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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 8/14/2014 9:58:18 AM

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If someone who clicked Dom or Domme,Master, Mistress, whatever comes at me acting like an idiot they will be treated like one. Simple as that.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 8/14/2014 2:42:20 PM

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Ali, just because someone is a submissive, it does not mean he's your submissive. If he's not yours, you are not entitled to any more respect from him than anyone else who walks this planet. Plus, findommes receive a lot of abuse and insults, especially online. Not to be disrespectful(I know you hate that) but you might need to develop a thicker skin. Have a great day.

NBMG

Just passing by and this caught my attention. Is there any particular reason why you've massacred random words with a bold font?

Real Mean Girls hold all words in equal regard.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 8/14/2014 7:49:50 PM

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~ FR ~ [FYI, NBMG is now SweetlySadistic1 and may not see your post right away, No.Gent. I'm going to assume this was not merely a friendly ribbing between familiar posters.]

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Ali, just because someone is a submissive, it does not mean he's your submissive. If he's not yours, you are not entitled to any more respect from him than anyone else who walks this planet. Plus, findommes receive a lot of abuse and insults, especially online. Not to be disrespectful(I know you hate that) but you might need to develop a thicker skin. Have a great day.

NBMG

Just passing by and this caught my attention. Is there any particular reason why you've massacred random words with a bold font?

Real Mean Girls hold all words in equal regard.

Perhaps we can make this crystal clear, to those who profess to be The Voice(s) of Reason:

Just because someone is A submissive, it does NOT mean [she's/]he's YOUR [owned & collared] submissive; NOR does this mean YOU are his/her ipso facto Dominant, much less Mistress-Master.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 8/26/2014 11:38:51 AM

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As for all the comments claiming that a sub wouldn't dare talk down to a Dom in person. I act pretty much the same online as I do in real life. I've had strange Doms try to order me around at events and they get treated with the same amount of derision as the yahoos who show up in my inbox saying they're my new master.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 8/27/2014 9:43:32 AM

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I would hope that subs would speak down to Doms.

Without that, where would funishment be? Who would prick the over inflated egos that come along? And as you might have noticed, if a sub crosses a line that the Dom doesn't like, it tells you that they aren't the right person for you, and you can keep moving along.

Letting people be themselves is a fantastic form of education.

So true.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/3/2014 1:44:20 AM

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First , there is no real subs. The only real sub would be who from birth , all his/her choses were controlled, till he/she grown up. Then even as an adult , that person whould not chose by his/her own will and would try to somebody else to chose.
Secondly, think it like a game. For some being a sub is just for fun, like a game. You know kids fight and argue that they want to play the game like this and not that. That applies to adult too and there mature/adult fun. There are some adult that wont to have fun like this and not like that, regardless what the other wants.
Thirdly, naming yourself a sub,pet,slave doesn't mean that he/she will play the role as how you want to. I know subs that are more submissive that some slaves.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/13/2014 7:26:35 PM

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Well for starters, you are awesome and if I may say, very gorgeous. Sorry haha, had to say that. Anywho, it really depends on the person. If they'd like to step away from their comfort zone, they could, but it's totally up to them. One shouldn't say what someone else can or can't do, even if they have an opinion, or unless it's someone's Dominant, but that's irrelevant.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/14/2014 12:41:54 AM

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If finwhoring is a fetish, can mocking finwhores be a fetish too?

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/14/2014 3:13:06 AM

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To the thread poster:

I see in your profile you have written: 'I enjoy getting pleased just because some loser wants to please me, and get nothing in return.'

Maybe if you alter your profile you may get a little more respect, after all it doesn't seem as if you aim high, you're stating yourself that you like 'losers' to please you

*shrugs*

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/14/2014 5:22:57 AM

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If finwhoring is a fetish, can mocking finwhores be a fetish too?

At last, I have found my favorite fetish!
Yes, mocking finwhores IS a fetish and therefore MUST be respected!
Right-on, Michael - you just made my day! :)

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/14/2014 7:00:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: ThatDaveGuy69

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If finwhoring is a fetish, can mocking finwhores be a fetish too?

