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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:01:54 PM   
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Ummm no. Pic being shopped arround no crime...black male,extorsion = crime

In my country, if a woman send you her nude pics voluntarily, and you circulated it around and she reports you to the police that she did not give you permission to share her pictures in public, you go to jail, you will have to prove that she has given permission for you to distribute her pictures publicly. Even if you were the one who took her nude pictures and you distributed it, you also committed a crime. So yes it is a crime where I am from. Men has been prosecuted for this.


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That you view crimes against your gender sympathy worthy and not crimes against men is instructive.

I don't view crime against my gender with more sympathy at all. When it comes to rape, it's as bad with both men and women. When it comes to distribution of nude pictures, it's exactly the same. And my x-dom has my nude pictures, if he ever distributes them, I will bring the authorities on him, but I will also blame myself for allowing him to have them, it's my fault for making the wrong judgement in trusting him.



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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:04:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		So yes it is a crime where I am from. Men has been prosecuted for this.


It is also a crime to chew gum in your country.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:07:57 PM   
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It is also a crime to chew gum in your country.

It's not a crime to chew gum. It's a crime to sell gum that serves no dental or medical purposes. You can get gum from the pharmacy and chew them legally. Or you can buy gum from the US and bring it into Singapore and chew them legally.
Anyway, the no gum is a great rule. I notice Australia buses always got gum all over, and sometimes if you are unfortunate, it gets on your hair cuz some asshole stick it on the backrest of the bus seat. We don't have these problems and wasting taxpayers money to scrap off all the gum vandalism.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:18:57 PM   
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Sorry Greta, I am (reluctantly) with tommy on this one.

Why are you reluctant to be right?

Because, for once, you actually are right!

Unfortunately, Greta lives in a region where that level of clothing is considered very borderline scandalous, even on girls with little or no shape. In the western world, our 'scandalous' line is waaay more liberal than that.


Like the lady from India I was chatting to, her idea of downright sexy and virtually naked was to show a little band of midriff beneath her Sari. She couldn't understand why she wasn't getting snowed under with offers from western guys wanting to swoop her off her feet to be a slave girl. I had to explain in detail why the photo she posted just wasn't considered sexy or even remotely arousing or flattering in the western world.



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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:21:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Re the comparison to drunk girls at a party. My daughter's college orientation included safety tips. Such as don't leave your drink where it could get spiked. Do call Campus Safety to escort you home when intoxicated.

She walked into a party once just in time to see her unconscious friend being hauled into the back room. She broke in and found the guy with his pants half down and proceeded to beat the crap out of him. The cops had to pull her off.

Did the drunk friend deserve to be raped? No. Was she stupid to put herself into a situation where it might occur by getting drunk alone and leaving her drink unattended? Yes. Does she bear some personal responsibility for putting herself out there with a sign saying "easy victim" on her (metaphorically speaking)? Also yes.

If you drive down the road not paying attention to other drivers and get hit by a car when you could have stopped before they slammed into you, they get the ticket. But do that enough and you become an unsafe driver who will pay for not being a defensive driver through higher insurance rates. Assuming you don't qualify for a Darwin Award.

The world is not safe. You must assume that and act on that assumption. Not believe that everything will magically come out right when you do stupid things. It isn't a question of deserving to be a victim, it's a question of how are you trying to prevent being one.

Believing that young hot women are desperate to talk to you online when your real life experience has always been the opposite should set off a red flag in anyone's mind. Answering questions about where you work, ditto.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:21:49 PM   
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That is the answer to the question you asked as to what I thought constituted "scantilly clad"...it has little to do with anything else.

Yes, because the whole scantilly clad conversation started when you mentioned about women dressing in a certain way in clubs that could possibly cause them to get raped. I am wondering exactly what do they have to wear to be in that category.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:24:53 PM   
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Unfortunately, Greta lives in a region where that level of clothing is considered very borderline scandalous, even on girls with little or no shape. In the western world, our 'scandalous' line is waaay more liberal than that.

Actually the weird thing, I never notice how "scandalous" our local ladies are dressed until some European women from various, I thought extremely non-conservative places like Holland and England commented on it. And then I was surprise to hear that they claim ladies usually show cleavage there but not so much legs. *shrugs*, anyway, when I go Australia, their women dress exactly like our women, at clubs and at shopping malls, so..., all hot countries, women will dress skimpy to keep cool. And then Caucasian men also always comment that at work, although women wear power suits, but their skirts are always super short, just below butt cheek. It's quite normal here. Whereas apparently when western women dress in suits at work, they wear it at appropriate knee length, true or false? Because vast majority of women here like their skirts super short at work.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:29:10 PM   
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That is the answer to the question you asked as to what I thought constituted "scantilly clad"...it has little to do with anything else.

Yes, because the whole scantilly clad conversation started when you mentioned about women dressing in a certain way in clubs that could possibly cause them to get raped. I am wondering exactly what do they have to wear to be in that category.



That was tim not me.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:31:38 PM   
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I never feel any sort of sympathy for these men, they sound like idiots. Happens alot in my country too.


