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RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually agg... - 3/29/2014 5:31:52 AM   
ettaj


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Because I can not be aggressive or dominant in any way to either men or women
Even if I try during play and I am ordered to do so I cannot effective be the aggressor
I have received punishment for not being able to do so

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RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually agg... - 3/29/2014 2:05:02 PM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: ettaj

Because I can not be aggressive or dominant in any way to either men or women
Even if I try during play and I am ordered to do so I cannot effective be the aggressor
I have received punishment for not being able to do so

Your Master is wrong to punish you for a character trait you do not possess. If aggressiveness is not a part of your nature, no amount of punishment will make this come naturally to you. This would be like him expecting you to turn into someone else overnight or in the blink of an eye, and not only is that not fair, it's an absurdity. Is he a fairy that he can wave a magic wand over you?

Can you turn a quarterhorse into a Thoroughbred, or vice versa? No, you cannot. A quarterhorse will still be faster running a quarter mile on average than almost any Thoroughbred. The Thoroughbred can outdistance and outperform the quarterhorse on a one-mile track. One has short-distance speed and the other has greater stamina.

By the same token, you cannot take just any male s-type and turn him into a sexual dynamo. Or any man for that matter.

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