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evesgrden -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 7:49:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MrMojo90732

yet what is the word for hating Christian ideals?

Liberalism.



I trust you vote those Christian ideals, yes?




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Lucylastic -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 7:51:35 AM)


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This whole statement is a total load of bullshit, and it is typical of those trying to claim they are not homophobic, when they are.



That is interesting because I know a lot of gay people who feel the same way he does. Are you implying that they are homophobic also?



Ever notice how the term homophobics exists.. yet what is the word for hating Christian ideals?

Liberalism.

Seriously, think about this. Islam cuts peoples heads off... there is islamaphobia.
yet sit there and say, as a Christian, I don't agree with homosexuality.. and BANG, you're a homophobe.

fuck you democrats.



awwwwwww I have never seen a post of such love and acceptance:) thankyou for your offering, please stay around:)




chatterbox24 -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 7:58:07 AM)

Absolutely it is a two way street. You may find what I said in reply trite, but I did not resort to words we all know their intent. I don't find it necessary to post 10 pages or 500 words to express all the time. Simple at times is just better, and using not my words but those of another.
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DO tell kind person? Could you mistaken by what I said anyway? How do you know I meant judgment day? Could it be an assumption?

IM sure many of you are lovely people, and this is not sarcasm. Miscommunication is evident.
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im not talking about judgement day



dear one... you mistook what I said in the first place... so look at your myriad posts of one or two words(just in this thread alone) to "explain" what you mean, and try to understand why I cant be bothered to be accepting of your trite comment to DC. Its a two way street..






njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:03:26 AM)


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when you name something different it makes it less valuable.

What complete and utter rot, though I admit among colors I've always preferred blue. [:D]

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SCOTUS defined this beautifully in the Brown V board of Ed decision, that said separate but equal by its very nature is not equal,that by separating out the 'other group', you are inherently making them unequal.

Firstly, that is a very thin reading of Brown. And secondly, nobody is talking about segregating gays ferfucksake.

K.



It is segregating gays, it is saying that they don't have the right to have their unions called marriage..more importantly, under the law, the term marriage gives rights automatically that civic unions do not. The term segregation means to set apart, and when you use a different term for the unions of straights versus those of gay couples, you are doing just that, segregating them. I noticed you ignored a point I made in another post, and that is why not propose that the term marriage not be used in the law at all, that for legal rights gays or straights file a notice of legal union and get the rights, and what goes on in a church is up to the church? The answer is that people like yourself want to reserve marriage for straight couples for the very reason that the way the law is written right now, anything but the term marriage is of legal dubiousness. BTW, one of the reasons that NJ now has gay marriage is that even fatso, our governor, who either is a rabid catholic (doubtful) or was worried about passing muster with the shitkickers in the GOP (likely), could no longer try and argue that civic unions were giving gays full rights;with the federal recognition clause of DOMA being invalidated, he could not argue with a straight face civic unions provided the same rights as marriage, because civic unions only apply in that state. More importantly, he already was on thin ice because in practical reality, gays with a civic union often had to fight for the rights it granted, hospitals would routinely try and deny the right of making medical decisions, because they weren't married, courts would often rule, even with civic union in place, that the kid of a deceased spouse in a civic union could be taken away from the surviving spouse and given to blood relatives, even though the same thing would be impossible with a marriage, and this is played out anywhere gays have DP rights and so forth, they often have to fight to achieve the same rights with their DP/Civic union that would be a no brainer with marriage. Die without a will and you are married, the estate is automatically the surviving spouse;die without a will, and you have a civic union, blood relatives of the deceased can go into court and argue they should inherit it, and in more than a few cases judges have decided that blood outweighs a civic union (in part because they are bible thumping idiots), and in their decision they said only marriage, according to legal precedent, gives the right of automatic inheritance. When you talk about what is is a name, this is proof of de jure issues with the term marriage.

Like I said, if you want marriage reserved for straights, the return marriage to being a religious term, done by religious groups, where they can marry or not marry who they wish, and make everyone get a civic union. If the religious notion of marriage being between straights is so important to you, then return it to being a religious thing and get it out of the law; rewrite the thousands of state and legal documents that use marriage to say "civic union" (in this day and age of electronic documents, not even a big deal, a SQL query could turn "marriage" into "civic union", even if there are thousands of thousands of documents, in a matter of a couple of minutes.

