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Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 5:50:17 PM   
stebbinsd


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Status: offline 		I'm looking for a household of about two or three masochistic painsluts who I can use as human punching bags for exercise. Unfortunately, whenever I find a profile like that, they never even READ my message.

I'm assuming they have so many messages (after all, they're in really high demand) that they just hover their mouse to see if a message interests them at all.

So, what should I say to them at the start of the message to pigue their interest and get them to read and respond?
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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 6:12:22 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd
So, what should I say to them at the start of the message to pigue their interest and get them to read and respond?

There really isn't a "mascochistic script" out there that will guarantee you favor with the ladies. And to be honest,
why would you want to approach women using someone else's words? That's just...odd.

I'd say stick with what is authentic to you. You may be saying 1000 delightful things, but your radar might be a little
off on determining who might be attracted to you. I believe I read in an older post of yours that you aren't too
discriminatory in who you approach. I'm sure you're bound to get a nibble or 2 eventually.

Also, your profile starts off with stating that you'd rather not have to hit a girl. Then you go on to wanting human
punching bags. Perhaps the women you contact have taken notice of this inconsistency.

< Message edited by poise -- 4/26/2014 6:13:07 PM >

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 6:21:26 PM   
stebbinsd


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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd
So, what should I say to them at the start of the message to pigue their interest and get them to read and respond?

There really isn't a "mascochistic script" out there that will guarantee you favor with the ladies. And to be honest,
why would you want to approach women using someone else's words? That's just...odd.

I'd say stick with what is authentic to you. You may be saying 1000 delightful things, but your radar might be a little
off on determining who might be attracted to you. I believe I read in an older post of yours that you aren't too
discriminatory in who you approach. I'm sure you're bound to get a nibble or 2 eventually.

Also, your profile starts off with stating that you'd rather not have to hit a girl. Then you go on to wanting human
punching bags. Perhaps the women you contact have taken notice of this inconsistency.

A few things.

1. Who said anything about a "script" or using someone else's words? I'm just asking for what sort of things I should mention in my opening message.

2. What message do you recall where I said I'm not discriminatory? I agree with you; I'm just curious.

3. I don't consider my profile inconsistent. In that sentence, I specifically said "Masochism is good." See, when I said "I'm looking for a girl I don't have to hit," I was referencing her desire to serve and hatred for fucking up... I was talking about a girl I didn't have to hit for punishment, but someone who I could hit for exercise would be awesome.

Are you saying I should CLARIFY that in my profile? Because I will.

EDIT: Also, I don't think my profile is the problem. Most of them don't even open and read the messages I send, let alone look at my profile. Unless you're on the forums, you have to open someone's message BEFORE you can get a link to their profile.

THAT is what is only happening to me about 10% of the time.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 6:28:00 PM   
DominantWoman65


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Status: offline 		Call me crazy but perhaps women in general, masochist or not, feel that being a human punching bag is a huge turn off.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 6:31:42 PM   
stebbinsd


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ORIGINAL: DominantWoman65

Call me crazy but perhaps women in general, masochist or not, feel that being a human punching bag is a huge turn off.

No, I have found a few profiles on here that are like that. Here are just a few, to prove it:

[Moderator removed links to profiles.]


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 6:55:31 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd

A few things.

1. Who said anything about a "script" or using someone else's words? I'm just asking for what sort of things I should mention in my opening message.

Well let's see...you aren't getting the responses you want, so you want people who don't know anything about you except
that you want a human punching bag or three to suggest things to say to someone that they also don't know in order for you to get
your jollies. Hence, you want some magic script that someone else thinks up for you.


2. What message do you recall where I said I'm not discriminatory? I agree with you; I'm just curious.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4401281/mpage_1/tm.htm

3. I don't consider my profile inconsistent.
You may not find it inconsistent, but if I picked up on it in the few minutes it took to read it, I'm sure others have as well.

EDIT: Also, I don't think my profile is the problem. Most of them don't even open and read the messages I send, let alone look at my profile.
Unless you're on the forums, you have to open someone's message BEFORE you can get a link to their profile.
Just a heads up, but many women will actually open a new tab on the profile side to skim over your profile before deciding
whether or not they will respond. Those that haven't responded aren't interested. As I advised earlier, don't look for some magic
words to get attention. Be yourself.




