. I am a kinky, seductive and intelligent young woman. I do cater to the mature upscale gentleman of the South Bay. So if you are looking to explore your fantasies I am the one you need to visit.

Fetish
Humiliation
Sensual Domination
Sensory Deprivation
Spanking
Femdom
Roll Playing
Cross Dressing
Sissy training
Force Feminization
Strap On Play
Golden Showers
*GLORY HOLE FETISH* Add $150 prebooking required.

60 minutes - $280
90 minutes - $400

To schedule appointment E-mail references of two reputable RB providers and a brief description of the scenario you would like to experience. Notes with explicit language will be deleted so If you really want to meet with me make sure you are professional about it. If you have no references do not waste your time. And do not forget to include your phone number. After references are checked you will be instructed how to make appointment.


Clicking on the penultimate review, we find a woman rated by her (many) clients as being an Asian 25-29 year old, 5'2 to 5'4, of slim/slender build with 34C perky breasts, and a "natural" kitty, with no tattoos. Her web site contained quite a few professional fetish posed pictures, but, unfortunately, I didn't see any rate schedule listed.

Her review summaries were numerous, and are listed as follows (with contact information removed):
2014-02-01 Looks=10 Service=10 I give her an eleven (11) for being Cool and a (12) for being Fun. Awesome Lady!!!
2013-10-22 Looks=10 Service=9.5 Super hot and cruel Asian Godess
2013-06-26 Looks=10 Service=10 Beautiful, wicked and mischievous. A perfect combination!
2013-03-12 Looks=9 Service=9.5 Looking forward to a repeat.
2013-01-11 Looks=8.5 Service=10 OMG. First time. The thrill leading up to it, during, and after, was very exhilerating.
2012-09-25 Looks=8.5 Service=9 Hottest Asian Mistress in Bay Area in my opinion. Loved her latex dress.
2012-09-12 Looks=10 Service=9.5 Absolutely stunning, masterful, creative, sensitive, bold and simply the BEST!
2012-08-25 Looks=9.5 Service=10 One Magnificent Lady
2012-07-23 Looks=9.5 Service=9 simply amazing Asian Goddess, goes beyond your dreams
2012-07-23 Looks=10 Service=10 Absolutely stunning Asian Goddess who continues to amaze. 5 Stars all the way!
2012-07-16 Looks=9 Service=9 very good,fantastic, makes a great Mommy
2012-07-16 Looks=10 Service=10 Jaw dropping looks, amazing session, definitely one of the best
2012-06-26 Looks=9.5 Service=9.5 Sexy and sensual, this Asian domme is playful most of the time, but definitely has a cruel streak.
2012-02-17 Looks=9 Service=10 Her natural Asian beauty will capture your attention, while Her wicked appetite to watch you suffer will surprise you.
2012-01-18 Looks=10 Service=10 Hot Asian Domme in No. Cali 
2011-12-11 Looks=10 Service=9.5 Thoroughly impressive session with an Asian beauty
2011-09-07 Looks=9 Service=9.5 Very attractive skilled Asian domina.
2011-08-16 Looks=9.5 Service=10 This lady is Going Places
2011-08-05 Looks=9 Service=9 A hot domme with great skills who enjoys her play. Excellent!
2011-07-10 Looks=10 Service=10 Just Incredible in Every Way


For descriptive purposes, she bills her services as the following (names & contacts removed):
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Want to explore submissive desires and fantasies with ME? Book a session with ME! I have a beautiful, clean and well-equipped dungeon which is within easy driving distance from all the cities in the Bay Area.
Here is a list of activities that I enjoy. If your fantasies are not covered by the above list, fell free to ask ME about what you have in mind. I'm open minded and would like to explore new areas with you.
Domestic Discipline / Corporal Punishment ( Flogging / Paddling / Caning / Whipping )
Bondage
CBT
Nipple Torture
Trampling
Foot / Shoe / Boot Worship
Electrical Play
Humiliation Play through: Toilet Training, Face Slapping, Spitting, Verbal Abuse, Physical Degradation / Bondage, Face Sitting ( only with Latex, Leather & Vinyl )
Cross Dressing / Forced Feminization, Sissification
Medical Play
Ice & Hot Wax Play
Servitude: Financial
Double Mistress Sessions
Role Play:
Teacher / Student
Boss / Employer
Nursemaid / Naughty boy
Doctor / Patient
Kidnapping / Interrogation
Sensual Domination / Tease and Denial

Before booking a session with ME and before wasting MY time and yours, take a careful look at the FAQ page and carefully review the issues I address below.

Cancellation:
Be serious about booking a session and do not act on a whim. I put time and effort into preparing for your session so show your respect. Remember, you are scheduling professional time and you should treat it the same way you would treat a doctor's appointment. If you can't keep the appointment, inform ME at least a few hours ahead. If you dare to stand ME up, I may accept your request for another appointment - but it will require extra tribute.