As far as Brown goes, the chief argument that overturned Plessy V Ferguson's argument of separate but equal came from a sociologist, Dr. Kenneth Clarke, who gave evidence that the fact of being segregated out hurt blacks, that by being told they couldn't go to school with white kids, go to the same restaurants as white patrons, that not being able to use public parks or have 'their own parks', was inherently harmful to those those segregated, that even assuming the facilities were equal (which often they weren't, time and again the facilities designated "negro only" were of poorer quality and less quantity then those for whites), the fact that being segregated was in of itself harmful in that it gave the direct implication that those segregated were segregated because they weren't good enough. BTW, those arguing for segregation argued much as you and others are arguing about the term marriage, that racial segregation was something that they believed in strongly, that it was a long established part of their culture, and more than a few argued that segregation was a religious belief as well, citing the Tower of Babel myth as proof that God wanted the races separate. Long held beliefs, no matter how strong they are, are not necessarily good things, a lot of people believed slavery, that is an old, old institution, that probably predates marriage in age, was perfectly fine, it doesn't make that belief right under the law either. Arguing that marriage was reserved for straights only and has been that way for centuries leaves out a fundamental question, that maybe, just maybe, that segregation was never a good thing to start with, and in fact was designed to make the excluded groups second class in the first place.




evesgrden -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:12:03 AM)


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If hetero couples were so worried about the term married being reserved for straights, they would insist the word marriage be taken out of the law completely, leave marriage to the churches, government not recognize marriage, and instead anyone who wants to get the legal rights, gets a civil union, straight or gay.



This this this this this.

Why do people get a marriage license from city hall? They've been married under the eyes of God. Why bother?

It's about 2 people who want to become a legal family unit and legally next of kin to each other. It's about legal rights afforded by that contract. It is about government and the law. Allah and the Great Pumpkin do not have a role in this. It is qualitatively different and seperate.

Marriage License.
Wedding ceremony.

The former is about legal rights bestowed upon 2 people entering into a contract together.
The latter is about culture and ritual marking a social/developmental stage in life.






njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:15:28 AM)


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Might it be that some people suffer from a lack of self-worth, painful feelings which when stimulated they defend against by projecting onto others an intention to demean them?

pathetic people... feel superior... homophobia... white trash...

Well that answers that. [:D]

K.



So people who supported Jim Crow weren't white trash? So they were heroic people defending their way of life? It wouldn't surprise me that you believe that. The problem with your whole argument is that those who are against gays using the term marriage are exactly as I have said, and the proof is in the pudding. If they/you are really concerned about the term marriage, then get out there and propose that marriage be totally a religious institution with no legal rights whatsoever, and have everyone get a civic union. Among other things, it would get rid of the 1500+ federal rights predicated on marriage, and no one, not a hospital, not a judge, no one, could make it so someone with a civic union had to right for the same rights that marriage grants in a single word. If marriage is sacred, then let us make it sacred, and leave it to churches to decide whom to marry and who not to, and make everyone get a civic union to get rights, which is common in more than a few countries, including Mexico.

I won't hold my breath, because the same people who claim it is about the term marriage, also adamantly refuse to change the law where marriage is no longer recognized as a term (not to mention that Boehner and the rest of the GOP absolutely refused that if states granted the rights of marriage to those with civic unions and DP's, that the federal government recognize it, which goes to show you it has everything to do with making gays second class citizens) and everyone has a civic union.If you came out and said that marriage should not be a legal term, and that everyone to get legal rights files for a civic union or civic partnership or whatever, I would have some respect for your position, but arguing that marriage should be a legal term is also arguing that marriage should be superior in rights, too. The fact that you can claim that a state granting civic unions to gay couples is all that is needed says you don't know the difference and don't want to, which deep down means you want civic unions to be inferior, because all of these points have been made time and again by gay couples, it isn't that gays want the right to the term marriage because they want to stick it to straights, they want the term marriage because it is the only way to get the full rights of marriage, the term itself opens doors and allows people to have full rights, which no other term gives.




dcnovice -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:32:51 AM)

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I know a lot of gay people who feel the same way he does.

Of course, you do. [:)]




dcnovice -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:40:44 AM)

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It's about legal rights afforded by that contract.


