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Blonderfluff -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 12:43:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TenderTorment I've tasted my own, both from a kiss and direct from the furry cup so to speak, but then again I was in a relationship for 18 years that was vibrant and healthy and in that circumstance there's not much you don't do at least once, did I enjoy it? simply, yes, why wouldn't I? In that moment, at that time she could have been filled with battery acid and I'd still have dived in. What is with all the sexy romantics ??!! The Men on this thread ROCK!!!!!!

wittynamehere -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 12:45:49 PM)
Bit odd to hear submissives suggest that dominants should be willing to do things they don't want to do, or stop expecting submissives to do things they don't want to do. Do they know what "to submit" means? I mean it has a dictionary definition, they could check it out... quote: ORIGINAL: smileforme50 how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? My own, as a curious teen. Tasted a bit like salty mucous. Which makes sense, after all, since that's what it is.

Blonderfluff -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 12:48:56 PM)
Oooo. Ima sit right here for this... Wait. Let me guess. You are one of the few "biohazard" men!!!!

ExiledTyrant -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 12:56:29 PM)
I tried to warn you... here he is... [Img]http://sheridanvoice.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Jesus-Says-Enjoy-Hell.jpg[/img] And there it is... [img]http://fc00.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/117/c/9/welcome_to_hell_by_tacoapple99-d4xshls.png[/img] Most people are going to gloss over your statement on "limits", take personal offense, and turn this into a fight or a "you're not a real and true /s" blah blah blah. Jus sayin Exiled

smileforme50 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 2:20:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 quote: ORIGINAL: smileforme50 quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 smileforme50, quote: ORIGINAL: smileforme50 But why isn't a woman allowed to feel (essentially) the same way? You can feel however you want smile, if you don't like it don't do it. Everyone of my long term partners has swallowed, and if they didn't, then they didn't make it to long term. In my case, if you don't like doing it, then we are not compatible. One of my partners said I tasted "pepperminty" so that may be a factor in me finding that most girls will swallow without much drama. I'm not under any delusions, obviously there are a lot of girls would find it gross (I've only met three but I'm assuming there are more). However, its a personal preference and there are a lot of girls that do like doing it... However.....just to clarify.... I'm not saying I don't want to give a man oral..... I'm Saying I don't want to do it on another woman. Are you saying that's woman who doesn't want to give another woman oral wouldn't make it long term with you? If a partner doesn't like to swallow my cum, then we aren't sexually compatible. Because that's one of my sexual preferences. It's one of the things I like in bed. I can't see anyway I could twist that around to be equivalent to a partner having a same sex experience. Did you misread my post? quote: I can deal with a guy who treats his cum like biohazard....but it drives me crazy if he does that.....yet expects me to have no qualms about me sticking my head into another woman's pussy. C'mon guys....at least don't be hypocrites if I say I don't want to do it. Date different guys.... In my last post I told you you are displaying misguided indignation because not all guys are what you insist on making them out to be. If you've had these experiences you may need to be clearer about the fact you are strictly heterosexual and monogamous before getting into a relationship with someone who expects you to go down on another woman. My not liking semen... Is not hypocrisy... I'll give an example using "the male body" instead of semen. I do not find the male body attractive, the woman I am with would as a necessity, need to find the male body attractive or we would not be sexually compatible. Because to be in a sexual relationship with me, she would need to find my body attractive. I have a male body. I require my partner to find the male body attractive. Because that is what's required for us to have a healthy sexual relationship. My needing her to find the male body attractive whilst I simultaneously find the female body attractive. ... Is sexual compatibility. And my not finding the male body attractive, is my preference. And it doesn't seem to have anything to do with her liking or disliking the female body. I think you're misunderstanding me. Let me ask you...., you say that you insist on a partner who will give you oral, and if she doesn't then you aren't compatible. I understand that completely.... It makes sense and I don't have a problem giving my man a BJ....at all. What I'm asking is .... Do you also insist that your lady be sexually intimate with other women and give other women oral sex?

TenderTorment -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 3:13:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff quote: ORIGINAL: TenderTorment I've tasted my own, both from a kiss and direct from the furry cup so to speak, but then again I was in a relationship for 18 years that was vibrant and healthy and in that circumstance there's not much you don't do at least once, did I enjoy it? simply, yes, why wouldn't I? In that moment, at that time she could have been filled with battery acid and I'd still have dived in. What is with all the sexy romantics ??!! The Men on this thread ROCK!!!!!! Lol I always tend to romanticise fond memories, naff all romantic about it at the time mind you :P hot and messy yep, romantic nope

Blonderfluff -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 3:23:13 PM)
Hot and messy IS romantic in my world. I stand by my compliment. ;)