I see. So you don't have sympathy with people who make mistakes, or who are stupid, and they deserve to potentially have their lives ruined for it.

Gotcha.

I personally have lots of sympathy for them, in the same way I have sympathy for lung cancer victims who stupidly smoked, or stroke victims with terrible diets. For me, my sympathy comes from another persons suffering, not from my assessment of their intelligence or their "worthiness".

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:33:01 PM   
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Sorry Greta, I am (reluctantly) with tommy on this one.

Why are you reluctant to be right?

Because, for once, you actually are right!

The question was why you are reluctant to be right.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:34:18 PM   
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I never feel any sort of sympathy for these men, they sound like idiots. Happens alot in my country too.


I see. So you don't have sympathy with people who make mistakes, or who are stupid, and they deserve to potentially have their lives ruined for it.

Gotcha.

I personally have lots of sympathy for them, in the same way I have sympathy for lung cancer victims who stupidly smoked, or stroke victims with terrible diets. For me, my sympathy comes from another persons suffering, not from my assessment of their intelligence or their "worthiness".

I absolutely have zero sympathy for smokers who get lung cancer, they definitely deserve it. And my granddad who brought me up died of lung cancer, so I say that to my own family too. But as my grandpa said, if he didn't smoke, he'd be dead sooner haha, typical of him. His prepared for lung cancer and take full responsibility for it. And when he got it, he refused all treatment. He just took responsibility that he smoked, and this is what happened. Sorry, I don't get you, but that's absolutely right. I generally have no sympathy for obviously stupid people with normal IQ, that's right too. I mean as DesFIP said exactly what I felt, what kind of a stupid man think that, that young hot thing is happy to get it on with him if his having trouble with that in the real world. A man thinking with his cock. Not very attractive to me. I do have disdain for men who can't think with their big brain.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:39:45 PM   
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It is also a crime to chew gum in your country.

It's not a crime to chew gum. It's a crime to sell gum that serves no dental or medical purposes. You can get gum from the pharmacy and chew them legally. Or you can buy gum from the US and bring it into Singapore and chew them legally.

It is illegal to chew,buy or posses gum in singapore without a medical perscription from a licensed doctor. This means that it is a crime to chew gum in your country unless you have permission which the overwhelming majority(more then 90% if I am not mistaken) do not.
They also use corporal punishment in your country. It obviously does not work because people still get cained every week.


Anyway, the no gum is a great rule.

I do not chew gum so it does not affect me.

I notice Australia buses always got gum all over, and sometimes if you are unfortunate, it gets on your hair cuz some asshole stick it on the backrest of the bus seat. We don't have these problems and wasting taxpayers money to scrap off all the gum vandalism.


Same shit here. Rude fucking people putting their gum wherever it lands when they spit.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:43:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		A man thinking with his cock. Not very attractive to me.

Have you ever known a man who,from time to time, did not?

I do have disdain for men who can't think with their big brain.

I doubt that that is true while in the throes of passion.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:44:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		In Singapore right now, there is this man who goes on facebook, and makes fake profile of a 15 yr old girls, to lure men chatting up 15 yr olds for sex, and then get their pic and post it out on a website to shame them. I think his doing a good job! Also in our country, it's against the law to groom underage girls for sex. So even if sex never happened but if you propositioned it to them online, it's a jailable crime. Sometimes, I do love my country alot on certain things like these! I am glad these men lives are ruin, they are what make this world unsafe for young girls who are vulnerable. Over a 100 men were prosecuted recently, and it's crazy to see that they are fathers of young daughters and educated and professional people, doctors, lawyers, Directors.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:50:15 PM   
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I doubt that that is true while in the throes of passion.

But for him to reach that throes of passion with me, he gotta use his big brain to impress me first.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:53:21 PM   
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It is illegal to chew,buy or posses gum in singapore without a medical perscription from a licensed doctor. This means that it is a crime to chew gum in your country unless you have permission which the overwhelming majority(more then 90% if I am not mistaken) do not.
They also use corporal punishment in your country. It obviously does not work because people still get cained every week.

Um, it is seriously not illegal to chew gum at all. I always get gum from Malaysia, wave it infront of the police and offer them gum, never got arrested. The law is no selling gum, NOT no chewing gum. It's very clear to all of us locals that we can freely chew gum if they are purchased from another country.
I really believe in corporal punishment. You barely see any graffiti around anywhere, so clearly it works. Nobody wants to end up like Michael Fay.




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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 1:53:55 PM   
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I doubt that that is true while in the throes of passion.

But for him to reach that throes of passion with me, he gotta use his big brain to impress me first.



That was my point.

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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 2:03:18 PM   
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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 2:09:09 PM   
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We aren't speaking of 'young' girls at all - unless you are reading something we can't see.

And, the topic is about a bunch of stoopid men who didn't think with their big head and got caught in some opportunist online 'sextortion'.
The way females dress and how men get caught up in such crimes are most certainly relevant and within acceptable thread drift IMHO.

We call it 'sticky beak' over here - essentially, over moderation on quite relevant tangents.



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RE: Police warn men over online 'sextortion' - 5/16/2014 2:12:56 PM   
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