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LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/24/2014 10:52:03 PM)
Of course, dear. I'm not qualified in cell popping.

cloudboy -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 12:39:30 PM)
Would not be an issue for me, it is a hard limit (against.) The rational side of my brain is controlling here -- rare for men, I know.

mnottertail -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 12:44:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Of course, dear. I'm not qualified in cell popping. Ah for fucks sake, practice on bubble wrap, it aint no big thang.

Kana -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 2:16:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I want everyone to know that I appreciate their responses. Good, bad, or indifferent, I know I needed to hear them. I never want you guys to sugar coat stuff for Me. Unlike some, I want to know what you really think, rather than pat Me on the head. People come here, at least semi-frequently, to ask if they should get the mark/tattoo/whatever. Giving that mark? That's a huge responsibility to Me. I don't do such things lightly. For what it's worth, I haven't quite come to a decision yet. As much as I want this particular scene, I know My responsibilities. I'm not going to run out and do anything stupid. Wanting something and doing it are two different things. A question and some comments. -Does this have to be a permanent thing or can it be a nice cut with a sharp sharp scalpel that will linger for a long time, then fade? Or a lighter brand, one that will heal? Why not go part way and see how things play out? -Ain't it awful when you wanna wanna wanna do a thing and you're stuck on the fence? I mean, I dunno bout you but I get these things caught in my head-they just bounce around for days. I can picture it. I can taste it. I can hear the screams. I play the scene out a hundred million ways, prep it from every possible angle. All in my head. It's a high in itself, just dwelling on it. Fuck-sometimes it sucks to be responsible. -Ordinarily I'd be like, "Fuck yes," but you're about to uproot your entire life, lots of things are gonna change, you're coming out of the flip side of an LTR gone south and you've got emotions involved in the decision making process. That's not the best of combinations to go do some serious work from. -If it's really love, what's the hurry? You have the rest of your life to do it? -As a rule of thumb for life, if I have to try to rationalize the act beforehand or justify it ex post facto, I probably shouldn't have done it? Not saying either is happening for you, but for me, I let these things flow. I hate to sound all incense sniffing hanging out in the bathroom with some crystals and candles hippie BS, but if these things are right, when it's time, the act will flow. You won't have to fight or debate it because it will be right as rain. -All that said,ahhhhh, fuck it. You're a true sadistic bitch.* The slave knew what he was signing on for. If you want to hurt him, do your damndest. Cut that fucker up in a scene that Alaskans will be talking about for decades. Give him the worst/best night of his life and one he'll fruitlessly chase after you move.Be the ghost that haunts his fantasies and nightmares.Ruin his shit for anyone else forever. WTF else is property for? True love. Ain't it grand *meant in absolutely the most respectful, appreciative and complimentary way. Truly

LadyConstanze -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 2:23:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Don't tell Me what I want to hear. Tell Me what I need to hear. The subject: A cutting. I've done cuttings before. I don't think I've felt the same way. Why? I could blather on about loving him. The first submissive male that I was actually "in love" with. I know it's new territory for Me. How do you feel about cuttings and/or semi-permanent marks? Well, we had conversations in private before, we both like edge play, however, semi-permanent is OK, permanent, you got to ask yourself if you will "always" be together, if that is not the case, then I would do something that can easily be explained and looks "innocent" - you don't know where life is taking him and while I understand wanting to leave a memory for both of you, make it one that isn't going to mess with his life in the future.

KnightofMists -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 2:38:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I will give My sincerest apologies. Last year, I didn't know what it was like to be "in love" with a submissive man before. Things are different now. OK, this right here has all the ring of a giddy schoolgirl. On the strength of this alone I'd strongly urge at least a mandatory moratorium for a month or two. Like others, I have a lot of faith in your judgement but man, even Carol said, "This isn't boding well" -- not about the cutting, just about how giddy you seem and the impact that makes on anyone's decision making processes. Also, Ishtar's response has a lot of wisdom in it. Ditto...... I done the cutting thing.... Both Kyra and alandra have crossed swords on their right thigh.... Actually I need to touch both of them since they both had it done years ago. Danielle yet to has my mark on her. Yup... I think about putting it on her!. A lot somedays. She has been in my life for about eight months now and I love her very deeply.. But not ready to put the mark on her yet... May when a year has past. Maybe when we four are under one roof on a constant basis. Not exactly sure when... But I know it will happen. In the mean time... I will do some recutting on the girls... Let Danielle see it happen... Help with the task... Watch it heal... And see that refreshed mark that both Kyra and Alandra wear with pride. To me... This is not just an emotional decision! It's more like knowing the sun comes up tomorrow. No doubts... It's just a statement of fact. I put the mark on Alandra and Kyra.... Yup... I love them... Yup.... They are mine... Yup it's a statement of fact. But each to their own..... But I must say that I rather regret that I didn't do it sooner than regret that I did it. So.... I wait to be sure... That I will never regret that they wear my mark! Or that they regret wearing it either.

sunshinemiss -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 3:53:58 PM)
Unless you have put his name on the deed to your house, no. Unless you share a bank a count, no. Unless he's lived with you and gone past the itchy phase where everything is irritating, no. If you don't offer him that much of you, why would you take so much of him... that is ... you are stealing his future body. Forever, he will have to answer questions if you are no longer together. You could be paired with regret every time he takes his clothes off if you split. I speak from experience. You sound, Lady Pact, like you are in the midst of Top Frenzy.

