FightingChains -> RE: I sooooo want to do this. (4/15/2014 9:58:48 PM)
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Not at all, LP. That was a mutual decision, and that was great. To be honest, love the idea myself. Really sexy. Judge not lest ye be judged. [:)] But I do want to commend you for stepping back. You left a void for him to step into if he wanted, and he did. I think an element some players can miss is this stuff isn't just about consent, it's about wellbeing. Someone who consents but hates everything you do won't stay with you for long, and may be as scarred psychologically as if they had no consent. It leaves resentment and pain. Disliking some thing things but liking the overall experience is fine, but destroying someone's soul isn't really BDSM or D/s is it? You stepped back, let him come forward, and made a potentially life-long decision together with consent and desire from both. Extremely beautiful. I admire you for that. That's my 2 cents, anyway.
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