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Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 6:57:49 AM

mistoferin

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I was reading jali's thread apologizing for speaking out about a kink that she didn't like and one of the responses on that thread just made a lot of sense to me. We are all told that we must live by the
"your kink is ok but it's not my kink"...and the reality is that most of us do have things we aren't into. It seems though that if we say them out loud we either end up feeling guilty or people tell us it's not ok to say them. I think that as long as we're not bashing someone else to say them, then it should be perfectly ok to say that we don't like them without being labelled as "intolerant" or "judgemental".

....or as marietoo put it......

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I just happen to think that if its cool to say we like something, it should also be acceptable and tolerated when we say we dont like something.

So here goes...I am hoping that we can have a lighthearted discussion about the things we don't like...

For me, I know this is an odd one....but....blowing cum bubbles. When you watch a porno movie it seems that all blow job scenes turn into blowing cum bubble scenes. I know lots of people enjoy seeing that or they wouldn't put it in so many films...but .....ewwwww. Swallow that shit...I hate seeing it. I just close my eyes or look away because it reminds me of "runny noses". I don't know why...it just does.

And also....when a guy cums on your face, why is it that he HAS to nail you right in the eye? Don't you guys have any better aim than that...or is that what you are really aiming for???

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:04:54 AM

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Hahahahah getting nailed in the eye, hasn't every gal been there (well provided they like penises lol).. somehow it seems to have its own homing becon right for the pupil.. it happened to me ONCE and only once, I told Manly dearest if he ever wanted to do it again he'd better get better aim or I'd bite his pecker.. I haven't taken an eye shot since.
I agree with the cum bubbles though, don't get it.. it's nourishing, swallow it, don't bloody waste it, didn't your parents teach you not to play with your food??? Along the bubble line, I don't get snowballing, but then again I was never good at sharing.. plus I've noticed if semen is exposed to air, the taste changes VASTLY and it ends up tasting icky..

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:10:05 AM

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I definitely agree about the gross part when watching it on tv. Personally I can't be involved in Scat or Watersports. They are a hard limit for me so if someone I'm playing with wants to try them I just let the person know that that is a need they will have to have satisfied by someone else.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:11:34 AM

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Firstly i have to agree on the sperm in the eye lol. Even if i close my eyes it still creeps its way in there.
I also dislike icky tasting sperm and some men just have icky sperm lol. My solution to this is if they will swallow and enjoy it - so will i.
My absolute dislike though is the thought of any form of anal play although stick a finger up my ass and ill squirm with pleasure - go figure!!

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:17:27 AM

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Scat, watersports, the whole diaper/babyplay thing. (I was quite with jali in her "Ewww.. that is just DISGUSTING" reaction to the thread in question - I simply kept my mouth shut to avoid becoming a target of opportunity for the napalm.) Oh yeah... definately the cum bubble thing. Nyx, you used the same method to avoid a second eye shot that I use. Aim there, and I WILL bite - and you Won't like it, even if you're maso and into cbt!

Gotta love the Squick factor as someone refered to it previously.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:36:44 AM

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Wow...and hear I thought I was the only one who was turned off by cum bubbles!!!!!

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:05:45 AM

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This slave has never understood the wearing of diapers. Of course, it has never been requested of me either, so I can not say if I like or dislike it, only that I do not understand it.
Master often has me not swallow his cum, so the 'blowing bubbles' ( I chuckled at that ) is quite common for me. Personally, I would much rather swallow it, though.
Another that I have never understood is the use of submissives/slaves as furniture. I understand the objectification part, but I have a hard time understanding the 'using him/her as a table, foot rest, etc'.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:11:09 AM

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I hate all the spitting everone seems to be into nowadays, I don't want to spit into your mouth or on your ass or anything. And I don't want you to even think about trying that on me or it's gonna be, "Houston, we have a problem!"

Don't get too slobbery in your kisses, if I am thirsty I will get a glass of water....thanks.

I don't want to see my cum in your mouth or on your face, swallow it. Or more preferably, take it where it belongs, in that sweet pussy of yours.

I guess I must be strange for a man and a Dominant one at that, but cum shots always get fast-forwared over by me, always have.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:17:02 AM

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I read this thread, and just giggled sooooo much! You know, out of all the porns I've watched, I've never noticed "cum bubbles"?! Hmm...mind you, I've got no idea why making bubbles from cum would be a turn on, but what do I know?
As far as "icky" tasteing cum goes...well, to be honest, My Lord's cum is the only "male cum" I've had in my mouth, so I don't have much to compare it to. However, for the most part....it is quite tastey....however, seeing the job he works (a pet food plant) sometimes he let's just say "absorbes" some of the "meaty" flavor, lol. THAT is icky....but I never complain, I simply swallow....lol, what kinda slave would I be if I refused?
Hmmm....what I don't like? To be honest, only a few things...Age play, but I've expressed my reasons for that being that I'm a childhood abuse servivor....and Anal play, as that was the way in which I was abused. My dislikes all tie into my abuse, go figure. Oh....and the majority of role-playing, as it just doesn't "do-it" for my Lord or my Master....or me for that matter. However, if it is your thing or kink, go for it....to each their own, you know?
Just as a side note.....my Lord has been the only man I've been with "willingly"...and so I'm still learning somethings about how to please men, or at least my man....and just wondered if something I've just figured out I enjoy is out of the norm....I've discovered that I VERY much enjoy watching my Lord masturbate....it's just so exciting. Anyone else enjoy this?