At last, I have found my favorite fetish!
Yes, mocking finwhores IS a fetish and therefore MUST be respected!
Right-on, Michael - you just made my day! :)

I have no dog in this fight, but I hate to break the news to you fellas. You would need consent in order to fulfill your fetish. That consent will more than likely cost you.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/14/2014 12:32:42 PM

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I suspect the Venn diagram showing the real world and your fantasy world is two circles that aren't even close to touching.

I'm thinking that Venn diagram should be the logo for this place! There's a lot of that in here.

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a pompous windbag in person?

Now I'm wishing there was a pompous windbag orientation! I'd definitely choose that one...

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/14/2014 4:10:03 PM

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No, to fuck a finwhore I would just need cash but to hate one from afar? Nope, no consent needed. Sad thing is this site has long been lost to the finwhores but fetlife is going the same way, most of what is on K&P is either porn, finwhores, or sock puppets.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/15/2014 3:56:17 PM

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No, to fuck a finwhore I would just need cash but to hate one from afar? Nope, no consent needed. Sad thing is this site has long been lost to the finwhores but fetlife is going the same way, most of what is on K&P is either porn, finwhores, or sock puppets.

If the focus of your attention is on K&P, you're part of the problem.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/16/2014 4:35:49 PM

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respect is an earned thing.... just because someone says they are dom does not make them a dom .... and I don't have to be cool to them just because they say they are dom.... common courtesy goes both ways....

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/16/2014 5:41:00 PM

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I'm late to the party for this post... but here goes nothing...

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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

First , there is no real subs.

Really?

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The only real sub would be who from birth , all his/her choses were controlled, till he/she grown up. Then even as an adult , that person whould not chose by his/her own will and would try to somebody else to chose.

You are thinking of a mannequin.

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Secondly, think it like a game. For some being a sub is just for fun, like a game.

For some, not all. There are naturally submissive people all over the place and those who are very dedicated to being submissive in everything they do.

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You know kids fight and argue that they want to play the game like this and not that. That applies to adult too and there mature/adult fun. There are some adult that wont to have fun like this and not like that, regardless what the other wants.

When kids argue about the rules of cops and robbers, that is because they are playing a game with a concept. There are no hard and fast rules except those that are agreed upon. There are no hard and fast rules to BDSM either, it is a concept. It doesn't make the chosen dynamic any less valid because it doesn't mesh up with everyone else and their brand of BDSM, it simply makes it theirs.

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Thirdly, naming yourself a sub,pet,slave doesn't mean that he/she will play the role as how you want to. I know subs that are more submissive that some slaves.

That is why they make chocolate and vanilla ice cream. There are a variety of flavors that are more suitable for those that do not care for one particular flavor. We search for the one that mirrors our desires as closely as possible. Titles mean nothing, relationships between two people are what it is all about.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/16/2014 5:42:52 PM

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respect is an earned thing.... just because someone says they are dom does not make them a dom .... and I don't have to be cool to them just because they say they are dom.... common courtesy goes both ways....

Yes you do. Obey me. Now. OK... now. Now? Maybe now? How about now? Now?

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/26/2014 7:28:41 PM

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"Sub" like? I am only submissive to my Daddy, no one else. I will only give people basic respect until they give me reason to respect them/disrespect them. If he was asking you to do something you clearly stated you don't do, then tell him so and if he continues, cut off communication. It's not that hard.

Just because you call yourself a Dom/Domme/Master/mistress/Ladyhighkissmyass doesn't mean you are a super special snowflake.

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 9/26/2014 7:42:28 PM

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"Sub" like? I am only submissive to my Daddy, no one else. I will only give people basic respect until they give me reason to respect them/disrespect them. If he was asking you to do something you clearly stated you don't do, then tell him so and if he continues, cut off communication. It's not that hard.

Just because you call yourself a Dom/Domme/Master/mistress/Ladyhighkissmyass doesn't mean you are a super special snowflake.

That should pop up any time someone joins the site and clicks /s on their profile.

Jus sayin

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RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? - 10/2/2014 7:46:26 PM

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I don't know though, some of the very young 'I don't have to study or get a job, just call myself a findomme' types come across as special snowflakes who used to ride the short bus.

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