njlauren
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I think it would take a pretty fouled up man to agree to any such deal the way the OP laid it out, where they marry someone, live together, support the wife, and then potentially supports kids she had with another man. Yeah, there are probably men who fantasize about a relationship like that, and there may even be men out there who have gone down that path (read websites for cuckolds that claim that happened to them), but it is rare and quite honestly I think a man willing to go that route has issues. Someone who knows he is just a friend and is emotionally set would not take her up on such an offer, because he would know he would get nothing out of it. A friend might marry to help out the friend for some reason (ranges from not being deported to having health insurance to providing cover for a child when the woman got pregnant), but something like this? Not going to happen with someone who is emotionally stable. Even a cuckold fetishist wouldn't do it, because part of the thrill of being a cuckold is the tension between a loving wife and husband and the outside person, hard to get jealous or hyped up about someone who is a friend seeing other guys, even if you are married *shrug*
To be honest, I would think a woman who would do as the OP said has issues, because I cannot see a woman marrying someone they like as a friend only like that, because that in many ways precludes the kind of loving, intimate relationship a married couple has, that has nothing to do with sex, this is more like a sugar daddy using a guy then a marriage, and I just don't see what she would get out of it. Okay, so she has Bulls to have sex with, and maybe make kids with, but she is as much using him as the guy she married..so where does intimacy come in? Where is the love and so forth? In a sense, what the woman and her husband would have is a true D/s where there is no romantic/intimate part to it, and to be honest, I don't know too many women who would go for that, because it would be lacking across her life in the scenario the OP laid out, and some of the responses on here is my understanding of women, that the need intimacy and such in a close relationship, and a woman who is able to maintain something where she is married to a friend and has Bulls for sex sounds, well, not very intimate or loving on either side *shrug*, and it would seem ideal for a woman who doesn't want intimacy at all.
I strongly suspect such a relationship would go different ways. Either the wife would fall emotionally for one of the bulls, get intimate with him, and would want to marry him, the husband would get lonely and resent not being intimate in many ways with his wife, and would break it off, or the husband and wife would realize that they did love each other, would fall in love, and that would modify the deal, to where they were monogamous, or maybe would do a more traditional kind of cuckolding where the guy and the woman love each other, have sex, but get a charge out of cuckolding.
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