Tardiness:
You are taking MY precious time, so I expect you to be ON TIME. If you dare to arrive late I will not extend your time slot.

Introductions:
When you write ME an EMail be clear, concise, and informative. I don't want your life story, but you need to provide pertinent details: past experience (if any); what you're looking for and your areas of interest.


With a sample size of only these four women, I can only tentatively summarize that the rates seem to range from around $200 to around $400 per hour, but, of course, this is only one source. I'm sure I can find others - but - this is a quick five-minute ballpark swag.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 4:29:20 PM   
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Thank you Pyramus for establishing the going rate for Pro-Dommes. The OP stated, "I picked out one and although she was one of the most expensive of them all..." I don't understand what the big deal is about the price issue anyways. Too many people have shot this thread and no one wants to share. The OP should start a new thread, with a little more detail, perhaps, so there will be no bickering and people will feel safe to share their own experiences.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 5:20:56 PM   
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You people need to stop tempting me to do a market analysis of Pro-Dommes. Just the differentiation study would be fascinating. Let alone doing a five forces model or BCG study of offered services. I bet it would be easy to get published, but then I'd be the Dominatrix study guy for the rest of my career...

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 6:47:41 PM   
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Just too many things that don't scan right


What about this scenario: completely inexperienced woman thinks pro-domming is a fast way of making cash. Punter turns up, she starts to panic because she's got no idea. So she does heavy duty things like pissing on him and ramming a finger up his khyber. Then she plays the ace card of all blaggers - angry deflection: telling the customer there's something wrong with *him*.

I've no experience of pro domme sessions, as you know, but . . . well, $350 is a lot of money to some people. A broke, desperate woman might just think, 'Well, it sounds easy enough. What could go wrong?'

No? Not plausible?

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 7:04:55 PM   
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I'm curious to know umm what did you discuss with her over the phone? Also when you saw her pictures didn't match up to the woman you saw , why didn't you just grab your cash and leave immediately?

Lol @ the golden shower and umm sticking her bare finger up your hooha! LMAO!

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 7:22:33 PM   
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quote:

Just too many things that don't scan right


What about this scenario: completely inexperienced woman thinks pro-domming is a fast way of making cash. Punter turns up, she starts to panic because she's got no idea. So she does heavy duty things like pissing on him and ramming a finger up his khyber. Then she plays the ace card of all blaggers - angry deflection: telling the customer there's something wrong with *him*.

I've no experience of pro domme sessions, as you know, but . . . well, $350 is a lot of money to some people. A broke, desperate woman might just think, 'Well, it sounds easy enough. What could go wrong?'

No? Not plausible?


She'd have to have been pretty desperate to pee on her own floor. Even for a novice it's much easier just to grab something and whack him with it.


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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 7:37:17 PM   
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You don't feel like peeing when you're out of your depth and feeling nervous? Heh. Now *that* would be one way of turning an unwanted attack of the jitters to advantage.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 10:27:57 PM   
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I believe a pro can charge what she wants. I think her price will determine the clientele she attracts. Well, most of the time...


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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/27/2014 11:39:02 PM   
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Though I do wonder about the "going rates" that are uhhh "established"

There seems to be a bit of a focus on the intimate hairstyles of those "Dommes" and I wonder how the guys would know that if they are going for real Dommes?

Well, I guess you have to be a believer and all the established dungeons and Dommes price themselves deliberately under market value...

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 12:18:21 AM   
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She'd have to have been pretty desperate to pee on her own floor. Even for a novice it's much easier just to grab something and whack him with it.



Plus let's assume that she advertised herself with all the right keywords, I would assume that she would have done some research and thought about her floor and nails, I mean so much panic, wouldn't she just have peed her pants?

You can take Pandora's box, which is possibly one of the biggest commercial dungeons in NYC, a city where real estate is not cheap and rents are steep, and their rate is $250, with reduced rates for afternoons or training.

Or you could check with any of the established and equipped dungeons in LA (plenty there, Chi-Sisters, Den of Iniquity in LA who has 3 really large and well equipped rooms and where the going rate is $200 for Dommes who have under 5 years experience and $250 for very experienced Dommes.

Usually sessions work by supply and demand, some rates have been established, anything priced really outside of those rates is usually a sign that you're paying for an escort and less for BDSM.

If the "more private hairstyles" of the ladies advertising and reviewed are mentioned, it's pretty much an indicator that they're not offering strictly BDSM services but operating a bit outside the legal parameters, which is a greater risk for them, so they charge higher prices.

It's not rocket science, really...

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 7:58:28 AM   
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You people need to stop tempting me to do a market analysis of Pro-Dommes. Just the differentiation study would be fascinating. Let alone doing a five forces model or BCG study of offered services. I bet it would be easy to get published, but then I'd be the Dominatrix study guy for the rest of my career...

You say that like it's a bad thing...