TenderTorment -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 3:26:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff Hot and messy IS romantic in my world. I stand by my compliment. ;) And I still carry the smile it brought, so for that, thank you fair lady :)

smileforme50 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 4:09:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 smileforme50, quote: ORIGINAL: smileforme50 But why isn't a woman allowed to feel (essentially) the same way? You can feel however you want smile, if you don't like it don't do it. Everyone of my long term partners has swallowed, and if they didn't, then they didn't make it to long term. In my case, if you don't like doing it, then we are not compatible. One of my partners said I tasted "pepperminty" so that may be a factor in me finding that most girls will swallow without much drama. I'm not under any delusions, obviously there are a lot of girls would find it gross (I've only met three but I'm assuming there are more). However, its a personal preference and there are a lot of girls that do like doing it... Aries....Aries....Aries.... Ok....you're not understanding what I"m talking about. I'm NOT talking about my having a dislike of giving a man oral sex. I enjoy giving a man pleasure that way. Hell...believe it or not...I even swallow! All the time!! Just like fluff does!! Ok....do we have that point out of the way? Clear? What I'm talking about is a Dom who wants his female sub to give another WOMAN oral sex.....when she is 100% heterosexual and had NO interest in doing it. Ok...yes...I also understand that I don't have to do anything I don't want to do. I also understand that if a Dom wants me to do things that are beyond my hard limits, then he isn't right for me and I will look for another Dom. So yes....I do understand that I would never have to do it if I really didn't want to. What I AM talking about is just this whole idea that so many STRAIGHT MEN seem so fixated on the idea of a women going down on another woman.....when at the same time, the mere thought of them giving another man a blow job freaks them out and they would treat the cum of another man as biohazard. And I think it is very hypocritical....and it irritates the hell out of me. So there's the question I am asking....yes...you insist that your woman gives YOU oral sex or else the relationship would never last....but do you also insist that she play with other women?? And if you do.....you're telling me that you want her to do this even though you think of another man's cum as "biohazard".....but she's not allowed to think of another woman's pussy in the same way? Does that make more sense now?

smileforme50 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 4:18:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TenderTorment I've tasted my own, both from a kiss and direct from the furry cup so to speak, but then again I was in a relationship for 18 years that was vibrant and healthy and in that circumstance there's not much you don't do at least once, did I enjoy it? simply, yes, why wouldn't I? In that moment, at that time she could have been filled with battery acid and I'd still have dived in. Now THAT'S what I like to hear!!! [sm=banana.gif]

FieryOpal -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 5:58:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smileforme50 <snip> What I AM talking about is just this whole idea that so many STRAIGHT MEN seem so fixated on the idea of a women going down on another woman.....when at the same time, the mere thought of them giving another man a blow job freaks them out and they would treat the cum of another man as biohazard. And I think it is very hypocritical....and it irritates the hell out of me. So there's the question I am asking....yes...you insist that your woman gives YOU oral sex or else the relationship would never last....but do you also insist that she play with other women?? And if you do.....you're telling me that you want her to do this even though you think of another man's cum as "biohazard".....but she's not allowed to think of another woman's pussy in the same way? Does that make more sense now? Makes perfect sense to us gals...but not so much to them or the little head they're thinking with at the time. That crap of "It's the Master's Right" aside, I had a partner once who read too much Penthouse Forum regularly. He was vanilla, but I've always "owned" my man since way back when, so he knew in no uncertain terms no f/m/f was going to materialize in this universe or any other alternate universe. He kept bringing up how he wanted to see another guy and me do one another. I told him, You first, or After you. That eventually shut him and his voyeuristic foolishness up. [:D]

ExiledTyrant -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 6:21:30 PM)
FieryOpal, I think you have a typo. Jus sayin Exiled

smileforme50 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 7:01:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wittynamehere Bit odd to hear submissives suggest that dominants should be willing to do things they don't want to do, or stop expecting submissives to do things they don't want to do. Do they know what "to submit" means? I mean it has a dictionary definition, they could check it out... quote: ORIGINAL: smileforme50 how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? My own, as a curious teen. Tasted a bit like salty mucous. Which makes sense, after all, since that's what it is. Please see ET's statement above about "limits"..... But then....if you noticed the title of the thread, my comment isn't about what a Dom wants a sub to do. My issue is what MEN....regardless of whether they are Dom, sub, vanilla or some other flavor want WOMEN to do. But then these same MEN would never even consider doing the equivalent themselves.

FieryOpal -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/18/2014 7:44:36 PM)
Just to clarify, since I may have dropped a sentence or phrase above, my partner knew there was no way in hell I would participate in a threesome/three-way with a woman, so he moved on to what he thought might spark my interest, having one with a man instead. He tried to present it as something that would be more pleasurable to me, but it wasn't, not one iota. [:'(] I'm only wired for monogamy.

