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Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 2:57:37 PM   
youngsubmom


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Status: offline 		WHY don't people read profiles???? I've had more than my fair share of Doms wanting to collar me but in my profile I've put that I am already collared and devoted to my Master. What is going on??? Why do I keep getting messages from Doms when I'm looking for a sister slave????
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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 3:24:40 PM   
mtsilence


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Status: offline 		I know how you feel I have tried to word it several different ways. However, some out there are so hot in their search they figure they will try anyway. I have even had a few emails from people 'demanding and instructing me on what I was going to do for them at their pleasure.' I laughed shared it with my Lord and happily continued to chat with my friends on line. Ignore the emails after all no one said you have to reply to them.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 3:28:28 PM   
EStrict


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Status: offline 		Uhhm,, not to defend those that don't read profiles, but at this moment all you have is a picture and the words *profile pending*. Guessing (as this is your first post) you are new here, and you put up a cute picture, getting emails from those searching is not a surpise.

When your profile is actually approved, it will again put you at the top of the new user list, and it is possible that some will write you without reading it (especially if it's long), and not notice you are owned (unless that's in the first line?). But relax, you only stay in the *new* section a short time and as soon as you are gone from that the emails will slow down some.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 4:00:22 PM   
EStrict


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Status: offline 		::laughing:: well, I just checked back and they have gotten your profile approved and there is NO doubting you are clear on what you want.. hopefully things will be better now :)

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 5:03:54 PM   
LadyShoshin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: youngsubmom

WHY don't people read profiles???? I've had more than my fair share of Doms wanting to collar me but in my profile I've put that I am already collared and devoted to my Master. What is going on??? Why do I keep getting messages from Doms when I'm looking for a sister slave????

I don't know how much more clear you can be, your status is very easy to read. Maybe a picture of you in your collar. Since some people seem to be illiterate and go by pictures only. Make sure it is a BIG collar *lol*

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 6:17:08 PM   
kiki blue


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From: Brisbane, Australia
Status: offline 		I keep getting emails from guys who live in America, England or the Middle East wanting to collar me, when I clearly state I'm after someone who lives locally to me. Then some of them reply "but I fly there all the time!". I'm sorry, that's not the same as living here:) I'm prepared to wait, and tend to just delete the ones who can't be bothered to read properly.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 7:09:58 PM   
lilserenity


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Joined: 7/1/2004
Status: offline 		Doms look at the names, some do read profiles and yet more see how you act in chatrooms whether you play games or lap jump or whatever. Your actions support you and your position..I myself perfer to know the person first and if something isn't right then read the profiles anyone can wrote anything about themselves..So speak one on one with that person first before any commitment. Oh girls ,,make sure you get their phone numbers at night time incase.. You never know if you wake up at 3 am from a nightmare and need comfort or just to be curious lol. Thats my secret to find out about their real lives.. lol be safe hugs serenity

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 7:42:52 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Don't ask me. I'm beginign to think all people do is look at pictures.

I get so much unsolicited pornographic accounts of "our" first scenes.....none of 'em mention my partner....hmm...

I can accept that when you edit your profile it says *pending* HOWEVER, if you're so interested in a person, why not hotlist them and go back and read it when it's approved? It doesn't take more than a couple days and would save everyone a whole lotta hassle.



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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/21/2004 8:34:10 PM   
yellovv


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Status: offline 		speaking in a male dom, i can say that there will be times that i read too quickly or i don't read close enough and i make a mistake thinking one thing and in fact later find that the profile meant something else. i don't know if this is common, but it's possible. or it's just could be that there are a lot of horny guys just trying to get lucky and see if any subs bites back with a "hi" or a "me your master, you me slave, bend over and spead those ass checks"....

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 11/22/2004 4:48:15 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		I get the odd emails now and then too. More so when I first was collared. I just take it with a grain of sand and write them off as fakes.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 12/12/2004 1:29:18 PM   
MastersGirl


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Status: offline 		AMEN! My profile clearly states that I posted it so my MASTER (hell-O!) can log on and read my journal and to connect with other subs. I have only gotten emails from men who are looking for a sub/slave with the exception of one very thoughtful individual that read a post on chastity and offerred advice. Now THAT is someone worth chatting with and getting to know! Please people.....I go to the trouble to be very honest in my profile, as do most people....READ THEM CAREFULLY!

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 12/12/2004 1:36:52 PM   
darlyn


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Status: offline 		*laughs* don't feel badly, sisters... my Master's profile even reads that He has found the sub/slave of His dreams and yet He still gets emails as well, so it does happen on both sides of fence.

*wishes Collarme had the options of submissive or slave or Owned* maybe that would help.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 12/12/2004 2:35:41 PM   
alwayzron


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quote:

I've had more than my fair share of Doms wanting to collar me


I don't think these are Doms. I think these are losers with no clue and no class and no idea what the D/s lifestyle is truly about. Bill Gates created the DEL key for a reason .... apply it generously!

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 12/13/2004 2:44:19 PM   
moonvine


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Status: offline 		People don't read profiles on vanilla sites either. It is very annoying.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/20/2005 11:16:35 PM   
saltie


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Status: offline 		I have the same thing happen to me. Have local only but get mail from ones out of the country. Also from those under 40 or married. I have it is not a lifestyle but some want more. Think I now have I will not answer if not local, under 40, or married but yet some still write me. One was from Missouri and under 40. He though being well hung might make a difference. At least at this site I dont get cock pictures. Have do not any but of course does not stop some from sending.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 6:18:25 AM   
MsIncognito


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Status: offline 		I think it happens to everyone. In my experience stating that one is bisexual automatically has all the subs who's masters send them out looking for 'sisters' emailing (what's up with that anyway, is he incapable of finding a second himself?). I find that by having the sparsest profile possible it reduces the mail.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 6:44:49 AM   
KatyLied


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From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		Just a few days ago I received a message from a sub male, he called me "Mistress" yum (joking!!). Too bad he can't read.


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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 7:12:31 AM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		I'm averaging one message a week from some one who wants to come and go 24/7.. Most show skills in the kitchen, hiuse work and gardening.. yep yep all I need so it gets interesting when they say they are either moving to the US next (varing time frames) OR Moving to my area in the US.....

Maybe I should organise reading glasses for these folk and have their eyes tested.

So Ok I had to do some checking and according to my mates in Federal Security areas, I'm still living in Australia, No, Beenleigh, Queensland hasn't been transported to the US and the US hasn't anexed any part of Australian or its Territories..

Soooo as my profile clearly states where I live, are these folk hinting that I should move to the US? Last time I looked I still have joint citizenship, but am banned from driving LAPD Cruisers (something about me palking one of them on its side and yelling at a LAPD Sgt that your guys drive on the wrong side of the road).... IS THE US READY FOR ME TO MOVE THERE??????????????????????? Now that is a question.



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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 8:07:50 AM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

No, Beenleigh, Queensland hasn't been transported to the US and the US hasn't anexed any part of Australian or its Territories..



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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 8:16:47 AM   
lonewolf05


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Status: offline 		ok let's settle this once and for all...........

why don't people read profiles...........they do----------

but like the same people that go to the DMV and see the sign that says NO cell phones........"I" found 3 people using theirs...........

any q's?

some people are just plain damned stupid.

wolf


< Message edited by lonewolf05 -- 9/21/2005 8:17:35 AM >

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