Back in 2004, the GAO "identified a total of 1,138 federal statutory provisions classified to the United States Code in which marital status is a factor in determining or receiving benefits, rights, and privileges." (Emphasis mine.)

http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d04353r.pdf




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:41:51 AM)


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What complete and utter rot, though I admit among colors I've always preferred blue. [:D]

Nope,it is a fact of human existence, when you have two things named differently, the alternate name is often considered less valuable. It is about perceptions and how things are valued. There have been a lot of studies...

There is a difference between assigning different names to the same thing, particularly when one name is comparatively prejudicial, and assigning different names to different things. I put it to you that a heterosexual relationship is not the same thing as a same-sex relationship, and I would be inclined to think that marrying a contra-sexual partner is not something most gays would hold as an "ideal".

More generally, I question your whole premise in that regard. Personally, I'm single. I have never been made to feel that I was held in less regard for that cause. In fact, some of the married people I know envy me! And by the way, related to your previous knee-jerk "homophobia" crap, it may interest you to know that for a variety of reasons not all gays themselves favor gay marriage. For example...

Gays against gay marriage

K.



Um, Kirata, there also are straights who are against marriage, there are feminists who have argued it is legal bondage for women, there are men who argue that the way marriage law is written, men end up getting screwed if they get divorced. Whether anyone, straight or gay, is against getting married is irrelevant to the discussion, the fact that you are throwing out anti marriage gays shows desperation on your part. I have heard the arguments, and basically the gays against same sex marriage usually are saying why would gays want to enter into marriage, why should gay culture embrace straight culture, etc...there is a smaller minority of gays who argue as you do, that marriage was defined by god for straight couples, etc, but those are few in number, and they are people struggling to reconcile being gay and the religion they grew up with saying it was evil.

As far as you being single and never feeling like you are treated with less regard because you are single, that has to be one of the biggest *dohs* I have heard. Being single is totally different, in that as a single person you are only one person, with the rights of one person involved, whereas with gay couples who want to get married, they are in a totally different boat, that is literally comparing an apple, not to an orange, but a piece of coal. Single people have entirely different rights under the law than married people, it is two totally different things,that are quantifiable. If a single person dies and they have kids, the kids go to the next of kin unless a will says something different; a single can only claim themselves as a dependent on taxes; a single person doesn't have to worry about what happens to their kids, since they likely don't have them (and if they do, they would go to next of kin more than likely).

A same sex couple, other than the fact they are same sex, are doing exactly what straight couples do when they get marry. Tell me, Kirata, other than in the belief of whether the old guy in the robe who looks like Charlton Heston thinks or doesn't think, what is different with straights getting married? You have two people, who (hopefully) love each other and want to commit to each other and want the protection of the law for their family, and as far as I can tell, that is the only difference. Children? Okay, gay couples (at least right now with some weird exceptions) cannot have kids that are biologically both parents, but guess what, a lot of straight couples can't, either, cause one or both of them are sterile, or because there is the risk of some sort of genetic disease in the kid (two parents with the huntington's Chorea gene)....Straight couples do what gay couples do, one of them is a genetic parent and someone else is the sperm donor or surrogate mom/egg donor, yet if a straight couple goes this route, both people are automatically considered the child's parents, that is true in all 50 states, yet if a gay couple does the same thing, civic union or not, many states will recognize only the genetic parent as the child's parent, and if the genetic parent dies, the state can and will strip the kid from the other parent and give it to relatives if they challenge it. God dust sprinkled on straight marriages have nothing and should have nothing to do with law, and the way the law is written, marriages deny those doing exactly the same thing as a same sex couple the same rights for doing exactly the same thing in form; whereas being single is a totally different state that can be constructed, not upon God or a church's beliefs, but on facts; when you are single, you have no legal committment to anyone but yourself, and the law recognizes you as such.