Tasha

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:17:39 AM

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I always thought that cum shots were stupid too.

But guys are only in pornos to get reactions from the chicks and stretch holes in any case..So why would I care that he came, except that the wimp ended the scene?

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:19:24 AM

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quote:

I read this thread, and just giggled sooooo much! You know, out of all the porns I've watched, I've never noticed "cum bubbles"?! Hmm...mind you, I've got no idea why making bubbles from cum would be a turn on, but what do I know?

This slave apologize for taking this off topic, but the reason they have the young ladies do that in porn movies is so that the audience can see that the man actually did cum. It's the same reason why the men pull out at the last minute.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:24:04 AM

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If it ain't spit, it aint love!

There are a few things that squick me and there are a few things I just can't stand.

I dislike the little clique that always seems to be in every group of those that are just a floating little scene/social gathering with zero boundaries. Accidents waiting to happen or at least misunderstandings and of course DRAMA. Not exactly a kink but this is a lighthearted thread.

Golden showers - I love the idea of but so far the reality of them just hasn't done it for me.

Flogging - It can be fun to watch and I guess fun to be flogged but god it gets tiresome after a while.

Toy Bag fetishes - I think some people get into BDSM as cover for collecting massive rolling carts full of toys.

Race play - It has always made me uncomfortable as it is something I despise in real life.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:32:05 AM

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To get off the lovely subject of bubbles and spitting as I try to eat my cereal with yucky soy milk....

I don't like to beg, or to be humiliated. I find this demeaning, but I know it's a popular desire for many in this realm. I just can't deal with it emotionally.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:38:04 AM

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Kinks I don't like?

slaves owning Masters.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:40:25 AM

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let's see if i can put this as nuetrally as possible

perhaps a list would work better

things i'm not into:

anything that includes other men
toilet
cum-shots
face-slapping
humiliation
sharp-objects
fire-play
scat
cuckold
breath-play

not sure right now if that's all, but it's a start

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:41:38 AM

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i have a serious problem with a certain kind of age play. people fooling around with girls that claim to be two years old really gets me going. i know historically doctors were convinced each and every single kink is really just people being on the verge of insanity, just about ready to pack a cellar full of half masticated bodies. i know.

on the other hand, kids that are into mutilating animals generally end up in some sort of confinement, even if it's just the rare mild form of everyone being extra carefull + court ordered psych visits. and yet people that are into two year olds are supposed to be "uh, not my plate, but you're welcome ?" fuck that.

anyone that enjoys the fantasy of whatever the fuck, done to infants belongs locked up. because THEY ARE on the verge of raping someone's kids. and before you tell me that's not true : we really don't know, we don't have any serious studies done on the matter. so until we do know, it's just as likely true. and it gives me risen hairs and blodshot eyes.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:44:56 AM

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quote:

To get off the lovely subject of bubbles and spitting as I try to eat my cereal with yucky soy milk....

I completely agree, which is why I never, ever want to see it, do it, or have it done to me, kinda ruins my mood.

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I don't like to beg, or to be humiliated. I find this demeaning, but I know it's a popular desire for many in this realm. I just can't deal with it emotionally.

This has never been a big turn on for me to do to someone I care about, although with my baby now, just about everything is fun and fair game. (except the spit/cum bubble thingy)

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:45:15 AM

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D/s. I just don't get it. Yep, I've tried it but I can't get it out of my head that since consent is necessary, it just seems to make domination pointless because the sub can just take her ball home. I know about all the psychological domination etc. etc. but the sub is participating because she wants to so why pretend. I enjoy the power exchange thing in scenes but beyond scenes it just doesn't do it and why would I call someone a slut if she is monogamous, monogamous slut doesn't compute with me.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:48:23 AM

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The one thing I will not do is apologize for stating something I like or dislike. I prsonally do not swallow or spit. I have.. that how come I know I do not like it. I so much like to try.. I get worked up and ready.. but them boom.. i'm sick. I've tried different tricks of the trade but the texture hits me wrong and i'm sick. (Took my first Master one time for me to get sick on him not to do that again....lol) Like others... bubbles is like.....OMG spit or swallow but get it over with....lol

Scat.. absolutely not. I can't see the pleasure in playing in that. And not interested in someone trying to explain it to me either.

But I have another one that I can't grasp either.... and I was asked by one dom to research it... and I did..still so do not understand ....... DOGS.... ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. I found nothing sexy at all about a dogs cock. Looking at it or sucking on it.

Now as stated by others... yes others may like these sort of things.. I PERSONALLY do not. And I will not apologize for it either. And I am sorry Jali felt she had too.

Thanks for thread Erin... interesting one indeed.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:51:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

D/s. I just don't get it. Yep, I've tried it but I can't get it out of my head that since consent is necessary, it just seems to make domination pointless because the sub can just take her ball home. I know about all the psychological domination etc. etc. but the sub is participating because she wants to so why pretend. I enjoy the power exchange thing in scenes but beyond scenes it just doesn't do it and why would I call someone a slut if she is monogamous, monogamous slut doesn't compute with me.

So, you are quite a literal thinker I take it.

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