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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 6:59:20 PM   
Chwilfrydig


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Status: offline 		Oh my, some days I wish I wasn't so curious...that last link was a doozy. "I am the best torture meat you will ever find and I dont complain or die."

I'm betting she's gonna want a big bundle of cash up front for being so accommodating.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:02:46 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantWoman65

Call me crazy but perhaps women in general, masochist or not, feel that being a human punching bag is a huge turn off.

No, I have found a few profiles on here that are like that. Here are just a few, to prove it:
(profile links removed)


Those profiles are either scams or men or both, they prove nothing.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:06:17 PM   
stebbinsd


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ORIGINAL: poise

Well let's see...you aren't getting the responses you want, so you want people who don't know anything about you except
that you want a human punching bag or three to suggest things to say to someone that they also don't know in order for you to get
your jollies. Hence, you want some magic script that someone else thinks up for you.

Wow... snappy!

You know, you may be used to talking that way to submissive men, since you're the authority in that relationship, but in case you haven't noticed, I'm a dom. I expect to be treated as an equal.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:06:42 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: Chwilfrydig

"I am the best torture meat you will ever find and I dont complain or die.

She sure knows how to make me feel less than stellar.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:08:16 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Well let's see...you aren't getting the responses you want, so you want people who don't know anything about you except
that you want a human punching bag or three to suggest things to say to someone that they also don't know in order for you to get
your jollies. Hence, you want some magic script that someone else thinks up for you.

Wow... snappy!

You know, you may be used to talking that way to submissive men, since you're the authority in that relationship, but in case you haven't noticed, I'm a dom. I expect to be treated as an equal.

Hahahahahahaha! Don't worry, when you are my equal, I will treat you as such.
Until then, you are here for advice. Take it or fuck off.


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:08:47 PM   
DominantWoman65


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Status: offline 		Uh oh, someone pulled out the I am dom card.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:11:27 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: DominantWoman65

Uh oh, someone pulled out the I am dom card.

It's probably going to hurt his ego just a teensy tiny bit more when he realizes I'm a submissive woman. Poor fella.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:15:34 PM   
DominantWoman65


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Status: offline 		I'm visualizing him jumping up and down screaming "but I'm the dominant" at his computer.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:15:58 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Well let's see...you aren't getting the responses you want, so you want people who don't know anything about you except
that you want a human punching bag or three to suggest things to say to someone that they also don't know in order for you to get
your jollies. Hence, you want some magic script that someone else thinks up for you.

Wow... snappy!

You know, you may be used to talking that way to submissive men, since you're the authority in that relationship, but in case you haven't noticed, I'm a dom. I expect to be treated as an equal.





Giving yourself an internet title is worth nothing and people aren't expected to treat you like anything in particular. If you want to be treated as someone or something special then I guess you'd have to do something that persuaded people to want to call you that particular something. How about Mr. Fluffy Pants? That could be an awesome title, I suppose to earn the title you'd have to have some pretty awesome and fluffy pants on.

Btw, Poise is a submissive, you'd want to know that since you asked to be treated like an equal.

Have you thought through what she's trying to tell you? There isn't any particular bait to toss out there to lure in a group of masochists that want to be punched, and the best thing to do is be yourself. Sounds pretty reasonable to me.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:17:35 PM   
Chwilfrydig


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ORIGINAL: poise
She sure knows how to make me feel less than stellar.




Well, if you screwed up and died, at least you wouldn't have to admit your mistake.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:25:21 PM   
bowedB4Women


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Call me crazy but perhaps women in general,
masochist or not, feel that being a human punching
bag is a huge turn off.


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Lmmfao! We have a winner!

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:26:26 PM   
DaddySatyr


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd

So, what should I say to them at the start of the message to pigue their interest and get them to read and respond?



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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:32:16 PM   
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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:37:04 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		If you want a "household" then you have to relate to those you are sending messages not as fetish delivery systems but actual human beings.
Engage them as women first.

At the moment you seem to be rather anemic in that ability.
You don't seem to be adept at engaging the women on this thread with a degree of respect that would have prospective pseudo-punching bags look upon this thread as a tempting beacon.

The good news is if you chose to work at it, you could change that impression.

Also, since you want to be treated as an equal by poise, perhaps you could treat her as an equal first?





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