LadyConstanze -> RE: Can overeating be an addiction? (3/18/2014 8:38:16 AM)
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Have you ever considered that denying the possibility of food addiction is also denying a possibility of treatment? I don't think *I* have ever denied the possibility of food addiction, on the other hand, I don't really buy into that every person who's obese due to overeating has a food addiction. As for treatment, you can't treat a person who doesn't want to be treated. I've been a smoker for about 20 years, I was addicted, funny how nobody offered any sympathy, it takes a bit of effort to stop smoking. So I am terribly sorry if somebody who doesn't have a medical reason to be obese and just likes stuffing their face with junk food doesn't get the "poor you" treatment. It's up to them to start breaking the addiction. It was my responsibility to stop smoking, my body, my choice what I put into it. So why on earth should we all bend over backwards for the overeaters? There is help available, there is information out there. quote:
Obesity has many contributing factors; genetic, cultural, psychological, and physiological. Telling someone to "just stop eating so much" is about as effective as telling a woman "stop menstruating as it is inconvenient and your PMS annoys me". Oh wow, apparently menstruating is the same thing as voluntarily going to a shop, buying unhealthy food, opening your mouth and stuffing it in? Let's say your knowledge about the body and the functions is somewhat lacking. If somebody has problems with candida, changing their food also helps, it's not convenient but at the end of the day it's your own health and body. Again, somebody having medical problems and reacting is not the same as obesity by overeating. They can get help. You know I didn't stop smoking by claiming I have a medical condition, I stopped smoking by stopping to light cigarettes. If overeating is an addiction, breaking the addiction helps, counting calories, self discipline, help is available everywhere, reading labels and avoiding fast food joints takes will power. Addiction isn't like menstruating, addiction is breaking the cycle of addiction, nobody claimed it's easy, but the first step is that somebody needs to want it. I'm fed up with people who overeat playing the victim card, that's an insult to people who have valid medical reasons. Somebody wants to eat him or herself to death, it's not my place to step in and stop them, just like it's not my place if I see a smoker or somebody drinking to go up and tell them that what they are doing is not good for them and try to take their cigarette or booze away. Somebody trying to do something about their weight should get a lot of help, all for it, but no they shouldn't get special rights (unless you are ready to have special seats for smokers, alcoholics, drug users), if it is an addiction, treat it like one, the first step has to be that the person needs to WANT to change, not mollycoddling them and enabling them with that mollycoddling. And I think it's damned important to make a difference between medical reasons and just being undisciplined. I'm always a bit stunned at the blatant hypocritical behaviour different addictions are treated, the person addicted to nicotine gets told to "stop smoking" yet the person who voluntarily goes to McD and stuffs his or her face with supersized menus, oh no, the same doesn't apply, that would be "cruel". And before you jump at me, I hope I made it VERY clear that there is a massive difference between a medical reason (hormones, bacteria, medication, endocrines etc.) to "I like eating, I'm a comfort eater and I don't have the willpower to change things but I expect everybody to go out of their way so I can continue and not suffer any discomfort due to seats that are to small for me!"
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