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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 1:26:59 AM   
TNDommeK


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Peon...
As cute as you are, you're gonna have to start in the
Higher price bracket. Your prices will start at 400.
And trust me, you'll get it.
And that isn't even the tip. Most clients tip anywhere from $50 to $200!
Oh and gifts!!!! You'll get lots of those!


Or that could just be my experiences.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 2:00:48 AM   
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Usually sessions work by supply and demand, some rates have been established, anything priced really outside of those rates is usually a sign that you're paying for an escort and less for BDSM.


Here are current rates for a strictly BDSM house in Oakland, California (across the bay from San Francisco).




Wow, those rates are actually a lot lower than I expected, I always thought SF was more expensive than other cities?

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 2:34:23 AM   
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Irene boss, Cybill Troy, Brianna, these ladies I would pay 350 average backpage domme no way.


I met Irene at DomCom in LA in 2012 and she had a dungeon transported with UPS, the price of that alone must have been killer, but she charges $500 for 2 hours and she isn't short of clients, she does a lot of travelling and puts a lot into her sessions and I'm envious about her toy collection. I don't know Brianna, but heard great stuff about her, Cybill is awesome, dunno if you ever saw her, but exactly like her pictures she's super stunning and super skilled but even she charges "only" $300 for elaborate sessions and seriously amazing, it's beauty, talent, skills and a super nice personality (well, maybe not in session, ha ha ha) but she's possibly one of the most talented Dommes I've ever seen and like Irene a real sadist.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 5:17:13 AM   
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K, you are too kind. ;-)

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 5:44:11 AM   
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K, you are too kind. ;-)


Does that mean next time you visit you want to be taken to Canal Street (they regularly black out the C in the street sign) so you can strut you stuff?

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 5:47:56 AM   
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Yes, why not? I need to practise the wiggly arse thing that women do. I've always liked that, though I don't know how they do it without dislocating something.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/1/2014 6:24:17 AM   
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I haven't been involved in pro sessions for 20 years now (I was surprised to hear Pandora's Box still was around, was a classy place when I was into doing pro sessions), but from what I know from looking around and a couple of pro dommes I still talk to occasionally, it hasn't changed all that much, though there seem to be a lot less pro houses in NYC, and the prices seem not to have gone up much, if at all.

Like any other business, there are different levels of service. There used to be places like Belle Du Jour and Leather Ladies in NYC that were 'commercial' houses, that charged about 100/hour. They had pretty large number of women on (and the occasional trans gal), they were relatively decently equipped, the women working there were not necessarily as well trained as other places, but it wasn't bad. Then there was the next step up, houses like Nutcracker suite and Pandoras Box, they were if I remember correctly in the 200/hour range. The difference with those houses was they tended to have women who were fairly well trained and many were lifestyle, they would do a broader range of services,and had a lot of equipment and facilities. They also kept a profile on the customers, so they knew the list of likes/dislikes/limits/hard limits and so forth....

With private providers working out of their house and home, rates ranged as well. The ones on the lower end were not as well equipped, the ones on the upper levels were more experienced, had a name, and also tended to have nice facilities.

Yeah, there are ones billing themselves as high end, used to be this blond gal years ago in NYC that charged like 500 an hour, but she was more high end escort (I remember her ads, flaunted having a high IQ, being stunningly beautiful, etc), and I am not surprised that those in porn films and such would charge more, being a 'celebrity' can pay off.....I have heard stories of incredible pro houses where back then the sessions were like 500/hr and up, supposedly had all kinds of incredible equipment, would do all kinds of intense, detailed scenes (not surprisingly, some were rumored to be in Vegas *lol*), where you could have any desire fulfilled (some of which seemed to be on the other side of the law...)..personally I think most of them were fiction, but wouldn't surprise me if places like that existed.

Rates in general were based on reputation and how well equipped they were and how good the dommes were. Even then, when the internet was just starting to really explode, word was out there, and someone like the supposed domme the OP mentioned wouldn't last long (and I agree, the OP is either a troll or a wank artist; a domme acting like that would be committing professional suicide, and it makes no sense. Ever domme I have ever been to, low end or high end, always made sure to talk to me about what I was into, and especially about limits (like that I cannot do sensory deprivation, and have other issues relating to claustrophobia), it is just plain common sense. The OP is writing wank fantasy, about the bitch from hell who treats the sub like shit,etc, but that is not the nature of pro dommes, among other things, despite supposedly being 'served', they are providing the service..and no domme is going to stick her finger up the guy's butt like that without a glove...as for the peeing, very few pro dommes IME offered watersports at all, and if they did, they wouldn't do it on their apartment floor, especially if it was carpeted, they would do it in an area with tarps, or in a bath tub or something, and it would have been negotiated (some charge more to do watersports, for one thing).

Are there bad dommes? Sure, there are women who think they can hang out their shingle and make a quick buck, there are the escort with whip types, there are ones who just aren't good, but that is true in most professions. Thing is, you don't last long doing that, the word of mouth and internet would kill you, because this is a service business. A lifestyle domme with a bad reputation might have a hard time finding subs, a pro is out of business, fast.