As a caveat, my experience is twenty+ years old now, but I chaperoned a dancer who pro-dommed on the side, and she would charge up to seven-fifty an hour, depending on what the customer was looking for. And she wasn't just a 'kitten with a whip', either. This woman knew her stuff (and was one of the people who got me the club job, as well). She only danced for the exercise and the exposure she got, as well as the opportunity to hand out her business cards (allowable by the company we worked for) to promising customers. We had some great talks driving between venues, let me tell you...

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 11:14:22 AM   
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It's not so much the ridiculous tribute (which established pro's with kick ass dungeons and smoking hot bodies don't get)


I wasn't aware that pro-dommes cost that little. I thought that $350 is a pretty standard starting off rate in Belgium. I've been paid that amount a couple times for sessions (and more than that on one occasion, but never less), and that was as a teenage working in a fetish club as a bartender, with a damn collar on, telling the guys that I was currently the s in an M/s relationship.

It wasn't regular business or anything, nor did I want it to be. But when dudes begged teenage me to use the club and available equipment (for free) after hours so that they may have the privilege of throwing money at me, I didn't tend to say no.




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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 11:33:02 AM   
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Actually, it's a lot more in Europe, though prices also have fallen a bit due to the economy, it's kind of funny, the prices seem to be pretty much the same, just the currency varies.

I think by working in the club, you got some sort of celebrity status, aren't you also quite tall? That for some guys is really a factor, and that you weren't looking for clients. I recall there was a guy in Munich who would always call up dungeons but the didn't want a Domme, he wanted a "vanilla woman" to dominate him and was willing to offer seriously absurd money for that fantasy. Obviously without the gear and the makeup, Dommes do look a bit more vanilla, I think he sessioned with about every pro Domme in Munich who wore vanilla clothes and scrubbed her face clean of all makeup, but he always believed it was a vanilla woman and he helped her discover her dominance and bribed her by paying twice the going rate...

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 11:39:29 AM   
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LOL that's an awesome story. And yeah that may have been it.

After all, my first response when asked was always 'sorry I'm not a Domme, here's a list of established pros we endorse'. It wasn't until they had nagged me about half a dozen times that they didn't want a pro-Domme but me that I'd ended up giving (only so many times you can turn down $350 for an hour's work as an 18 year old). And yeah, I'm 5'11", but that's really not that tall in Belgium, just a little over average, so back home I rarely get comments about my height.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 11:45:51 AM   
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And don't underestimate the thrill of you turning them down, I guess they never thought it was the money but that you just liked their submission and they helped a bit with the money... Seriously, I knew and know some Dommes who switch, some are even submissives in their private life (though not all that often), but the ones who subbed were pretty awesome pro-Dommes, makes sense though, as they really understand the submissive mindset and how to really really work it...

But yeah, the guy was the running joke, and obviously any new Domme who apprenticed was another "vanilla woman", he went around bragging that he turned so many women into Dommes, it was so hard to not laugh, I mean seriously, spanking somebody and having him massage your feet, it's not the magic button that will turn any woman into a Domme, but in his mind it was.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 3:32:36 PM   
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You know, for $350, I might even give it a try myself. I mean, I know what sub males want because I *am* one. Fake boobs, bit of lipstick, face arranged to look kind of snarly and stuff . . . . Money up front, him handcuffed in an anonymous hotel room . . .

OK, I wouldn't be good with the female voice and I'd have to disguise my knees and Adam's apple, do more shaving than usual. But, seriously, I bet it's been done.

God, $350 for an hour. Not bad. Hey, anyone want to bet me I could get away with it? That I could 'be a findomme', for one hour, and leave a satisfied and still entirely unaware male customer? You could train me, Lady C. We could even film it and see if we could flog the result to Channel 4.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 8:46:51 PM   
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Usually sessions work by supply and demand, some rates have been established, anything priced really outside of those rates is usually a sign that you're paying for an escort and less for BDSM.


Here are current rates for a strictly BDSM house in Oakland, California (across the bay from San Francisco).





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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 2/28/2014 9:44:11 PM   
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I saw a pro here in Vegas about 5-6 years ago and paid 200-250. She was friendly and fun and well, I never pulled out a stop watch. We would talk a bit before and after, she would offer me a bottle of water an I was off. While I expressed a few interests, I am not looking for a fetish delivery system I am looking for a Domme, I do what I am told. For the last year I have been fortunate to find someone who at first was looking for a sub but at a low cost. I pay her $80 a visit, I do not look at a clock. I also make her meals, take her to dinner or lunch, pay for her books, fixed her car and a lot of other things. I get to see her on a weekly basis, so I probably spend anywhere from 300-600 a month on her. it works for me. I also buy or make a lot of our toys. I guess it is all relative. I would pay good money to see a few select pros. Irene boss, Cybill Troy, Brianna, these ladies I would pay 350 average backpage domme no way.

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