BTW, there is something else to think of, and that is even as a single person, you have more rights than gay people do. You as a straight, presumably white, person under the law can sue if an employer cans you because of who you are, you can sue if someone denies you housing because of who you are, in 35 states a gay single person can be fired for being gay, can be denied housing, can be denied state assistance, all because they are gay.
I bring that up only to point out that with the term marriage, it is about rights, whether someone is single or straight, and it is about the law making sure that people's personal beliefs don't infringe on the right of a group others don't like. Like I said, you may think marriage should be for straight people only, but unless you are willing to get on the barricades and make marriage a religious, not legal term, and fight that for legal rights everyone is the same, your argument is basically to keep going with the long term tradition of using marriage as a legal term to deny gays the legal rights of marriage. Among other things, all 50 states recognize the term marriage, so even assuming the federal government recognized same sex civic unions, dp's, etc, there is fundamental inequality. I suspect that when the second half of DOMA falls (states recognizing the marriages of other states, or not), that marriage then becomes universal. The problem there will be that someone with a civic union would not be covered, because if the court rules on DOMA, it only is about the term marriage. Someone with marriage in NJ, assuming DOMA totally falls, who moves to the other 49 states will have the legal assurance in that case that their marriage will be respected under local law, whereas someone with a DP or Civic union who moves to a state WITHOUT THAT SPECIFIC TERM would be up shit's creek without a paddle, because the law is term specific, the law doesn't operate on generalities, and if NJ defined a civic union as being the same as marriage, even with DOMA gone, Mississippi would not have to recognize it; whereas as is the case now, if a NJ same sex couple gets married, and the second part of DOMA is wiped out (which it likely will be by SCOTUS, already has been by lower courts), someone in Mississippi or Alabama will have to recognize that marriage, or face legal consequences for refusing to do so.




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:49:15 AM)


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But as time goes on, weirdly, I'm growing less liberal. I'm more like, 'No, religion is ruining the world, you need to stop!'


I agree with that sentiment. There was this story recently where a religious free school in the UK redacted part of a science exam paper because it asked questions about evolution. Their argument for doing so was that they didn't agree with the question and every pupil was put at an equal disadvantage so it didn't matter.

It matters to society if we are raising people that have no knowledge of such things i.e. they don't even know of the possibility of a better answer or the existence of an opposing view to their own. I'd fine the school in the first instance and then shut it down on the first reoccurrence. It's scary stuff going back to the stone age, luckily the internet now exists and so their attempts are futile. The fact they are trying to make this happen in the secular UK lets you just imagine what religion is achieving in terms of spreading ignorance elsewhere in the world (where for example an exam board isn't reporting such abuse).

Why would I not find that kind of thing offensive?


There are a number of states where the same thing is going on, especially in the bible belt, where they are doing everything they can to get evolution removed from the curicula, or taught that it is basically a gigantic guess with no proof (using theory to mean guess, rather than what it really means in science). I believe there are school districts where they refuse to teach evolution as science, and several states have removed it from curicula (Kansas is famous for it, they actually did it, but it was repealed when the bible thumpers were voted off the state school department of education and more rational people replaced them, in part because topnotch colleges said they would not admit students who had not had evolution in their curricula). The religious droolers have done an incredible PR job with evolution, and thanks to piss poor science education in the schools, people have fallen for it. Somewhere between 33 and 40% of the population in the US believes evolution didn't happen and things happened as in genesis (on the other hand, a large percentage of the 60% who think evolution is true, also think that a deity had some hand it it, which is fine by me, I happen to believe that as well). Most mainstream religious groups have no problems with evolution, but the religious right and their GOP allies have done a tremendous PR job , especially among Fox News Nation, to so obfuscate what evolution is and what theory means, that a lot of people are denying something that based on facts is so evident it isn't even funny, that is one of the examples of the bad side of religion, when it can be used to pull a 1984 and make what is truth untruth and so forth.




dcnovice -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:53:08 AM)

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I put it to you that a heterosexual relationship is not the same thing as a same-sex relationship,

This seems to be the heart of the matter.

Aside obviously from the equipment of the folks involved, what do you see as the fundamental differences?




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 8:53:08 AM)


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SCOTUS defined this beautifully in the Brown V board of Ed decision, that said separate but equal by its very nature is not equal,that by separating out the 'other group', you are inherently making them unequal.


It's no coincidence that "separate but equal" was the phrase used by apartheid-era white South Africans to justify apartheid-era racial segregation and oppression of blacks. No one in their right mind would claim that the equality. part of that slogan was enforced with any thing like the rigour the separate part was. The whole world knew it was just code for keeping the blacks in their place.

It seems like history is repeating itself, except this time the queers that are the target of the hate groups. Same words, same hate, different target.


Not to mention that religious belief was routinely cited in apartheid,in the US the Southern Baptists and other evangelical Christians supported Jim Crowe, arguing that God didn't want the races to mix, that the tower of Babel story confirmed what God wanted. Among other things, in a time when overt racism has even the most right wing of the GOP cringing, homophobia is the last socially accepted bias out there, on that is backed by law.