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 4:23:23 PM)
It's been a while since I posted something that I felt needed a warning disclaimer. Some folks may want to pass this one by. quote: ORIGINAL: Kana A question and some comments. -Does this have to be a permanent thing or can it be a nice cut with a sharp sharp scalpel that will linger for a long time, then fade? Or a lighter brand, one that will heal? Why not go part way and see how things play out? -Ain't it awful when you wanna wanna wanna do a thing and you're stuck on the fence? I mean, I dunno bout you but I get these things caught in my head-they just bounce around for days. I can picture it. I can taste it. I can hear the screams. I play the scene out a hundred million ways, prep it from every possible angle. All in my head. It's a high in itself, just dwelling on it. Fuck-sometimes it sucks to be responsible. -Ordinarily I'd be like, "Fuck yes," but you're about to uproot your entire life, lots of things are gonna change, you're coming out of the flip side of an LTR gone south and you've got emotions involved in the decision making process. That's not the best of combinations to go do some serious work from. -If it's really love, what's the hurry? You have the rest of your life to do it? -As a rule of thumb for life, if I have to try to rationalize the act beforehand or justify it ex post facto, I probably shouldn't have done it? Not saying either is happening for you, but for me, I let these things flow. I hate to sound all incense sniffing hanging out in the bathroom with some crystals and candles hippie BS, but if these things are right, when it's time, the act will flow. You won't have to fight or debate it because it will be right as rain. -All that said,ahhhhh, fuck it. You're a true sadistic bitch.* The slave knew what he was signing on for. If you want to hurt him, do your damndest. Cut that fucker up in a scene that Alaskans will be talking about for decades. Give him the worst/best night of his life and one he'll fruitlessly chase after you move.Be the ghost that haunts his fantasies and nightmares.Ruin his shit for anyone else forever. WTF else is property for? True love. Ain't it grand meant in absolutely the most respectful, appreciative and complimentary way. Truly I put the bold in to address a few things. Yes, dagnabbit, sometimes, it does suck to be responsible. I think it's why I started this thread. That whole "think with the head and not with the genitals" thing. You're absolutely right that what I've created in My head is only working to add to the 'it turns Me on' part, so I thought at least spitting it out would stop what's banging around between My ears. That was probably a bad turn of phrase. I don't want anybody thinking it hasn't been discussed between him and I. It has been for some time now. It's not a new subject. I wouldn't be talking about it here if it hadn't been discussed at home, first. The desire isn't about a permanent mark. It's about the blood play. I know that you (along with RS and a few others on the top side) KNOW* what kind of desire can bring out in a sadist and just how erotic that can be. While I know it's not My normal MO to be so outspoken about My sex life, blood is an awesome aphrodisiac and trips My trigger in ways that I can't even put on this board. Our sex life is already ridiculously amazing. Add blood play and I'm probably going to loose My mind. General answers to various questions. While other folks might feel differently, I consider all cuttings to be at least semi-permanent marks. Yes, it's going to fade. At the same time, yes, it's going to be there for a while. I don't fluid bond with a lot of people. For what I want out of this, being fluid bonded is pretty much a requirement. It is about tasting the blood, having mind blowing sex, and screaming with orgasms that would frighten the demons in hell. If you read the post and such things gross you out, in all fairness, I did warn you first. Edited to add the "at least" up there.

KnightofMists -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 4:46:07 PM)
Cutting is not the only way to get the blood... And it can be done without significant risk to marking... Or at least minimal in size. Ie... I beat Kyra with a barbecue brush on several occasions..... Covered her in blood on occasions.... Mmmm tastes good too! Of course there are other ways too! Being about the blood.... Hell that is a no brainier in my eyes. But you looking to to cut... Well then you run the risk of permenant markings... Maybe it will fade... Maybe not.

ARIES83 -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 4:54:13 PM)
I'm surprised the BBQ brush didn't leave marks. Ouch.

