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smileforme50 -> RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there....Dom, sub and switch (3/19/2014 4:01:13 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ARIES83
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Do you also insist that your lady be sexually intimate with other women and give other women oral sex?
I don't care about it, haven't asked a partner to do it, and it has nothing to do with the OP of this thread.
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Aries....Aries....Aries....
Ok....you're not understanding what I"m talking about.
What I'm talking about is a Dom who wants his female sub to give another WOMAN oral sex.....when she is 100% heterosexual and had NO interest in doing it.
Tell me why you feel the following bolded reply doesn't address that.
Or why it shows me misunderstanding something.
"Date different guys.... In my last post I told you you are displaying misguided indignation because not all guys are what you insist on making them out to be. If you've had these experiences you may need to be clearer about the fact you are strictly heterosexual and monogamous before getting into a relationship with someone who expects you to go down on another woman. "
The fact is this isn't what you OP is asking.
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Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum?
If a man wants to be with a woman, who's gives him oral sex and will swallow his cum. The only double standard would be if he was not willing to do the corresponding act on the woman.
A man who would prefer not to swallow his own, or another man's cum... Does not translate into the bisexual double standard that you are now focusing on.
If you can't see that, explain to me what about that statement you are having trouble with.
The idea the woman should perform a heterosexual act on him, and so he should be willing to perform a homosexual act is a faulty argument.
If you can't see that, explain to me what about that statement you are having trouble with.
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So there's the question I am asking....yes...you insist that your woman gives YOU oral sex or else the relationship would never last....but do you also insist that she play with other women?? And if you do..... you're telling me that you want her to do this even though you think of another man's cum as "biohazard".....but she's not allowed to think of another woman's pussy in the same way?
To answer the part I bolded in the above quote. I don't insist on that. I recommend you and anyone happening to read this discard their generalisations and try to see the opposite sex as a group of individuals of varying quality and compatibility in relation to yourself.
Stereotyping most males as displaying some behaviour you feel is hypocritical isn't a healthy point of view. Does it make you feel smarter or superior in some way? Stereotyping either sex with any behaviour is immature, it's in the same vein as the idea, of all women being bad drivers etc...
These ideas have nothing to do with D/s as some people have suggested.
My original question is:
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Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? Do you routinely lick your fingers after you masturbate?
I don't think I stereotyped at all....I didn't say anything about ALL men or even MOST men. I said "considering how many". Plus....if I was making that stereotypical generalization I wouldn't have asked you "do you also insist that she play with other women?"....I would have just simply assumed that you do.
I think you are being a little oversensitive about thia and are just bringing more creed to what ET said earlier:
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You'll find that many aren't secure enough in their sexuality, or do not want any misperception of their sexuality, and may think responding to you may imply sumthin or the other.
Remember these two things:
Male ego: Large, and fragile.
Dom ego: Fucking Hindenburg HUGE and brittle enough to be shattered by feather.
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