Zonie63 -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:01:40 AM)


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It is funny, people of Faith, especially Christians, go on and on about how the Church and faith shaped western civilization, was so influential on the shaping of our civilization, how "God fearing Christian men" founded the US, yet suddenly when it comes to the darkness that was the holocaust, it was like "don't blame Christianity, don't blame the church", and that is an utter bullshit copout.


I would not credit Christianity with shaping Western Civilization, nor would I blame Christianity for its failures and atrocities - at least not entirely. I'm definitely a critic of religion and Christianity, but I also try to guard against unfairly singling them out or scapegoating Christians as a group. As I suggested in an earlier post, politicians will use religion or whatever philosophical ideal they can latch onto to gain power, wealth, etc. The Holocaust was more the result of malignant nationalism, which has some significant ideological conflicts with religion.



Western civilization was shaped by many things, starting with the Ancient Greeks, the Romans, but Christianity became the predominant force in western europe and its various facets were closely tied in with how things evolved,up until the reformation there was no such thing as a split between nation and state, the political and the religious were tied. Likewise, in terms of education, until the 18th century all the universities and schools were tied to religion, when Newton was at Cambridge he became ordained Clergy, there was no separation. When the church decided someone was blasphemous, they turned the person over to the civic authorities to be punished (I love when Catholics tell me "the church didn't punish people, civic authorities did".........like, who do you think accused them?). Christianity in its many forms did, the political reformations of the enlightenment, of people like Locke and Rousseau, in large part came about when the protestant split happened, and the idea that a person had the direct connection to God, rather than needing church and clergy, also led to the idea of a ruler's power coming to him through the people, who in turn had been blessed by God; whereas the dominant thought before the reformation, preached by the church, was that Rulers got their power through God directly and ruled by divine intervention (divine right of Kings), so the changes in Christianity affected western civilization. The ideas of charity that run through western civilization (and don't exist, for example, as strongly in cultures like Japan and China, whose dominant religions do not preach as strongly protecting the weak and poor) came from Christian belief. Christianity was tied up heavily in education, with the universities and such, private universities only started coming about in the 19th century, secular univerisities, so religion influenced so many things, and in Europe it was Christianity.


I wouldn't deny any of the above, although I noticed that you specified "western Europe" where Christianity was influential. I'm curious as to why you would not include central or eastern Europe in your analysis.

Europeans did not automatically convert to Christianity; it was a long process which took centuries before all of Europe was Christianized. Christianity itself had to compromise and make deals in order to please the masses enough so that they would convert, which is part of the reason we celebrate Christmas and Easter, which carry elements from old Pagan beliefs. It's also why Christians are allowed to eat pork, even though their religious scriptures clearly say it's forbidden.

So, it might be more a chicken-egg question, whether Christianity influenced Europe or whether it was the other way around. When we have pictures of Christianity's Savior who looks like a white guy from northern Europe, it makes one wonder where the "influence" actually comes from.

Ironically, when you really look at it, Christianity is really nothing more than a sect of Judaism, not a completely separate religion.


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As far as the holocaust, calling it nationalism is true, but also very, very not the whole picture. The holocaust came about because the Jews were blamed for the loss in WWI, that the Germans were a superior nation of superior people and the only way they lost, they were betrayed; but what that leaves out is why the Jews were singled out, why it became about them primarily. The nationalism is a no brainer, William Manchester in his "Arms of Krupp" points out that after Germany unified after smashing the French in 1870, the Germans, after centuries of being the whipping boy of europe, the weak sister, suddenly rallied around the Prussians and adopted this idea of being 'superior', an illusion that came crashing to the ground in 1918. The allies stupidly did not occupy Germany (one of the biggest mistakes in history), so the military, trying to cover their asses, told people "we were never occupied, we never lost, we were betrayed")..and guess who was responsible? Right, the Jews, and want to know what was commonly said."Well, how could we ever trust the Jews, after all it was the Jews who betrayed our Savior".....the fact that they were looking for a scapegoat is nationalism, the fact they turned to the Jews as the scapegoat was long held anti semitism, and much of that came from the support the churches gave to anti semitism.