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 5:16:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists Cutting is not the only way to get the blood... And it can be done without significant risk to marking... Or at least minimal in size. Ie... I beat Kyra with a barbecue brush on several occasions..... Covered her in blood on occasions.... Mmmm tastes good too! Of course there are other ways too! Being about the blood.... Hell that is a no brainier in my eyes. But you looking to to cut... Well then you run the risk of permenant markings... Maybe it will fade... Maybe not. Dammit. Stop that! LOL. Joking aside, I know that risk always exists. If I'm going for blood, I do want a sterile instrument. (I'm covered there.) I considered stitching during needles but I really don't want to go there. We had to work with needles to get him where he is now and I don't want to loose ground in that area. Those scenes are way too good. Yes, I'm talking real minimum in size, here. Nothing big in the event it would remain longer than expected.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 5:16:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Regardless of how 'right' the world feels, love can be fleeting.....don't carve your real name into his dick, use a pseudonym. You can quote me. Ron Hahahahahahahaha

LadyPact -> RE: Changing the thread title - Do not read if you are sensitive to the subject of blood play (3/25/2014 5:34:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Unless you have put his name on the deed to your house, no. Unless you share a bank a count, no. Unless he's lived with you and gone past the itchy phase where everything is irritating, no. If you don't offer him that much of you, why would you take so much of him... that is ... you are stealing his future body. Forever, he will have to answer questions if you are no longer together. You could be paired with regret every time he takes his clothes off if you split. I speak from experience. You sound, Lady Pact, like you are in the midst of Top Frenzy. I had to address this one. For what it's worth, I don't think Top frenzy or even NRE are bad things. Now, if I were being rash and just running out and doing things, yeah, you'd probably be right. I think your post balances out Ishtar's. Both of which, I appreciate a great deal. I want to hear both sides. I find it wonderful to hear the perspectives from those who see a mark in a completely different way. It's not that I'm not sorry that you feel that way about yours, because I really do wish it wasn't like that for you. Somehow, that's coming across as awful and that is not My intent. Here's what's funny, though. MP and I don't share a bank account. We never have and we've been married for twelve years. Edited to change the thread title on the scroll.

GoddessManko -> RE: Changing the thread title - Do not read if you are sensitive to the subject of blood play (3/25/2014 10:02:00 PM)
I think after it's all said and done, you'll think things through and make the best decision for you and all. You're one of the extremely few Dom/D ommes I would trust with a wide range of play including semi/permanent marks. Personally I admire your reaching out for advice and input. I would have had it all done by now. For me it would definitely be more about the symbolic ownership than the blood itself. I'm very possessive with my toys and I like making a bit of a mess, lol. Sounds exciting and hope you enjoy it LadyP. :-) I think the interesting part of being D is beyond pushing a sub's limits, it is pushing our own. :-)

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Changing the thread title - Do not read if you are sensitive to the subject of blood play (3/25/2014 11:20:29 PM)
For once, I'm also with GM. You are probably one of the most level-headed and sensible people on these boards, LP. Thrash it out in your head. Spin the ping-pong ball. I'm pretty sure you'll come out with something that fits everyone in your dynamic.

crazyml -> RE: Changing the thread title - Do not read if you are sensitive to the subject of blood play (3/25/2014 11:34:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessManko I think the interesting part of being D is beyond pushing a sub's limits, it is pushing our own. :-) Kerching!

crazyml -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/25/2014 11:41:37 PM)
What Kana said, plus... I'd say take some time to reflect on where this urge is coming from. Think about your recent journey, and how that might affect your needs and wants. I'll admit that I'm another person who is getting a little bit of an NRE vibe, and I think you need to find yourself in a place where you're comfortable with why you want to cut. Once you're there, the question will answer itself. But, I suspect that this advice is moot, since that's probably something you're working on already. I think that when you make the decision, it will be the right one for you.

KnightofMists -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/26/2014 5:51:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yes, I'm talking real minimum in size, here. Nothing big in the event it would remain longer than expected. [/color] So cutting a big rose across his entire back like I did to alandra is out of the question then... ;). Mmmmmmm the blood... Dripping slowly... Pooling at the delicious cuts... A taste here and there... So very sweet... Ie... Make sure a few hours before he has some chocolate, apple juice... Makes the blood sweeter ;)

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (3/26/2014 6:30:13 AM)
FR: I think it's too soon in the relationship. As Kana pointed out, if it's going to last, what's the hurry? As a sub I wouldn't agree without knowing the dom for much longer, like years.

LadyPact -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (4/15/2014 2:32:49 PM)
Yes. Some of you folks are about to be really disappointed in me. Hate me or love me. I wanted it. Terribly. To the point that I knew I wanted it so bad that I knew I had to step away. And then, he came to me....... It wasn't about the mark. It was about the intimacy. Something I've never had before. I've never had that element. So, for those who are wondering..... Yes, we did. It looks nothing like I've ever put on someone else. Something, in there, somewhere, said don't do it the same. So, I made block letters. Nobody else can see it. But I can. And, yes, he tasted amazing. He asked to kiss me with his blood in my mouth. It was so beautiful...... I know. I know what's going to happen now.

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