The other problem with the OP's story is very few people seeking out a pro would choose the most expensive one first, if they saw rates they wouldn't say "wow, let me go for the woman charging 350", they would see the range and probably choose someone in the middle.....plus I also would guess that a new sub might feel more comfortable at a pro house, rather than a solo operator, simply on the assumption a pro house is out there, more public, and therefore won't be the scary situation of a one on one with someone with no one else around.....

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/2/2014 1:32:09 PM   
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[quoteI met Irene at DomCom in LA in 2012 and she had a dungeon transported with UPS, the price of that alone must have been killer, but she charges $500 for 2 hours and she isn't short of clients, she does a lot of travelling and puts a lot into her sessions and I'm envious about her toy collection. I don't know Brianna, but heard great stuff about her, Cybill is awesome, dunno if you ever saw her, but exactly like her pictures she's super stunning and super skilled but even she charges "only" $300 for elaborate sessions and seriously amazing, it's beauty, talent, skills and a super nice personality (well, maybe not in session, ha ha ha) but she's possibly one of the most talented Dommes I've ever seen and like Irene a real sadist. ][/quote]

I bought a few of Irene's tapes back in the 90's. I remember she personally called me to verify my age. She was very polite and professional, I was so excited that I had just talked to a real Domme. I recently spoke to her on fetlife and told her about the experience. I will try to see her if she gets out to Vegas. Never have seen Cybill just her videos and would love to see her as well. A session with either one of those two would be incredible. My Domme is around Cybill's age and she has that same sadistic streak but can be sweet and caring, I guess this is my favorite type of Woman.


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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/2/2014 1:38:20 PM   
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Both Irene and Cybill are super nice people, but as Dommes really really skilled.

I helped Cybill out a bit with training some new Dommes at the DOILA and broke in a new whip she bought, as I said, both Irene and Cybill are super skilled but still "real people" none of that "my feet don't touch the ground" nonsense. Actually Irene has her own internet discussion board where she gives a lot of helpful hints

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/3/2014 1:12:42 AM   
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Thanks for the info about Irene's board. I was going to ask her a few ??'s but the info is probably already there.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/3/2014 6:19:52 AM   
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There are a few Mistresses in London that are earning between £300 and £500 an hour but they tend to be very well established and have chambers in Knightsbridge, Mayfair and City.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/3/2014 6:59:24 AM   
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There are a few Mistresses in London that are earning between £300 and £500 an hour but they tend to be very well established and have chambers in Knightsbridge, Mayfair and City.


And the monthly rent in those areas tends to be what other people use as a down payment for a 2 up 2 down in other parts of the country... We recently discussed moving back to London, but anywhere central, even with both of us earning, it's out of our budget unless we really want to have a fraction of the space for about 3 times the cost.

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/3/2014 9:47:52 AM   
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Wow, I didn't realize Pro-Dommes can make so much. I wonder if I can get a paying submissive to clean my house? :)

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/3/2014 10:42:28 AM   
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Wow, I didn't realize Pro-Dommes can make so much. I wonder if I can get a paying submissive to clean my house? :)


Depends, those ladies tend to have figures to kill for, pretty well equipped dungeons aka chambers and the chambers are in locations in London that make Manhattan look like the bargain basement (you know where you start looking at dinky little studio flats and the real estate prices for those start somewhere at the region of a cool million, and that's Pounds) and they are only a handful who command those prices even in London (which happens to be one of the most expensive cities on the planet), I doubt the guys pay that money to clean ;)

As for a paying submissive to clean your house - would you want to let a stranger into your house? Chances are he's going to break a lot of things and do a pretty bad job to be "punished"...

I'm looking for somebody who has a fetish for doing dishes, vacuuming up cat and dog hair and cleaning up muddy footprints, so far no takers or the only one interested want to do it naked or in drag ;)

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RE: Pro-Domme Experiences - 3/3/2014 10:59:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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Wow, I didn't realize Pro-Dommes can make so much. I wonder if I can get a paying submissive to clean my house? :)


Depends, those ladies tend to have figures to kill for, pretty well equipped dungeons aka chambers and the chambers are in locations in London that make Manhattan look like the bargain basement (you know where you start looking at dinky little studio flats and the real estate prices for those start somewhere at the region of a cool million, and that's Pounds) and they are only a handful who command those prices even in London (which happens to be one of the most expensive cities on the planet), I doubt the guys pay that money to clean ;)

As for a paying submissive to clean your house - would you want to let a stranger into your house? Chances are he's going to break a lot of things and do a pretty bad job to be "punished"...

I'm looking for somebody who has a fetish for doing dishes, vacuuming up cat and dog hair and cleaning up muddy footprints, so far no takers or the only one interested want to do it naked or in drag ;)


Totally agree. One woman who comes to mind is stunningly beautiful, holds a 4 room chamber smack bang in the city and spent years building up a reputation that's unbeatable. Location alone insures she can work a six hour day if she wants to, but even if you work in an area where many millionaires pass your door on a daily basis, you have to be bloody good at what you do because like any business, you can pull a customer once but getting them to come back for more is the key thing when it comes to good professional domination.

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