Again, I wouldn't deny that some of this is at work, although there were other influences operating in Germany at the time. For example, you mentioned above that Christianity preached charity and helping the weak and poor, although German philosophers such as Nietzsche were decidedly against the idea of helping the weak and poor. In past eras, the religious authorities tried to rule over multiple nations at once - as a guiding, overriding international influence, yet the rise of nationalistic ideals were running counter to that. Concurrently, liberalism, capitalism, and socialism also appealed to those who had grown weary of religious despotism.

There were also political divisions. It didn't matter whether they believed in the same religion or not, they still had the same political squabbles over land and wealth which would have existed under any religion or no religion. The religion may be used as a pretext or an excuse for violence, persecution, and murder, but it may not be the actual root cause of the problem. There had been violence and murder in Europe and elsewhere before anyone even heard of Christianity, so the explanation as to the cause must lie elsewhere.

I agree with your analysis of Germany's unification and rise of nationalism leading to WW1, although I'm a bit perplexed that you seem to minimize its influence by saying it's "very, very not the whole picture." I agree it's not the whole picture, but I think it's a larger part of it. The reason I can't blame the religion entirely is because there were many times and places where Jewish people were treated better, even though they were still living under Christian governments and in Christian-majority countries.

I don't see anything about Christianity that requires its adherents to be anti-Semitic, and in many European societies, many Jews had reached positions of respectability, education, science, industry, finance, art, music - including Germany, where they made enormous contributions. They thought they had assimilated and that they were accepted in that society, even though it was Christian and even though there was some measure of anti-Semitism. They believed that they were still German citizens with rights, but once Hitler rose to power, that all changed.

Hitler's own religious views were somewhat vague - not exactly "Christian," and they were likely heading in a direction which would have taken them to their pre-Christian pagan religions. He considered Christianity to be a "Jewish religion," and his anti-Semitism was so strong that, had he succeeded in his objectives, it would have logically meant the elimination of Christianity as well, due to its Jewish origins. I think there were some attempts to set up a "National Socialist Church" of some kind, although I don't think that really caught on too well.





njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:07:57 AM)


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It amazes me how intolerant the liberal left is while they are screaming for tolerance and making threads like this.



Yeah, those using harsh language are 'intolerant', while those arguing for legal discrimination to support their religious views are tolerant, right....hate to tell you, but the same thing was leveled by those who supported segregation in the jim Crow days, arguing that those classifying Jim Crowe as the work of stupid rednecks were 'intolerant' of southern culture, who those damn northern liberals didn't understand how Jim Crowe was the tradition and the law and how dare they destroy "our culture"....the wording is almost identical, if the people being discriminated upon are different. Tolerance doesn't mean accepting something simply because others find it tolerable, Tolerance means accepting what is distasteful to yourself but otherwise has nothing to do with your life. Jim Crowe was not about tolerance, segregation denied a whole group of people the right to live as they saw fit; Likewise, same sex marriage isn't about tolerance, I can tolerate someone's belief it is wrong, what I cannot and should not tolerate is someone denying the right of people to be married because they believe it is wrong; there are a lot of things I think are personally wrong in the world, but I also respect others right to believe those things (for example, I don't have a problem if Catholics who follow church teaching believe that birth control is wrong or a sin, though I don't believe they have the right to tell others to follow their belief), but where that ends is when that belief translates into causing another group of people harm.As is often said, your right to believe something begins and ends with yourself; when that belief is used to deny someone else the right to do as they wish, based simply on your belief, all tolerance has to and should end. Same sex marriage opponents can only cite one reason to deny it to gays,and that is personal belief (whether religious or not is immaterial), and that is where tolerance ends. Those fighting to defend Prop 8 in California admitted that it was a ban based entirely in personal belief, that they could cite not one piece of hard evidence that same sex marriage would cause harm, and that is the reality.

The other thing about tolerance is you have the right to your beliefs, but you don't have the right to express them and expect no one to fight back. I hear this all the time from the right wing, crying 'freedom of speech" when they are attacked for saying something racist or homophobic, their version of the first amendment is "I can say what I want, and you better not call me names, cause I'll cry" rather than "I have the right to say what I want without legal consequences, but others have the right to say what they want that may not be enjoyable by myself"




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:18:33 AM)


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This whole statement is a total load of bullshit, and it is typical of those trying to claim they are not homophobic, when they are.



That is interesting because I know a lot of gay people who feel the same way he does. Are you implying that they are homophobic also?

