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LadyPact -> I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 11:39:00 AM)
Don't tell Me what I want to hear. Tell Me what I need to hear. The subject: A cutting. I've done cuttings before. I don't think I've felt the same way. Why? I could blather on about loving him. The first submissive male that I was actually "in love" with. I know it's new territory for Me. How do you feel about cuttings and/or semi-permanent marks?

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 11:43:56 AM)
I would have it done. I know you know what you're doing - I might answer differently for a newcomer to the boards. I've never played with anyone I wasn't 'in love' with. For me pain and love and fear make an exciting and intimate combination. What and where, if you don't mind me being nosey?

Toysinbabeland -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 11:46:04 AM)
LP, You have cmail...

mnottertail -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 11:46:10 AM)
Regardless of how 'right' the world feels, love can be fleeting.....don't carve your real name into his dick, use a pseudonym. You can quote me. Ron

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 11:54:37 AM)
I was thinking next week. Downstairs. Since tk came along, it's a great set up down there. First of April, I suppose.....

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:02:14 PM)
I can't tell if you're just teasing me, but I meant where on the body.

ExiledTyrant -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:04:24 PM)
LP, clearly he is YOUR property, I don't think anyone, anywhere, is going to dispute that. However YOU want to play with YOUR toy is entirely up to YOU. I cannot settle your angst of a possible fuck up, no one here can... but I know someone that can, and he is in your sig line. Jus sayin Exiled

mnottertail -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:07:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I was thinking next week. Downstairs. Since tk came along, it's a great set up down there. First of April, I suppose..... Spell it out in big letters before you cut it, you dont want it to say 'mne. by L{' relax and have a nice bubble bath and a wine and a massage before you go at him, so the calmness reigns.

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:10:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders I can't tell if you're just teasing me, but I meant where on the body. I tend to pick the left breast.

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:12:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant LP, clearly he is YOUR property, I don't think anyone, anywhere, is going to dispute that. However YOU want to play with YOUR toy is entirely up to YOU. I cannot settle your angst of a possible fuck up, no one here can... but I know someone that can, and he is in your sig line. Jus sayin Exiled That's the thing. He's not.

ExiledTyrant -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:12:51 PM)
Beat him into cooperation. Jus sayin Exiled

MissImmortalPain -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:16:51 PM)
What you need to hear Mommy mode on You were in a long standing relationship that came to an end. I did that awhile ago too and like you there is a new boy in my life. If I came to you and asked...should I mark him? No really I love him, so should I do it? What would you say to me? Love is a great thing but it takes time to know for a fact that it is in fact Love. Don't get me wrong I am a big fan of marking people and I normally do it by hand with my fingernails (the boys call them war wounds) but it isn't something I do because I believe I am in love. I have to know for a fact that what we are both feeling is years, is truth, is always going to be there. I don't want to be the annoying wet blanket here, LP, but step back for a second and think about it. What advice would you give to someone else, someone new, that said they wanted to do this? In the end you are the one that will decide, and that is all cool and wonderful, but before you decide think long and hard about it. Is this forever, is it real, is it something you truly believe is worth marking another person over? Mommy mode off, twisted bitch mode back on If you do it....carve something pretty and bring back pictures.

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:19:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant Beat him into cooperation. Jus sayin Exiled More than willing to admit...... I'm a dick. A couple of weeks back, I pulled off this great energy scene. He'd have crawled through broken glass for Me just to sit at My feet after that. (How much do you want to bet that he's working on that toy right now?) I don't know why I want this so bad. I really don't. But it's in My thoughts...

MissToYouRedux -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:28:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I don't know why I want this so bad. I really don't. But it's in My thoughts... You've been talking about your move from AK. Will he be coming with? Might that have something to do with your want of permanence on his body, semi or otherwise?

ExiledTyrant -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:29:19 PM)
Because you are a D, his ass (and the rest of him) is yours, and he's lucky your name isn't Hasbro, because I would give him no end of HELL for having that stamped on his ass. Darlin, you're a different kind of creature, rather unique in your leather, so this does not surprise me in the least bit. One of the things that pulls me to you is how simpatico we are. I understand the "Mine" very well, and like you, I will do all things necessary, even above and beyond, for "Mine", but I need to own it. Jus sayin Exiled

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:33:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain What you need to hear Mommy mode on You were in a long standing relationship that came to an end. I did that awhile ago too and like you there is a new boy in my life. If I came to you and asked...should I mark him? No really I love him, so should I do it? What would you say to me? Love is a great thing but it takes time to know for a fact that it is in fact Love. Don't get me wrong I am a big fan of marking people and I normally do it by hand with my fingernails (the boys call them war wounds) but it isn't something I do because I believe I am in love. I have to know for a fact that what we are both feeling is years, is truth, is always going to be there. I don't want to be the annoying wet blanket here, LP, but step back for a second and think about it. What advice would you give to someone else, someone new, that said they wanted to do this? In the end you are the one that will decide, and that is all cool and wonderful, but before you decide think long and hard about it. Is this forever, is it real, is it something you truly believe is worth marking another person over? Mommy mode off, twisted bitch mode back on If you do it....carve something pretty and bring back pictures. If you asked Me honestly, I'd say reach out for the brass ring. It might be the only chance you ever get. What advice would I give? I would say "get an education" first. I've done that. It's not a frivolous whim. I know it is My decision. If it wasn't, it wouldn't trouble Me.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:38:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I don't know why I want this so bad. I really don't. But it's in My thoughts... [/color] Might it have something to do with moving? Is he going with you? If not, maybe it is comforting for you to know he has something permanent to remember you by. Perhaps you might be feeling somewhat territorial. Only you can know your motivations. Years ago, I hand-cut a sextant in sterling silver and made it into a ring. It was my totem; my personal mark. It was all about direction and finding the way. Unfortunately, in the heat of the 'so in love' moment, I gave it to the wrong guy. Now I'm really sorry I did, and I miss that talisman every single day.

angelikaJ -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:38:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders I can't tell if you're just teasing me, but I meant where on the body. I tend to pick the left breast. Maybe you could consider a different spot then... ?

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:40:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant Because you are a D, his ass (and the rest of him) is yours, and he's lucky your name isn't Hasbro, because I would give him no end of HELL for having that stamped on his ass. Darlin, you're a different kind of creature, rather unique in your leather, so this does not surprise me in the least bit. One of the things that pulls me to you is how simpatico we are. I understand the "Mine" very well, and like you, I will do all things necessary, even above and beyond, for "Mine", but I need to own it. Jus sayin Exiled This is why I'm wrestling with this.

theshytype -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 12:42:44 PM)
I'm not sure what you want to hear, or what you think you need to hear. I'm good with "if you have to ask if it's a good idea, then it's probably not". Just because that's the way I am. I am not good with permanent marks or scars. I don't have any tattoos (went in for one years ago, chickened out due to the permanent nature, came out with a tongue piercing instead). At that point, any tattoo I would have gotten would have had no meaning, no reason, no story or memory behind it. However, if I love someone a lot, I can tell myself all the good reasons for a permanent mark and won't have to try to convince myself. That permanent mark becomes meaningful and is the reason I'd be okay with it.

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