ARIES83 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 2:57:56 AM)
quote: Do you also insist that your lady be sexually intimate with other women and give other women oral sex? I don't care about it, haven't asked a partner to do it, and it has nothing to do with the OP of this thread. quote: Aries....Aries....Aries.... Ok....you're not understanding what I"m talking about. What I'm talking about is a Dom who wants his female sub to give another WOMAN oral sex.....when she is 100% heterosexual and had NO interest in doing it. Tell me why you feel the following bolded reply doesn't address that. Or why it shows me misunderstanding something. "Date different guys.... In my last post I told you you are displaying misguided indignation because not all guys are what you insist on making them out to be. If you've had these experiences you may need to be clearer about the fact you are strictly heterosexual and monogamous before getting into a relationship with someone who expects you to go down on another woman. " The fact is this isn't what you OP is asking. quote: Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? If a man wants to be with a woman, who's gives him oral sex and will swallow his cum. The only double standard would be if he was not willing to do the corresponding act on the woman. A man who would prefer not to swallow his own, or another man's cum... Does not translate into the bisexual double standard that you are now focusing on. If you can't see that, explain to me what about that statement you are having trouble with. The idea the woman should perform a heterosexual act on him, and so he should be willing to perform a homosexual act is a faulty argument. If you can't see that, explain to me what about that statement you are having trouble with. quote: So there's the question I am asking....yes...you insist that your woman gives YOU oral sex or else the relationship would never last....but do you also insist that she play with other women?? And if you do..... you're telling me that you want her to do this even though you think of another man's cum as "biohazard".....but she's not allowed to think of another woman's pussy in the same way? To answer the part I bolded in the above quote. I don't insist on that. I recommend you and anyone happening to read this discard their generalisations and try to see the opposite sex as a group of individuals of varying quality and compatibility in relation to yourself. Stereotyping most males as displaying some behaviour you feel is hypocritical isn't a healthy point of view. Does it make you feel smarter or superior in some way? Stereotyping either sex with any behaviour is immature, it's in the same vein as the idea, of all women being bad drivers etc... These ideas have nothing to do with D/s as some people have suggested.

FightingChains -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 3:22:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 The idea the woman should perform a heterosexual act on him, and so he should be willing to perform a homosexual act is a faulty argument. Hmmm tasting your own cum is a homosexual act? I thought homosexual acts required two people of the same sex. If a homosexual act is doing something yourself, alone, then isn't masturbation a homosexual act too?

ARIES83 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 3:38:50 AM)
I see regularly swallowing a load of another man's cum to be a homosexual act. I see regularly swallowing a load of your own cum to have homosexual connotations. I see regularly licking it of your hands after you masturbate as asked in the OP to possible show a lack of qualms regarding semen, but also possibly having homosexual connotations. (What's wrong with washing your hands?) I see regularly tasting it, to be entirely dependant on the circumstances. I find the idea that masturbation is homosexual to be asinine.

FightingChains -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 3:45:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 I see regularly swallowing a load of another man's cum to be a homosexual act. I see regularly swallowing a load of your own cum to have homosexual connotations. I see regularly licking it of your hands after you masturbate as asked in the OP to possible show a lack of qualms regarding semen, but also possibly having homosexual connotations. (What's wrong with washing your hands?) I see regularly tasting it, to be entirely dependant on the circumstances. I find the idea that masturbation is homosexual to be asinine. The OP asked if anyone had tasted it. She didn't specify it had to be regularly, though I'll admit she did mention that as a possibility. I agree, the idea that masturbation is homosexual is asinine, and that was my point. I didn't mean to attack you, but you seemed to be focusing on the "regular bit" but I thought her question was more broad than that, and I was meaning only trying it once.

ARIES83 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 3:47:59 AM)
quote: Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? Do you routinely lick your fingers after you masturbate? This is the OP. It doesn't take much effort to go back and check what it says yourself. I am focusing on the "regular" because you can't make any judgements from random, fleeting or experimental behaviour.

smileforme50 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 3:48:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 I see regularly swallowing a load of another man's cum to be a homosexual act. I see regularly swallowing a load of your own cum to have homosexual connotations. I see regularly licking it of your hands after you masturbate as asked in the OP to possible show a lack of qualms regarding semen, but also possibly having homosexual connotations. (What's wrong with washing your hands?) I see regularly tasting it, to be entirely dependant on the circumstances. I find the idea that masturbation is homosexual to be asinine. And my questiion is.....why do MEN insist that they want to watch WOMEN perfoming a "homosexual act" when they themselves can't bring themselves to also perform homosexual act? THAT is a double standard. How can you not see that???

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