No, but those against gay marriage who are gay are arguing from a totally different end of things. Kirata is saying gays don't deserve the term marriage, because their unions don't meet the standard of it being a man and woman as "da bible says' (course, the bible also says it is between a man and one of more women, at least in genesis). Gays who argue against same sex marriage are doing so arguing that gay culture has formed its own rules and why should they take on the burden of straight culture ie marriage? They aren't saying for the most part that gays shouldn't marry because it is against God's will or that heterosexual marriage has been that way for thousands of years, they are arguing that they don't believe in marriage, period..which btw, more than a few straight people argue as well.

There are some gays arguing against same sex marriage who are homophobic, who basically agree with the religious right that God reserved marriage for straights and so forth, and who believe being gay is a sin. Not surprising, there also were blacks who argued that interracial marriage was bad, there were blacks who thought segregation was a good thing, there were probably Jews who thought the Nazis were right in their characterization of fellow Jews, self hatred is not an unknown thing..but most of the gays against same sex marriage are arguing from the position that they don't believe gays should adopt hetero culture, and they are a very small minority, those arguing it on religious grounds, even less so....

The homophobia isn't arguing against same sex marriage, it is why they argue against it, in other words. I have heard straight people who say "why the hell do gays want to get married, marriage sucks", which is not homophobic, whereas saying "gays should not be allowed to marry because God decreed marriage between a man and a woman", or who say "I don't want the government supporting their lifestyle" certainly are. I could respect a lot more someone who said "I don't believe marriage should be between two same sex people, but I also want to make sure that they have all the rights of marriage", as much as I disagree with them, what I do disagree with is people like Kirata who claim not to be homophobic, but moreso, try and weasel out of it by claiming that denying gays the right to marry is not discriminatory or them using the law like a club to 'keep them in their place". Like I told many a 'marriage supporter", if they really are upset about marriage being used by same sex couples, then get marriage out of the law entirely......and you can hear the crickets among all the people arguing for that to happen.




dcnovice -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:25:55 AM)

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Might it be that some people suffer from a lack of self-worth, painful feelings which when stimulated they defend against by projecting onto others an intention to demean them?


It's certainly possible that gays and lesbians struggle with self-worth. I do, and friends of mine do also. That's no surprise for folks who grew up in a world that told us--sometimes violently--that we were worthless, deviant, perverted, depraved, and certainly anything but equal to heterosexuals. Mercifully, many queer folk coming up and out now don't seem to shoulder the same baggage. Deo gratias!

That background probably does make us skeptical about those who oppose same-sex marriage. I honestly do find it hard to believe that folks are truly driven by a concern for linguistic purity.

Is that projection? I don't know. I did find it interesting, a few years back, to read David Blankenhorn's essay in the New York Times. A longtime traditional-marriage advocate, Blankenhorn noted, "And to my deep regret, much of the opposition to gay marriage seems to stem, at least in part, from an underlying anti-gay animus. To me, a Southerner by birth whose formative moral experience was the civil rights movement, this fact is profoundly disturbing." Here was someone, not carrying my baggage and steeped in the fight against same-sex marriage, who nevertheless came to exactly the same conclusion.




Musicmystery -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:28:47 AM)

No one likes to face it. Most people flatly deny it. But the typical thinking process involves an emotional response followed by a mental justification, rather than the guiding hand of logic.




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:33:43 AM)


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This whole statement is a total load of bullshit, and it is typical of those trying to claim they are not homophobic, when they are.



That is interesting because I know a lot of gay people who feel the same way he does. Are you implying that they are homophobic also?



Ever notice how the term homophobics exists.. yet what is the word for hating Christian ideals?

Liberalism.

Seriously, think about this. Islam cuts peoples heads off... there is islamaphobia.
yet sit there and say, as a Christian, I don't agree with homosexuality.. and BANG, you're a homophobe.

fuck you democrats.




No, the word for hating Christian ideals can be summed up in one word "evangelical Christians". The Christian ideal is stated by Christ to his disciples, when he said the law was we are to love our neighbor as we love ourselves and God, that is the law", and we have the golden rule "do onto others as you would want done unto yourself". Liberals seem to uphold the Christian ideal in more ways than the religious, if loving others as we would love ourselves or god is the law, then working to allow gays to have recognized relationships or have the right to exist without fear of being hurt for who they are seems a lot more Christian to me than the right wing who seem to exist on demonizing others, whether it be liberals or gays.

Put it this way this statement et sit there and say, as a Christian, I don't agree with homosexuality.. and BANG, you're a homophobe." shows the fundamental problem with your entire thesis. First of all, if you don't like something, by the very definition of the word it is phobic, that is basic definition. Secondly, and more importantly, you left out something big, what your statement really means is "et sit there and say, as a Christian, I don't agree with homosexuality, and therefore I don't think gays deserve the same rights as straights". The problem isn't that you don't agree with homosexuality, it is that you don't agree with homosexuality and therefore want society to reflect your beliefs, that is where the real homophobia lies.

Want an analogy? I think huge SUV's are a disaster area, I think they are a stupid status symbol, I think most people who drive them have real problems with sense of security and so forth, and that other than a tiny percentage of the population who really need them, they are a joke...yet I don't go out and argue that they shouldn't be allowed to be sold, or that people who drive them should pay a penalty for doing so. I don't like SUV's, yet I don't stop other people's rights to own them. Likewise, as a sailor, I never particularly liked motorboats, but I never fought to ban them, either.


I realize these are silly, but the real intolerance is found when someone doesn't like something and wants to force others to live by their beliefs, using force of law and society, that is intolerance. I have yet to see one case where liberals 'intolerance' of the religious has denied them the rights they are entitled to, like with racism and Jim crow, what 'intolerance" seems to mean coming from the 'religious' is the right not only to believe homosexuality is wrong, but practice it. BTW,the racist opponents of interracial marriage said the same thing you do, they yelled and whined that 'liberals' were demonizing them and making them into rednecks and worse, when they firmly believed that interracial marriage was wrong and had the right to their beliefs, to long held culture...and what they left out, of course, was that their belief was ensconced in law as well, denying others who believed differently the right to marry.




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:41:21 AM)


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Heterosexuals might have called the committed union of a man and woman marriage, but it doesn't matter, the real issue is that the term marriage became a legal term, that specified rights and benefits on those who are legally married.


Then, behind that, there's the even more fundamental issue of separation of church and state. The institution of marriage combines the two . . . .



Hence why, again, marriage isn't a contract to govt, it is a promise to the man or woman you love, and God. "I will love you forever."

No more, no loss.


Nope in the law marriage is a legal right, that grants certain rights and also requires certain responsibilities. For one thing, to be legally married, you don't have to be married in a church or by clergy, and you certainly don't have to swear by God, you can have a marriage ceremony in front of a JP or Mayor of a town or ship's captain, and recite the lyrics to "Love Train" or "I wanna be sedated" and be legally married, and it is as fully legal as a marriage sanctified by a Cardinal or priest or minister, there is zero difference between a civic, secular ceremony and a religious one in the law. To the law the term marriage is a contract, with rights and responsibilities, it is not a sacred event, it is not blessed by God, it is a legal right granted to that specific term.

Get the term marriage out of the law, get rid of marriage licenses and the appearence of the word marriage in thousands of documents, and you would be correct, it would be the province of religious belief; but as it stands right now, it is a government endorsed contract and because of belief is being used a cudgel to deny same sex couples the same rights straights have. If it isn't a contract, how come it is in the law and is in thousands of government documents?




njlauren -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/16/2014 9:48:21 AM)


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yet what is the word for hating Christian ideals?

Liberalism.



I trust you vote those Christian ideals, yes?




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Not to mention that based on his 'fuck the democrats', he also probably votes for politicians who claim the poor are lazy and don't deserve help, favors gutting spending on social programs while giving huge tax cuts to the rich, and so forth. It is funny, Christ said blessed are the poor and that we have a duty to help those who are poor or powerless, yet the same people who cite the bible when it comes to denying gays rights are also the same people who either stay quiet, like the Catholic Bishops in this country, when politicians who are anti gay and pro abortion go on a rampage against the poor or want to gut social programs the church favors, or outright support the idea that the poor are lazy and the rich are blessed.....but then again, it seems like these days the American Catholic Church has turned Catholicism into being anti gay and anti abortion, and the religious right has done much the same, the other 99.99% of the bible that doesn't deal with gays (and the 100.0% that doesn't deal with abortion, since it is not mentioned in either book) don't matter, wanna be a Christian? Be anti gay and anti abortion....need I mentioned the US Bishops censoring an order of nuns because they were so busy working with the poor and powerless, trying to make their lives better, that they weren't yelling enough for the Bishops taste about same sex marriage and against abortion....*QED*




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